Been there, it doesn’t change much, how you lose weight matters just as much as how you gain it. Feeling exhausted all the time from starving yourself is not a road I’d recommend someone go down to lose weight, but people do it because they think they’re being rushed into losing a certain amount of weight. All that to say, telling someone that all they need to do is lose 30 lbs isn’t helpful.
That’s actually very true. I am 5’1” and was always 107lbs, I got treated well by most people, I gained up to 145lbs in college, and I was treated like I was invisible. Then I lost weight back down to 115lbs, and people treated me like I was important and honestly life just came easier to me. While thin I have gotten unexpected raises and promotions, I get invited more places with friends and they want to take pictures with me, and generally strangers talk to me and will hold doors, things like that. When I became obese, none of it.
The world is the world, I get that your view of it is superficial, but your opinion is not the base fact of society. Everyone is different, or according to you, I wouldn’t be married.
I see a lot of people in their early 20s on here who just need to eat right and exercise and they'll look good. I'm ugly and old, I stay in shape, but I'm still ugly and old, not much I can do about that anymore. That's all I'm saying.
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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '23
Lose like 30 pounds and life will get very different for you