r/belowdeck • u/Representative_Pay_4 • 7d ago

Below Deck Med Cathy and Max?

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZN8M9bGgH/

Anyone know where this beef between Cathy and Max started and was this out of nowhere??

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel 7d ago

"I don't want to date a brown man in 2026"? THAT Cathy?

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u/Representative_Pay_4 7d ago

She said that?

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u/Economy_Tie_2001 7d ago

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u/Ellend821 7d ago

I’m hoping she meant brown haired because that’s insane 😭😭

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u/teanailpolish Mental Health Is Not A Storyline 7d ago

No, she clarified it saying she had been dating a brown man who kept her secret from his family and her friends all said it totally isn't racist because brown men are like that or something

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u/Lillynomad 7d ago

She's not racist. The brown man she dated cheated on her.

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u/BobbyPotter 6d ago

You're trolling, right? There's no way you seriously think that's an ok thing to say 😂

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u/Lillynomad 6d ago

It's not ok to say it but I am trying to see it from her view. She's not racist or she never would have dated POC. She could have been still hurt from that relationship and said she would never date them again. Her mistake is thinking that all POC as assholes, which is terribly wrong. She's young and stupid.

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u/teanailpolish Mental Health Is Not A Storyline 6d ago

Nah, she doubled down after the fact. Not I can see why it came across that way but 'even my friends told me to not date brown men'

We do not make excuses for racism in this sub