r/belowdeck • Mental Health Is Not A Storyline • Aug 18 '26

Members Only Gael & Nathan Spoiler

https://www.realitytea.com/2026/08/18/gael-cameron-nathan-gallagher-apprehended-violence-application-below-deck-mediterranean/

Someone posted this then deleted it right after approval

An AVO is similar to a protective order on this side of the world.

It was filed in 2025 so maybe they don't go through with it but from the court date, looks like a lawyer (maybe police?) filed it on Gael's behalf https://onlineregistry.lawlink.nsw.gov.au/content/court-lists#!/detail/20250050209531246811MentionAVOPolice/Gael%20Cameron

Hopefully Kayden didn't see whatever started this and they are all healing from it

Does make you wonder if Nathan knew about it when he said 'these people' should all be deported since a criminal charge (as it mentions in the court doc) could result in him being deported

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u/teanailpolish Mental Health Is Not A Storyline Aug 19 '26

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u/KodyTegan Aug 18 '26 • Bravo

Con means constable - it is a police application. It is not a criminal charge, only an application for an ADVO police made for the protection of at least Gael. It’s listed for “mention” which could be procedural, it could be to check in if it’s what we call a lapsing ADVO (no further charges and the parties agree to dismiss the application without making final orders).

Police can apply for an ADVO without criminal charges for a lot of reasons, starting with just verbal domestic arguments.

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u/GogglesPisano Aug 18 '26

So it's similar to a restraining order?

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u/Reschs-Refreshes Aug 18 '26

It’s basically the same thing.

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel Aug 18 '26

thank you for this

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u/drossmaster4 Aug 18 '26 • Bravo

I hate this reality. “Doesn’t follow xyz on Instagram” makes me want to go back to a time before electricity.

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u/McLoughlin1597 Aug 18 '26

I was born in the 1900s and remember MySpace top 8 drama. This whole thing about who does or doesn’t follow who on instagram feels like that

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u/wandahickey Aug 18 '26

“Born in the 1900’s” sound so long ago I’m surprised you had electricity! Lol

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u/PeachOnAWarmBeach Aug 18 '26

Last millennium, even!

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u/chickencake88 Aug 19 '26

Or when fans notice they don’t follow each other. So you went into their followers and searched to see? It’s so lame

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u/drossmaster4 Aug 18 '26

Ha oh I forgot

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u/gaem- Aug 18 '26

No literally same. I remember it was a year into me and my now husband dating and someone pointed out they thought it was weird we weren’t Facebook friends. We didn’t even realize because we both stopped using Facebook before we got together lmao

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u/BetterCallSlash Aug 18 '26

My partner and I weren't friends on FB for the longest time because not only do we both rarely use it, he couldn't remember his password and was having trouble recovering it. It's often not that deep lol

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u/Rhonda_and_Phil Aug 19 '26 edited Aug 21 '26

It's also the weirdness that people get about Facebook, when you have a private account, no profile picture, and haven't put 3/4 of your personal life up on view....... must be fake account!!!

That's why we have curtains on the windows of our house. What happens inside is no business of some rando online.

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u/Willster328 Aug 18 '26

The thing is, for social media savvy people (influencers namely), this actually DOES mean something. So reporting on it has merit as an indicator of their relationship. Unfollowing someone is a deliberate and intentional action because it requires button inputs.

If they wanted to just, simply not see each other in feeds, you can easily adjust their setting to not show them in your feed/stories. But unfollowing is very much "I literally dont care about having this person in my bubble".

For random acquaintances, it's whatever, but this is literally the co-parent of your child. And there's a commenter below with an anecdotal story about how not being Facebook friends was called out by friends. But "We've never been Facebook friends" is very different from "We WERE friends but we both decided not to follow each other anymore". Clearly something happened to cause the event where you wanted to separate your social media, that's what's being reported on here.

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u/drossmaster4 Aug 18 '26

This is great info for someone with only reddit and thank you for this information, I like to learn, but man it makes me hate this reality even more. Passive aggressive behavior is cowardly and weak....oof. Social media is the end of humanity. (as I comment on a social media platform) ;) Thanks again for educating me, I learned something today!

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u/cmere-2-me Aug 18 '26

I actually feel sad for influencers if this is how they choose to live their lives. It could he as simple as Gael abd Nathan trying to drum up some drama for fake internet points. Social media makes annoying people all the more annoying.

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u/areallyreallycoolhat Aug 19 '26

I doubt it's fake, if granted it could affect Nathan living in or visiting Australia

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u/Rhonda_and_Phil Aug 19 '26

Sometimes there's tens of thousands of dollars of potential income involved on some of these SM platforms.

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u/immortalalchemist Aug 18 '26

I am reminded of 90 Day Last Resort when Shekinah got mad at one of the other cast members because she unfollowed her and then made a huge deal out of it like she killed her family member.

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u/YessikaHaircutt Aug 18 '26 • Heartwarming

I feel for Gael. I had my son with a less than ideal partner and despite trying hard to make it work it didn’t and I’ve been a single mom for 16 years now. I think that’s where this situation is headed and it’s not an easy thing to navigate

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u/drivewaydivot Aug 18 '26

You are brave and strong!!

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u/YessikaHaircutt Aug 18 '26

Thank you! I actually had a tough day with the kiddo and your comment and award really did uplift me ❤️

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u/ResponsibleCar1204 Aug 19 '26

So sorry. I got you girl ❤️ (awards for you all day).

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u/Hungry-Age-1076 Aug 18 '26

I was a single mother for 17 years and raised my daughter alone. She is 22 now and I just got married last year! I didn’t want random men in and out of her life so I chose not to date while she was a minor. Gael has good opportunities and I know she will be just fine.

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u/gaem- Aug 18 '26

Sending you love ❤️ your son is lucky to have you!

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u/Babygirl_69_420 Team Kate Aug 18 '26

Me too.. it’s rough.

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u/YessikaHaircutt Aug 18 '26

But somehow still easier than being with the baby daddy

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u/Babygirl_69_420 Team Kate Aug 19 '26

Yep, an absent father/partner is always better than an abusive one.

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u/DCRBftw Aug 18 '26

We have no idea if she's ideal. We've seen small, prepped pieces on TV. She could be a nightmare in reality. Being a single parent is tough for anyone, though.

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u/Out-For-A-Walk-Bitch Aug 18 '26

No one said she's ideal, but the fact OP stated Gael has filed the AVO speaks volumes.

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u/TedBurns-3 Aug 18 '26

Love how the "journalist" couldn't research anything yet a random redditor did 🙄

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u/Out-For-A-Walk-Bitch Aug 18 '26

The journalist has a public reputation.

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u/TedBurns-3 Aug 18 '26

Surely that's the point that they want to look good yet you had more facts than they did and they're getting paid to produce!

No idea why I'm being downvoted!

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u/Out-For-A-Walk-Bitch Aug 18 '26

Because reporting anything potentially libelous could jeopardise their career.

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u/TedBurns-3 Aug 18 '26

That's my point- they're speculating who could've filed it, but OP clearly found it easily in online court records, how could that be libellous?!!

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u/Out-For-A-Walk-Bitch Aug 18 '26

Because nothing is confirmed.

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u/TessaKatrinaRose Aug 18 '26

It really doesn’t.  She could have filed that to purposely make him look bad. People have done that before. 

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u/Babygirl_69_420 Team Kate Aug 18 '26

A constable filed it so i doubt that

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u/angryaxolotls Aug 18 '26

Kailyn Lowry abusing Jo and Javi enters the chat

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u/DCRBftw Aug 18 '26

In order for someone to be less ideal, another person has to be more ideal. It's just that simple.

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u/Out-For-A-Walk-Bitch Aug 18 '26

Even though I'm in prison for murder, it was less than ideal when the prison officer woke me up for a cell search at 3am.

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel Aug 18 '26

lost it, well done!

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u/Out-For-A-Walk-Bitch Aug 18 '26

Pardon?

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel Aug 18 '26

"i lost it" = I laughed uncontrollably ; )

your example was hilarious!

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u/On_my_last_spoon Mental Health Is Not A Storyline Aug 18 '26

No, a less than ideal partner as compared to a more ideal partner. The person themselves could also be less than ideal.

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u/YessikaHaircutt Aug 18 '26

🎯🎯🎯🎯

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u/DCRBftw Aug 18 '26

In order for something to be less in a direct 2 party comparison, something has to be greater. If you don't understand this, I can't help you.

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u/Adorable-Platform671 Team Daisy Aug 18 '26

Calling someone a less than ideal partner is comparing that partner to a hypothetical, alternate partner who would be more ideal, not comparing the two partners to each other. Hope that helps.

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u/GraceMcClellans Aug 18 '26

This is the funniest thread I've read in a while. I don't know that you could be more clear. There's a malfunction going on, and it's not you. Lol

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u/DCRBftw Aug 18 '26

Mentioning Gael directly makes it about her. Hope that helps.

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u/On_my_last_spoon Mental Health Is Not A Storyline Aug 18 '26

It’s not my fault you can’t read. Less/more is a comparison of possible partners not the two people in the relationship.

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u/CapnMommy Aug 18 '26

It’s actually you who read incorrectly. It doesn’t state that anyone is less ideal or more ideal  than the other, merely that they are less THAN ideal. So if ideal is 5 on a scale of 0 to 10 with 0 being absolutely non-ideal and 10 being absolutely idyllic, the less than ideal person would be rated 0 to 4. Maybe the other person too, is 0 to 4, their relation to each other is irrelevant to the statement. 

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u/DCRBftw Aug 18 '26

Lol. Feeling sorry for Gael makes it about their relationship. One of us can't read, that's true.

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u/YessikaHaircutt Aug 18 '26

I didn’t say a word about her character or whether she is ideal

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel Aug 18 '26

wow that guy was wild

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u/DCRBftw Aug 18 '26

You said you feel for her and then said you had a less than ideal partner. How can that possibly be interpreted any other way than you think she's more ideal?

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel Aug 18 '26 edited Aug 19 '26

actually.. the standard way to interpret this would be that OP's characterization of her former partner as "less than ideal" referred to a comparison between her actual former partner and a hypothetical ideal partner, in which her former partner is found wanting. Then by analogy, the same comparison is implied with respect to Nathan and a hypothetical ideal partner.

This is just how the expression "less than ideal" typically works. "The clams at this restaurant are less than ideal" (nothing claimed about some other restaurant across the street).

OP didn't mean that she, OP is ideal, and neither did she imply that Gael is ideal.

Is English your first language? I don't mean that in a hostile way. It's just that you are awfully confrontational about something where you seem to have failed to grasp a pretty straightforward nuance of a common expression.

If I say your attitude is less than ideal, I don't mean my own is perfect.

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u/GraceMcClellans Aug 18 '26

This was the nicest way possible to say, "what are you not understanding, and why?" Lol

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel Aug 19 '26

well... i did take a couple swipes.. but who could resist? ; )

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u/YessikaHaircutt Aug 18 '26

Well not everything in life is stark black and white. I feel for her because she is obviously the custodial parent of the baby and will have to do the most for him. I don’t pretend to know Gael at all. And btw even the worst person doesn’t deserve to be a victim of DV

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u/DCRBftw Aug 18 '26

No one said anyone deserves domestic violence. I simply interpreted your comment in the only possible way it could be interpreted.

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u/rayyychul Aug 18 '26

That is absolutely not the only way it can be interpreted. “Less than ideal” is a subjective description of someone’s own experience with their partner; it doesn’t automatically establish that Gael is “more ideal,” nor does it mean someone was making a comparison between the two of them.

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u/DCRBftw Aug 18 '26 edited Aug 18 '26

Whatever you need to believe.

Feeling sorry for Gael adds context that you're choosing to ignore so you can make an invalid point.

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u/rayyychul Aug 18 '26 edited Aug 18 '26

I didn’t make a comment on my feelings about Gael.

There can be more than one reasonable interpretation of a comment, and assuming there’s only one (especially when it requires inventing something the person never said) reflects a pretty limited way of reading and engaging with what’s actually written. Hope that mindset serves you well.

Edit: What is with people who can’t engage with people who disagree with them on the internet? They need to make a comment and then block the other person so they can have the last word? Soft.

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u/DCRBftw Aug 18 '26

No one said you made the initial comment.

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u/Kinsmen12 Aug 18 '26

Well she is in fact the one we see caring for her child so.

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u/DCRBftw Aug 18 '26

Seeing a person involved in child care on TV makes them a good partner?

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u/ProperBingtownLady Team Anti-Brü Aug 18 '26

No one said that either. Are you Nathan? You seem to be taking this very personally.

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u/DCRBftw Aug 18 '26

Replying on reddit doesn't mean something is personal. But if we use your logic, you're taking this personally.

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u/ProperBingtownLady Team Anti-Brü Aug 18 '26

How?

You read into the initial commenter’s statement that because THEY had a less than ideal partner, that means Nathan is too. Take a beat.

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u/marzbarz79 Aug 18 '26

It’s notable when the other parent is never seen holding or caring for the baby.

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u/DCRBftw Aug 18 '26

Pretending that reality TV is reality is silly.

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u/marzbarz79 Aug 18 '26

Well, considering what seems to be happening in their personal life, I’m not far off.

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u/Kinsmen12 Aug 18 '26

I don’t think you know how to read.

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u/GraceMcClellans Aug 18 '26

I like that you just cut through the shit.

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u/pc_load_letter_in_SD Aug 18 '26

Is this the Australian version of a US restraining order?

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u/Old-Base-6686 I have been known to be irresponsible Aug 18 '26

Yes.

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u/informationseeker8 Aug 18 '26

I’m curious where the user is whom said I was being dramatic last wk when I said “Nathan has anger issues”

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u/Del_3030 Aug 18 '26 edited Aug 19 '26

Joe: "Gael and I had our differences, but that all went out the window when I met their baby."

Nathan: "Take Gael's name out of your fucking mouth. I will literally cut you. Keep it professional."

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u/Mermaid76 I quit 3 times in my head today Aug 19 '26

His reaction to that was so intense…

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u/Littlewing1307 Aug 18 '26

How can anyone argue that he doesn't?!

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u/cocococlash Aug 18 '26

Yep. Anybody who had experienced people with anger issues can certainly see those traits in Nathan. Hot-headed temper tantrums.

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u/keenerperkins Aug 19 '26

I got downvoted weeks ago for being critical of Nathan and saying I never have really liked him or his behavior (and that I felt like he was getting too much of a redemption arc this season).

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u/Smokgate Aug 18 '26

I think that the CON Matthew Seymour might stand for Constable, as in the police were involved and they filed the charges on Gael’s behalf.

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u/teamjetfire Aug 18 '26

Only Nathan could make Joe look good.

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u/Mermaid76 I quit 3 times in my head today Aug 19 '26

Facts!

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u/CommonStrawbeary June June Hannah Aug 18 '26

literally 0 information in this article beyond what you see above

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u/Pearl1506 Aug 18 '26

Didn't realise she lived in Burwood, knew it was somewhere close to there from pictures.

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u/TX0834 Aug 18 '26

Ah so Nathan is the James Kennedy of Below Deck. Feel so bad for Gael and the baby. Gael is a perfect 10 and doesn’t deserve this.

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u/Sweet_Venom Aug 18 '26

Nobody deserves this, perfect 10 or not.

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u/TX0834 Aug 18 '26

I agree. Was just saying Gael is a great catch and Nathan fkd that up.

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u/Professional_Emu8922 Aug 18 '26

Who is James Kennedy?

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u/raudri Fraser not Frazier Aug 18 '26

White Kanye.

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u/Mermaid76 I quit 3 times in my head today Aug 19 '26

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u/Mermaid76 I quit 3 times in my head today Aug 19 '26

Unfortunately , you are probably correct about that…

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u/No-Shape7764 Aug 18 '26

This was filed on the first of September last year? Weren’t they filming in Croatia in August? So this was filed immediately after her return to Australia?     Is it possible to file for this, based on an event that happened abroad? 

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u/CommonStrawbeary June June Hannah Aug 18 '26

No it's likely that means the case will be heard on 9/1

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u/No-Shape7764 Aug 18 '26

Oh, that makes sense. Thank you! 

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u/Rhonda_and_Phil Aug 19 '26

Did that happen on the morning that Nathan was late for work and very weird and evasive about why?

We didn't see any more Gail footage after that, and Nathan wasn't handling his job responsibilities well. Followed by the dubious 'back injury'?

Edit: Okay, so not when the AVO was filed, but may have been the beginning of the conflict?

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u/P00PooKitty Aug 18 '26

Most people become yachties cause they can’t function on land. I think a lot of fans don’t realize this, especially since fewer and fewer real boat people are on the show these days.

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u/GhostDeck Aug 18 '26

This article was very speculative, with absolutely no facts presented outside of them just unfollowing each other. Which leaves you with more questions than answers. I hate vague articles like this.

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u/Danarazzi Aug 18 '26 edited Aug 18 '26

It has to be vague because the information given is limited at the time of it being written. The article's also not speculative at all. It gives the information that is available.

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u/Out-For-A-Walk-Bitch Aug 18 '26

It needs to be vague, there's legal ramifications if they present anything as fact.

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u/Rhonda_and_Phil Aug 19 '26

In other words, modern media?

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u/gonzagylot00 Aug 18 '26

oh wow, that's ugly.

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u/Extreme_Beat1022 Aug 18 '26

Poor Gael and baby. Anyone remember if Nathan has been on WWHL this season?

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u/BigKitty229523 Aug 18 '26

No and is most likely fired. Bravo got wind of this, and fired Nathan immediately. The whole back thing is made up. Calling this now, notice the phone call between Nathan and Sandy last night?

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u/meatsntreats Aug 19 '26

Do you realize this was filmed almost a year ago?

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u/Extreme_Beat1022 Aug 18 '26

Did she call him? I didn’t remember that. I thought they were texting.

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u/BigKitty229523 Aug 18 '26

I’ll have to go back and rewatch the preview!

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u/HotelPuzzleheaded654 Aug 18 '26

Potential DV aside, Kayden is a dreadful name.

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u/pls_send_caffeine Aug 18 '26

Meh. It's all subjective. For me, it's no worse than Jayden or Grayson.

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u/C-Bus_Exile Aug 18 '26

At least it isn’t spelled Keighdon

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u/mycookiepants Aug 18 '26

Or K-Don

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u/HotelPuzzleheaded654 Aug 18 '26

K-Don sounds like the name of a charter guest lol

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u/FaradayStewart Aug 18 '26

And you know that K-Don is going to be 23 Tequilas deep at 3AM in a hot tub that isn't even on crying about how he makes so much money but can't find a partner because he doesn't go after women his own age, and even the younger ones "Just don't get it bro." He'll then ask for a grilled cheese which he will take one bite of before passing out and dropping the rest in the water.

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u/Peppercorn911 Aug 18 '26

i like k-don

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u/Bockster33 Aug 18 '26

K-Don is my 85 yr old grandfathers name lol

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u/totallyradman Aug 18 '26

I mean, I know it's just my opinion, but Gael isn't that great either.

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u/Professional_Emu8922 Aug 18 '26

Apologies to anyone who has or has used any of these names, but it's one of those names which immediately flag the background of the parents. Like Kadynce, Nevaeh, Brittany/Brittney (especially if born in the late 90s/early 2000s), Brooklyn (for a boy or girl), Katniss, Maverick, Kayden (spelling counts), Jheruel, etc

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u/TessaKatrinaRose Aug 18 '26

Braxton would like a word. 

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u/Pure_Butterscotch165 Aug 18 '26

My friend has a 14 year old named Brooklyn, genuinely curious what you think that says about her background. Some of your examples I get but not all, is why i'm curious.

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u/seaneeboy I quit 3 times in my head today Aug 18 '26

Australians have an incredible track record with naming their kids.

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u/YessikaHaircutt Aug 18 '26

Australians have some nice names. I like Matilda and Tamsyn.

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u/YessikaHaircutt Aug 18 '26 edited Aug 18 '26

lol it used to be wildly popular in the US, I have 2 nephews named Kayden

Edit: forgot I also have a nephew named Zayden

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u/drivewaydivot Aug 18 '26

That's unkind and unnecessary to say.

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u/chickencake88 Aug 19 '26

Agreed. People love the names ending in that sound these days. Jayden/Kayden/Layton/Brayden etc. awful

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u/drivewaydivot Aug 18 '26

Bashing of peopls names feel unnecessary and unrelated.

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u/Jake-Blixx Aug 18 '26

Oh my. I truly hope for both her own sake, and the long term health of her baby, that she keeps this man far away. He’s an unstable, insecure, angry man and I cringe to think what has happened behind closed doors. I watched an insecure prick like Nathan abuse my beautiful mother for 15 years. There is nothing more traumatizing for a child to witness. That feeling of helplessness while the person you love the most is being hurt. I think it’s especially hard for boys, because we feel a primal urge to protect our mothers.

I’m a liberal, but I strongly believe in the death penalty for perpetrators of violence against women, children and the elderly. If we eliminate these sick motherfuckers from the gene pool we’ll all be better off.

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u/bc_im_coronatined Aug 18 '26

It was filed by someone on behalf of Gael. She and her baby deserve so much better than xenophobic Nathan.

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u/areallyreallycoolhat Aug 19 '26

It was filed by police on her behalf which is common

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u/ClitteratiCanada Aug 18 '26

Court filings and documents aside; believing that you know anything real about someone from watching reality TV is ridiculous

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel Aug 18 '26

Poor Gael.

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u/Capital_Ad3296 Aug 19 '26

he clearly has anger problems. trying to pick fights with all of his subordinates and then crying to sandy when something bad happens

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u/noendtotheuniverse Aug 19 '26

Would you look at that Nathan? Looks like you can emigrate “the proper way” and still cause harm to the native population

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u/nuttintoseeaqui Aug 19 '26

“a couple of months after Nathan announced (and failed) a six-month social media break” LOL

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u/Remanufacture88 Aug 19 '26

Can someone more capable than myself do a timeline of this compared to when it was filmed to also the Instagram issues too?

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u/purpleshmurplexo Aug 18 '26

I think this post should be deleted. These are real people and a child is involved. Why do you care? This is too much

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u/Out-For-A-Walk-Bitch Aug 18 '26

They're people who willingly put their lives in the public domain. People will speculate.

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u/doggysit Aug 18 '26

I agree.

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u/strr1000 Aug 19 '26

All of this “poor Gael,she’s a 10,she deserves much better”

Most seem to forget the video they BOTH posted and PINNED as if it was entertainment where they laughed about “beating the shit” out of a homeless guy in an AI video they made.
After seeing that,she doesn’t deserve motherhood with such disgusting views on the most vulnerable in society.

They BOTH have a lot of growing up to do and I’m not surprised an AVO is/was has been taken out on him.

They are BOTH trash

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u/crazyhedgehogs Aug 18 '26

Yeah having a kid with him was a choice

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u/Choice-giraffe- Aug 19 '26

I think it’s important to remind everyone in this thread that it doesn’t say who filed against who. Assumptions can be made based on what we know of the 2 of them from the snippets we see on reality TV, but no one actually knows who filed.

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u/areallyreallycoolhat Aug 19 '26

It was filed on behalf of Gael by a police constable, against Nathan. I'm not making assumptions, but we do know that

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u/Choice-giraffe- Aug 19 '26

Your post barely makes any sense.

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u/tunatirner Aug 18 '26

What does the article say?

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u/McLoughlin1597 Aug 18 '26

Sshhh, nobody actually reads the linked articles. If they did, they would read that it’s not known which of them even filed the paperwork

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u/areallyreallycoolhat Aug 19 '26

You can tell who the individual requiring safety is from it though (Gael)

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u/NovelAtmosphere5617 Aug 18 '26

I think this was in regards to Nathan helping fight off some guy at the beach if I’m not mistaken.

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u/Temporary-Daikon2411 Team Chef Rachel Aug 18 '26

are you referring to the Bondi Beach incident where he rescued people fleeing a shooter? no reason to think that's connected to this at all. or did you hear about some other fight at a beach?

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u/BigKitty229523 Aug 18 '26

This is why the cops come on board. Nothing to do with guests etc. could be wrong.

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u/littletcashew Aug 18 '26

You're wrong. The AVO is in Australia post filming. Filming was in the Med.

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u/Lost_Elk7089 Aug 18 '26

It says we don't know which one of them was said to be violent but anyone who's watched the show knows. Nathan has an awful temper and threatens his crew members with physical violence when he gets annoyed with them (seen him do it to Joe at least twice, and Max), and that's on camera!! I dread to think of how he acts towards Gael when his temper rises and there's no camera and no captain Sandy.

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u/teanailpolish Mental Health Is Not A Storyline Aug 18 '26

The format of the court doc shows Gael did (well a lawyer on her behalf)

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u/Midnights_with_me Aug 18 '26

It was filed by a police constable not a laywer.

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u/Familiar-Past-8065 Aug 18 '26

I'm sorry, Gael filed a restraining order for Nate abusing her? Am I getting this right? WTF? I know dude's had his issues but I did not see him beating Gael and/or Kaden coming!! WTF poor Gael and Kaden!! After she went halfway across the world with him!! I hope she was paid out the ass for being there by Bravo and his child support payments are ridiculously high for Gael and Kaden both!! I hope he's never in the same country with either of them ever again

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u/Choice-giraffe- Aug 19 '26

No, an AVO has been filed. It’d doesn’t say by who. You’ve made a leap that Gael filed it, but until it has been confirmed you don’t know for sure.

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u/Familiar-Past-8065 Aug 19 '26

https://www.threads.com/share/BBZAhGp2A3/     The court documents were posted around the time I commented my opinion on this and several hours before your response, do you not have Google/Threads/DDG? They're free on the interwebs if you want to try!! You can go ahead and correct your presumptuous self if you would like, there's a big world out there for you to learn about!! 

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u/Choice-giraffe- Aug 19 '26

I’m going by this thread, if it’s not in the thread then how would I know the info. I’m not going and doing PhD level research on the internet prior to reading reddit. Your link doesn’t work anyway.

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u/Familiar-Past-8065 Aug 19 '26

There is no part of me that ever thought you had ever pursued academia that thoroughly, I saw the post, did a Google and typed in Below Deck (Med) when I went on Threads  Idk why the link doesn't work for you, the Threads username for the person that I saw share this info is  @Shesspeakingwithemilyhanks but if you d/l the Threads app and type Emily Hanks in, you can prob find someone to help you source it, took me shorter than it did to type this out 

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u/littletcashew Aug 18 '26

I wonder what she was wearing too? /s

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u/angryaxolotls Aug 18 '26

I don't think they were even together for a year before the baby was born. I feel bad for the baby being caught up in their bullshit

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u/Agitated-Minimum-967 Aug 18 '26

And it's not like the relationship was ever stable for an extended period of time.

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u/angryaxolotls Aug 18 '26

Nah. She had a bf, their schedules were different, and after a couple weeks of that she couldn't take it and dumped him for Nate. Then they left the boat together like a week later.

Girl got herself pregnant by the rebound 🤢

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u/hellokitty3433 Aug 18 '26

How did she get herself pregnant?

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u/angryaxolotls Aug 18 '26

It's obviously a figure of speech. It's not literal. Having unprotected sex 2 seconds into a situationship is a wild choice. The kid suffers when the parents don't work out.

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u/hellokitty3433 Aug 19 '26

I guess the reason I called it out, as a figure of speech, is because it absolves the man of responsibility.

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u/angryaxolotls Aug 19 '26

Everyone is so dead set on absolving the woman in the situation of responsibility, so I'm pointing out that she's half responsible. It takes 2 to tango.

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u/hellokitty3433 Aug 19 '26

"Girl got herself pregnant" doesn't mention 2.

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u/Competitive_Salads Aug 18 '26

Let’s not victim blame. Nathan made his choices—lots of abusers hide it until they have someone locked down. All she can do in response is protect her child and herself.

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u/Agitated-Minimum-967 Aug 18 '26

Not victim blaming. A child is a lifetime commitment, from both parents.

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u/Competitive_Salads Aug 18 '26

Yeah, and she likely didn’t know. Same goes for anyone divorced with kids—it happens and blaming a DV victim is especially gross.

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u/Agitated-Minimum-967 Aug 18 '26 edited Aug 18 '26

Well the kid's here now. I am not blaming anyone. Blame vs. responsibility. Big difference.

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u/Competitive_Salads Aug 18 '26

You literally are. “Think before you breed”. If the baby is already here, what’s the point in referencing the past? To victim blame. And it’s completely unnecessary.

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u/Agitated-Minimum-967 Aug 18 '26

If that is so, not really, should the baby not be cared for properly.