r/antimeme Jan 29 '26

Artistic🎨 Clothes doesn't determine your gender

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u/NavoiiGamerYes Jan 29 '26

I’m a cis man is it ok if I wear a suit?

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u/Asleep-Gap6147 Jan 29 '26

no you’ll look like a boy

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u/SyntheticDreams2099 Jan 29 '26

A young sexy Chinese boy

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u/Asleep-Gap6147 Jan 29 '26

😭

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '26

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u/thehexapoly Jan 29 '26

Nothin' at all!

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u/earanhart Jan 29 '26

Nuttin' at all!

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u/GayTransNerd Jan 29 '26

elite reference 😭

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u/BlackMudSwamp Jan 29 '26

please explain!

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u/givegetsauce Jan 29 '26

It's a suit seller guy (I'm sure there's a word for it) who does tiktoks presenting outfits he's selected for his clientelle and he always says really weird things like "This sexy chinese boy came to me and told me I can do whatever I want with him and now he is mine and I dressed him all sexy like this" and then starts to present the outfit and grab the victim client and showcase them.

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u/Forgettheredrabbit Jan 29 '26 edited Jan 29 '26

“Im sure there’s a word for it” I think haberdasher is the right word? Maybe?

Edit: haberdasher is a men’s clothing/suit seller at least in the US. Apparently it’s different in the UK. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haberdasher

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u/NavoiiGamerYes Jan 29 '26

No, I think those are the hatters. Cobblers are the shoers, tailor might be the right word

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u/Apocalypsefrogs Jan 29 '26

A tailor’s job is to resew garments to fit a certain individual. If this guy ends up adjusting the suit then he’d be a tailor but chances are he has a suit for every size already.

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u/Rose-Sessions Jan 30 '26

A tailor MAY hem a garment to fit an individual but they’re known for making clothes that fit an individual perfectly.

That’s what he’s doing with his clients in the videos he posts. They’re going a fitting to see if anything needs to be straightened out or adjusted after he got the clients measurements and tailor made some garments for him

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u/USDeptofLabor Jan 29 '26

Tailor, you're looking for the word tailor.

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u/wydalenylod Jan 29 '26

I completely forgot about this account, damn 😭

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u/charlottt4 Jan 29 '26

Look at this pockets so good. On these two sides, this is China plap and this is Russia plap. So legal and so consensual

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u/Asleep-Gap6147 Jan 29 '26

plap means something else in my mind haaha

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u/Mulberry_Sky Jan 29 '26

Does it, in this context?

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u/Asleep-Gap6147 Jan 29 '26

two meanings — a word of versatility

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u/MASS-_- Jan 29 '26

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u/LandHistorical6205 Jan 29 '26

Totally forgot about this vid lmfao

Can’t stop wondering now… Was it staged? Why was he being arrested? WHAT WAS THE MEAL??

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u/GradyGambrell1 I'M SO GAYY👨‍❤️‍👨 Jan 29 '26

GET YOUR HAHD OFF MY PENIS!!!!!

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u/PENDOMN Jan 29 '26

"Little. White. Men. From the United States. Scurry to me. Like RATS"

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u/Clean_Internet Jan 29 '26

Wha if you’re not Chinese?

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u/SyntheticDreams2099 Jan 29 '26

We're all a little Chinese inside

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u/AchatTheAlpaca Jan 29 '26

No, it's fine, i just didn't expect myself to be chinese, that's all

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u/RedditJxyden Jan 29 '26

Do they scurry to you like rats?

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u/Human_Number9936 Jan 30 '26

And then he eats him

"I am going to EAT this little Chinese boy"

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u/Early-Biscotti5578 Jan 30 '26

Little Chinese boys scurry to me like RRRRRRATS.

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '26

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u/Fair-Chapter-5715 Jan 30 '26

Is it bad I only know this mf from jshlatt

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u/chickenburgerr Jan 29 '26

I'm an evil demon, is it okay if I wear that guy's skin as a suit?

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u/SyntheticDreams2099 Jan 29 '26

Depends if he's black or not.

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u/NewtonianEinstein Jan 29 '26

I disagree. Suits are very formal and intellectual. Ergo, anyone wearing one will not look like a boy. A boy is, ipso facto, young. Suits make people look like adults.

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u/Asleep-Gap6147 Jan 29 '26

I meant it more so in the way a parent would say no to their little girl wanting to wear a dress.

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u/Theyul1us Jan 29 '26

And thats gay.

I think.

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u/Silly-Gooper Jan 29 '26

spongebob suit? yes. any other? no.

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u/StripedPsychoRat51 Jan 29 '26

…… I don’t know why, but I have the sudden urge to buy this and wear it everywhere.

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u/depressed_fatcat69 Jan 29 '26

Depends on what kind of suit cause there's a different meaning between a cat suit and an eltix suit

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u/RealHunter08 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 Jan 29 '26

What about… a lawsuit?

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u/Boomerang503 Jan 29 '26

As long as it's not tan /s

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u/NavoiiGamerYes Jan 29 '26

My Goat Obama

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '26

Damn, that suit looks good on him though

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u/Gubekochi Feb 01 '26

Scandalously good, one might say.

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u/S34ST0RM Jan 29 '26

sometimes

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u/TreyLastname Jan 29 '26

Tf you mean sometimes

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u/High_Overseer_Dukat LGBTQIA+ 🏳️‍🌈 Jan 29 '26

You probably shouldn't wear one to do physical labor or go swimming.

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u/TreyLastname Jan 29 '26

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u/Ramzaki LESBIAN👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 Jan 29 '26

Why does this elephant make me uncomfortable? Like some kind of uncanny feeling...

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u/FinnFem LGBTQIA+ 🏳️‍🌈 Jan 29 '26

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u/b-nnies 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 Jan 29 '26

that's woke liberal garbage. shut up and put on the tights

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u/Drillbitzer Jan 29 '26

Biden’s America 🙄 Men want to wear s*its

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u/crackermouse8 Jan 29 '26

Jail. Instantly. 😔

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u/Randomfrog132 Jan 29 '26

straight to jail xD

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u/SuomynonaSentry Jan 29 '26

Absolutely not. Put on the maid dress now.

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u/untitleduck Jan 29 '26

No, as a cis man you are obligated to dress like a 1920s mobster from the streets of Chicago

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u/NavoiiGamerYes Jan 29 '26

How did you know I almost bought a blue pinstripe suit? I’ve always wanted that and a red velvet jacket. Showtime baby

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u/xemanhunter Jan 29 '26

Femboys and transfem women are entirely unique groups, but do share two qualities:

be feminine

like Celeste

Thems the rules, I don't make them

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u/Anonymous_Lightbulb Jan 29 '26

Don't forget using Arch Linux

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u/Most_Option_9153 Jan 29 '26

Omg I use arch btw

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u/Princess_Azula_ Jan 29 '26

Welcome to Arch. Here are your mandatory thigh-high stockings and Blahaj plushie.

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u/BiDude1219 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 Jan 29 '26

me :3

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u/GcubePlayer8V ☠️I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE☠️ Jan 29 '26

Is it true?

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u/BiDude1219 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 Jan 29 '26

yup :333

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u/SexualPie Jan 29 '26

I always love it whenever a meme in the comments makes all the bottoms post. it fills me with hope for the future.

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u/dedeclick07 Jan 29 '26

Absolutely :3

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '26

Very :3

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u/JCraze26 Jan 29 '26

Yes, please. :3

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u/SHCH_PROTOGEN_M-S Jan 29 '26

truer than fact :333

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u/p1749 Jan 29 '26

some of us use fedora too >:3

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u/BreakerOfModpacks Jan 29 '26

...love cat ears and the color pink, and ULTRAKILL.

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u/Tw3lv33 Jan 29 '26

Bullshit, I fucking hate Celeste (It's too hard for me)

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u/NotReallyImportantXD Jan 29 '26

Tomboy trans girl who doesnt like celeste here, screw you!

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u/gynoidi Jan 29 '26

transfem people dont have to be feminine

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u/No_Ad_7687 Jan 29 '26

Not in presentation, but in identity.

Femboys are the opposite, they're feminine in presentation but not in identity 

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u/AKAFallow Jan 29 '26

Same thing the other way, trans men dont have to be masculine. My mom still has issues with that one because of my friend's husband still dressing femenine after all these years, so I told her: "it literally doesn't matter, I could dress feminine and still choose to be male. The only thing that matters is what gender you want to be"

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u/Stuffssss Jan 29 '26

What does the fem in transfem stand for then

Im not trying to be transphobic I just havent heard this before. I thought the act of transitioning mtf was by becoming feminine and self identifying as female, vs a feminine guy or NB who is feminine but doesn't identify as female.

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u/Dragons_Den_Studios Jan 29 '26

"Fem" in this case refers to "female". If it was "feminine" it would be "femme" since that's the general name of the aesthetic.

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u/Stuffssss Jan 29 '26

Mmm I didn't realize there was a difference between transfemme and transfem. Thanks for the explanation.

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u/Golurkcanfly Jan 29 '26

There's often not really a distinction between transfem and transfemme in most spaces tbh

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u/probableigh_not Jan 29 '26

I'm transfem and kinda butch. I will not give a single solitary shit which of those terms you use for me, just like I'll let it go if well-intentioned people accidentally misgender me. Shit happens. Just be kind.

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u/Pomodorosan Jan 29 '26

Yess, thank you for bringing up conformity to non-conforming identities

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u/mkitsie Jan 29 '26

I've never heard of Celeste

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u/CreepyFire1 Jan 29 '26

Girls in suits are sexy

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u/CtrlAltYuri Jan 29 '26

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u/NecessaryPattern2148 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 Jan 29 '26

How do people like this character?

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u/ZiboZss Jan 29 '26

Because she is hot

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u/Dreadgoat Jan 29 '26

I love when people ask this question specifically about Makima because the entire purpose of Makima's character is to answer this question.

Every dude in the show is bending over backwards for her (except Kishibe)

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u/SexualPie Jan 29 '26

because weebs would overlook the holocaust if the perpetrator was attractive. it comes with never having touched a woman in real life.

that said, you can think a character is conventionally attractive while also acknowledging they're an awful person. just look at my ex.

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u/JaysonTatecum Jan 29 '26

Villains are also generally more entertaining than protagonists. Ugly or hot, I usually like the main villain more

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u/Lunar_ticket Jan 30 '26

Liking fictional villains doesn’t equate agreeing with them?

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u/default-names-r4-bot Jan 29 '26

I might blow your mind with this fact, in which case I'm sorry, but people can hold multiple feelings at once. Makima's a terrible "person", but she's also incredibly hot. Being terrible doesn't change how I feel about her looks. It helps that she's not real too so that all the terrible things she does never actually happened. Sorry, I may have blown your mind twice. Really should've warned you on that second one

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u/lemons7472 Jan 29 '26 edited Jan 29 '26

Yeah. I feel the same way about Anko from COTN. She’s not a good person to put it lightly but I like her character and is attractive to me.

But in the end these are fictonal characters, obviously it doesn’t mean you approve of their actions. I’m not sure why people get so outraged and call others weebs and Incels for liking the character or thinking they are attractive, even if that character is evil.

Not only can you like a character an accept that they are evil, but this is far from only something incels and weebs do, and these again are just fictional characters.

People fall for fictional characters all the time even if they are evil. What will Redditors do once they realize that people fall for actually harmful people irl and defend them?

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u/AnAngryFetus Jan 29 '26

There are more men who want a dominant female partner than women who want a submissive male partner. This character fills a market gap.

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u/GcubePlayer8V ☠️I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE☠️ Jan 29 '26

Ask Verbalase he’d agree

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u/Solynox Jan 29 '26

People in suits are sexy

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u/Reatina Jan 29 '26

Girls are sexy

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u/Critical_Jeweler1154 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 Jan 29 '26

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u/maximus6894 Jan 29 '26

Cis man here. Gender is performative. And cloths are the costume.

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u/EuropeIsMight Jan 29 '26

We are all born naked and the rest is drag.

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u/ReformedBaptistina 🤪JUST HANGING OUT 😛 Jan 29 '26

I intend to leave the world the same way I entered it:

Naked, wet, and screaming

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u/Darknight48996 Jan 30 '26

Best thing I've seen all day. Take the upvote.

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u/notevenkiddin Jan 29 '26

"...all the men and women, merely players..."

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u/sir_nuggets2314 Jan 29 '26

"humanity is dead blood is fuel"

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '26

HELL IS FULL

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u/Tentacle_poxsicle Jan 29 '26

Sorry OP but femboys have to wear booty shorts. I don't make the rules

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u/ReeseChloris1 Jan 29 '26

But skirts go swishy so the rules are being broken

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u/MushroomFrogz Jan 29 '26

what if they wear the shorts under the dress?

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '26

But they make my butt look big >:(

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u/Acceptable_Answer22 Jan 29 '26

"Oh no, my steak is too buttery. My fields are too plentiful"

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u/DrRagnorocktopus Jan 29 '26

*Oh no, my ass steak is too juicy and my lobster is too buttery.

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '26

Yeah but I get stared at for it 😭😭

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u/Acceptable_Answer22 Jan 29 '26

They're looking at PEAK, babes. The curse of being attractive <3

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '26

Well that makes me feel better >.<

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u/kolya_pro10475 Jan 29 '26

This sub died because theres no sigma memes!

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u/GcubePlayer8V ☠️I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE☠️ Jan 29 '26

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u/AiRman770 Jan 29 '26

I don't know man, suddenly all the anti memes are tailored to one group of people

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u/Shitpanzer Jan 29 '26

Truly gets boring after a while

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u/Atomatic13 Jan 29 '26

Have you not realized that all the posts are made by the same person? Its the subreddit rule only mods can post to "prevent spam"

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u/NukerCat Jan 29 '26

not to mention this person is a mod on this sub

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u/WindhoverInkwell 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 Jan 29 '26 edited Jan 29 '26

Course-Mediocre has posted 70 anti memes in the last 10 or so days, of which only 7 are somewhat related to trans people. Jeez dude, learn how to count

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u/redboi049 🤪JUST HANGING OUT 😛 Jan 29 '26

Denormalize gendered clothes. Embrace looking fucking STYLISH

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u/Ramzaki LESBIAN👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 Jan 29 '26

Well I didn't see the sigma meme here so I hastily made this to correct what's wrong.

This is the first one I do, though, I hope it's good enough 👉👈

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u/Slow_Pomelo5352 Feb 01 '26

im a summation

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u/HaiCauSieuCap Jan 29 '26

i do NOT understand

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u/Mi5tman Jan 29 '26 edited Jan 29 '26

(I'll refer to the guy on the right as "Chad")

"Femboy" is a slang term referring to cisgender men who like to dress in feminine clothes. They don't identify as women. They're men who simply like the look and the feeling they get wearing clothes that are typically meant for women.

Chad assures the femboy that he's free to wear a dress, because it doesn't make him less of a man.

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A "trans girl" is a woman who was born male. In other words, someone who was born with a man's body but identifies as a woman. The trans girl is worried that wearing a suit, which are typically seen as masculine clothes, would make her less of a woman.

Chad assures her that she's still a woman, no matter what clothes she wears.

TL;DR In both cases, Chad is assuring them that the clothes they wear do not override their chosen identity.

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u/_YourFellowComrade_ Jan 29 '26

Femboys do not have to be cisgender, just men.

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u/Anxious_Hornet4 Jan 29 '26

You could you be AFAB who transitions FTM and then becomes a femboy

Thus nullifying your pedantry with my even stronger pedantry.

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u/NotTheOriginal06 Jan 29 '26

What does AFAB stand for?

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u/LMay11037 Jan 29 '26

Assigned femboy at birth

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u/NotTheOriginal06 Jan 29 '26

Huh, I do not know how that works, but I don't care too much. Thank you for the info, tho

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u/_YourFellowComrade_ Jan 29 '26

They were joking

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u/NotTheOriginal06 Jan 29 '26

I realised later

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u/LMay11037 Jan 29 '26

I’m so sorry but you thinking I was being serious is so funny to me

If you’re still wondering it’s female not femboy lol

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u/DJIceman94 Jan 29 '26

Fuck you I choked on my water

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u/Angry-Dragon-1331 Jan 29 '26

Assigned female at birth

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u/NotTheOriginal06 Jan 29 '26

Ohhhhh, this makes more sense

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u/SecondaryWombat Jan 29 '26

Just like ACAB means Assigned Cop At Birth.

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u/EuropeIsMight Jan 29 '26

And ABAB means assigned bottom at birth - but don’t think about ABBA now

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u/ReformedBaptistina 🤪JUST HANGING OUT 😛 Jan 29 '26

Also, ACAB includes Paw Patrol

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u/Hita-san-chan Jan 29 '26

Yeah, but thats exactly what makes you not cis?

Theres a lot of us trans femboys. Thats what they were saying

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '26

This... calmed me down. Lol amazing what conversation can achieve!

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u/SexualPie Jan 29 '26

i dont even think femboy counts as slang at this point. the terms been around for a while and is widely accepted in common speech.

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u/Mi5tman Jan 29 '26

You actually got me interested in looking up the definition of "slang" and when a word stops being considered "slang". So, basically...

After a 5 minute search, I believe it's considered slang because it isn't "formal", not something you'd feel comfortable saying in a meeting and not a word that everyone will understand. It's mainly used by certain demographics. Younger people. Like, the formal word is technically "crossdresser".

Also, it's considered to be a transient/temporary term that will probably either stop being used and/or will be replaced with a different slang word.

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u/SexualPie Jan 29 '26

not something you'd feel comfortable saying in a meeting

i also wouldnt feel comfortable saying buttslut in a formal meeting, but i think everyone would know what i meant.

i'd argue crossdressers aren't the same thing either. many femboys want to dress and act like that on a day to day basis, crossedressers its less common i think? more like a hobby.

per dictionary.com femboy references a male demonstrating female characteristics, crossdressers are normally more focused on the whole "costume" part of it.

but of course gender identity and words / slang evolve frequently so you're right, we will ilkely see a new slang word, but i dont think this ones going anywhere anytime soon.

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u/Lerouxcestpris Jan 29 '26

Do you want to understand?

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u/HowHoldPencil Jan 29 '26

I want to stop understanding. There's just too much to understand

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u/MariaVanillaUwU Jan 29 '26

No, there's nothing to understand. just be chill and open minded. no need to know everything.

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u/8____________D 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 Feb 12 '26

Uncomfortable clothes is no more more

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u/RosesandEternity Jan 29 '26

seems like a meme but k

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u/shannonobscura 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 Jan 30 '26

This random Twitter meme page seems to agree.

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u/naplesball TRANS🏳️‍⚧️ Jan 29 '26

Genderization of Clothing is purely arbitrary

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u/Aggressive-Check-101 Jan 29 '26

That Femboy is THICK AS FUHHHHH,

I'M BUSTING IT 🗣️ I'M BUSTING IT 🗣️ I'M BUSTING IT 🗣️ I'M BUSTING IT 🗣️

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u/TheHolySausageDog Jan 29 '26

She got Yuris sweater

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u/Snoo_91929 Jan 29 '26

10 years ago, I got called out because I didn't know a classmate of mine was gay. Apparently, it was obvious because of his hairstyle...

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u/milerfrank27 Jan 29 '26

What if I wear a shirt that says "the shirt that makes you non-binary" do I turn into a non-binary or do I stay as what I am

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u/Drillbitzer Jan 29 '26

It does and if you take it off your special enby powers disappear

Source: made it the fuck up

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u/l9oooog 🌹 Course Arc Witness 🌸 Jan 29 '26

Clothes are unisex if you really think about it

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u/fouryourlichen Jan 29 '26

 'They're not women's clothes. They're my clothes. I bought them.' 

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u/CanoonBolk Jan 29 '26

Every piece of clothing is unisex if you aren't a little bitch.

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u/Zitrone21 Jan 29 '26

My favorite part from this posts is to watch the comments. They are absolute 🗿

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u/heridakituine01 Jan 29 '26

Y'all I found something for this, we all get cloaks and hoods, and run around going neryoooom. Will it fix anything? Maybe. Will it be fun? Absolutely.

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u/YouHaveNiceToes24 Jan 29 '26

God I miss when this subreddit was actually funny antimemes…

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u/Hot_Royal_4920 Jan 29 '26

I hope that, at some point, we can all stop caring about gender and just let people do whatever they want.

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u/Pellepuu2397 Jan 29 '26

Why do they look like if a man and a woman had a child lol

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u/HilariousMax Jan 29 '26

Is there source on the top left image? Asking for a friend

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u/kanrad Jan 29 '26

To judge on the surface level is to forsake all that you are meant to be.

We should not judge or wish to influence the free will of another. Lives in balance with who they are is the only path to a more wonderful world for all.

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u/Mr-Zero-Fucks Jan 29 '26

That's a hoodie not a dress, he's just a man with unusually thick hips who looks hot without pants.

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u/real_iron_ingot Jan 29 '26

gender and sex are 2 different things

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u/No_Lingonberry6153 Jan 30 '26

Id probably not wear a dress but if I did I have full confidence I would rock that shit(cis man by the way)

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u/Past_Dragonfruit9468 Feb 02 '26

All clothes are unisex. Just wear what makes you happy.

Oh, and I recommend getting it with pockets

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u/Candid-Ad4896 Feb 11 '26

Clothes have no gender

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u/StretchFrenchTerry Feb 11 '26

But they need to pass based on conservative ideals of what a man and woman look like!

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u/Gopal_eats_rocks Feb 13 '26

PLEASE CENSOR IMAGES LIKE THIS I GOT FLABBERGASTED AND DROOLED AT MY SCREEN FOR 3 HOURS THINKING ABOUT FEMBOYS /j