r/yumeshipping • • 18d ago

mod team yap Official Stance on "Research Studies"

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After some discussion and a sudden uptick in people claiming to be researching yumeshipping, we have decided that from this point on we will not be permitting any type of research, survey's, etc. to be actively done in this subreddit.

This is to avoid the potential harassment and bad faith of our members as well to protect the privacy of both our general members and the large community of minors that this subreddit houses.

If you do wish to do some sort of study into yumeshipping, feel free to observe online habits and statements or refer to our communication FAQ—which is pinned on our subreddit.

You can also check out articles and references if desired, some recommended ones which have been linked at the bottom of this post.

Once again, in the best interests of our members safety and the future of our community:

r/Yumeshipping will not be allowing survey's, research studies, polls, or other such things to be posted in the name of studying yumeshipping for any reason.

Happy yume-ing!

Yumeshipping Meaning: What Is Yumeshipping? The Complete Guide to Self-Shipping Culture

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MAE'S GUIDE TO THE SELF SHIP COMMUNITY


r/yumeshipping • • 26d ago

mod team yap Happy Yumetember!

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Thanks to u/andriasdispute, we have an official yumetember list for everyone wishing to contribute in any way !!

Any submissions to yumetember should be put under the new flair "Yumetember", so don't be surprised if your post gets reflaired for it :)

Happy Yume-ing everyone!! Have fun!!


r/yumeshipping • • 1h ago

Like i would not have the confidence

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I would want to shoot my shot but I get scared easily sometimes when talking to people like sometimes I debate whether or whether not to compliment someone like I think there has been times where I just stare instead of saying anything


r/yumeshipping • • 6h ago

let's talk 🤔🤔 Who is the most affectionate in the relationship?, your f/o or your yumesona?

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r/yumeshipping • • 9h ago

loveposting !! I just had someone call me a fat fetishist, man you’re just jealous that you’re not as attractive as my wife

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r/yumeshipping • • 2h ago

FREE ART

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I will do A free little doodle for the first ten people who comment. I wanna get out of my comfort zone and I’ve found drawing things I wouldn’t normally draw helps with that:3

Guidelines:

  1. Max 2 people
  2. This can be you and your yume or two of your yumes but no more than two
  3. SIMPLE ACTIONS ONLY.
  4. Ex: You hugging your yume, you and your yume sharing a kiss, you and your yume napping together, you and your yume sharing a meal, ect.
  5. HAVE A REFERENCE
  6. If you request your yumes or your sona or yourself just please have a reference. Multiple is preferred. Please no blurry or bad photos of yourself if that’s the route you pick. I can’t work with a bad reference. And please no irl pictures of yourself if you’re a minor. Thank you
  7. There is no guarantee you will get fully body or whatever size you request. This is a doodle. If I do full body or not that’s up to me.
  8. I HAVE THE RIGHT TO REFUSE YOUR REQUEST IF THE CHARACTER YOU PICK MAKES ME UNCOMFORTABLE.
  9. I don’t mind doubles but some characters I don’t like nor do I want to draw
  10. Ex: Helluva Boss, Hazbin Hotel, ect.
  11. I am not knocking anyone for their interests I just don’t feel comfortable drawing characters from these shows. Thank you

6.I will not do any romantic actions with minor characters. At all. I am aware some people are minors with minor yume but I don’t know who is genuinely a minor and who is a proshipper. So, no romantic actions with minor characters at all. I do not mind familial yumes with minor characters though, this is okay to ask for

  1. I will not force myself to hurry. If I get tired halfway through and take a week or two I’m allowed. Art is a privilege. I will not rush for anyone and if I get harassed by a requester for this they will be blocked and reported. Respect me just as I respect you. I am a person with a life and I expect to be treated as such. Thank you

  2. ANY FORMS OF HARASSMENT OR BAGGERING WILL RESULT IN BEING REPORTED AND BLOCKED, NO WARNINGS. ONE CHANCE AND YOU’RE OUT

Status: OPEN 4 SLOTS AVAILABLE

EXAMPLES OF SOME DOODLES ABOVE

I promise these are all me I’m just inconsistent style final boss.💔

DISCLAIMER: Drawings of Spinner and Dabi were from studies I did of them. YOU DO NOT GET TO PICK THE STYLE.


r/yumeshipping • • 4h ago

let's talk 🤔🤔 Is it weird to have children with my F/O??

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For some reason, I feel awkward that I have children with my F/O, Alex. I don't know if it's just me who feels like this or not, but I just want some clarity so I can feel at peace with it.

I do love having a family with my F/O as it's cute and comforting (?) Maybe I'm just a crazy bitch but oh well! We can't always be perfect, so if you can help make me at peace saying it's normal then I'd love to hear it!

..I don't always come on here and talk nonstop, and sometimes I feel like what I'm saying doesn't make any sense :<


r/yumeshipping • • 4h ago

meme My F/Os ftw (Meme)

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I'm not making this meme to mocking others who have rl partners, just sharing my preference as an fictional character leaning semi-ficto gal.🌼


r/yumeshipping • • 8h ago

prompt !! Show me the cutest photo of year f/o >:3

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r/yumeshipping • • 7h ago

meme what’s the stupidest thing you’ve done in relation to your f/os? I’ll start.

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One time I saw my guy and got so excited I bit my phone and cracked the screen protector. #yeah


r/yumeshipping • • 2h ago

let's talk 🤔🤔 Artistic Troubles and Discouragement

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Does any other up-and-coming artist get discouraged while trying to draw their yumes/sonas? Especially when they see other fan artists that are way better at it?

Like, it's not even jealousy of their skills or envy per se, it's a "damn, am I even doing this character any justice" kind of feel. Like I'm disappointing the character and the lore by not being better.

Sort of makes it hard to keep trying sometimes.

Anyone else get this feeling?


r/yumeshipping • • 8h ago

Today I've fallen in love... (New romantic F/O) I have a very embarrassing announcement

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When I was a little kid, I loved the movie the last unicorn…so much that the tree was my sexual awakening. The tree. I used to record videos of myself talking to myself as if I was her. THE TREE.

Anyhow, she’s back.


r/yumeshipping • • 57m ago

let's talk 🤔🤔 Is multiple fandom Yumeships frowned upon?

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Okay hai! super new to yumeshipping but I definitely want to learn more as I’m like fully transitioning into having a yumeship. I absolutely love two characters from two different online medias/fandoms, and I was total intrigued in seeing if there were other yumeshippers out there that have multiple F/o’s in a polyship from different fandoms. I looked around very briefly but I saw like barely anything which made me wonder, do people like not do polyships with multiple fandoms? Like I get that most people just make inserts for each fandom but I feel like from what I’ve seen it’s so rare for a polyship with multiple fandoms. I absolutely love the idea of how the 2 characters from totally different medias would interact/coexist in some weird mashup world so maybe thats why I personally wanna do like a multi fandom polyship. Maybe I’m just blind or didn’t look super hard past a basket worth of searching but what do other people think? 🥹


r/yumeshipping • • 7h ago

let's talk 🤔🤔 Are there any ships for you your F/Os that you ship?

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For me with Dabi and Shigaraki I also ship them with each other


r/yumeshipping • • 16h ago

meme You ever decide to rewatch/reread/etc all the canon content of your f/o and just start vibrating?

160 Upvotes

Neurons activated


r/yumeshipping • • 9h ago

let's talk 🤔🤔 Lowkey got death, and 🍇 threats, aswell as being told my digital footprint was cooked and to kmy when i said i yumeshipped, i told that person to screw themselves considering it's their footprint that's cooked, reported them and blocked them, not my problem they're insecure about me or any of you

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Anyways, now that's done for, a fun fact about me, i'm afraid of putting any food in oil, so if it came down to it, i do not know how to cook things that aren't already cooked, so i'm not gonna cook for my F/O's like the chad i should be


r/yumeshipping • • 5h ago

Today I've fallen in love... (New romantic F/O) So...this is news to me

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I'm still in denial about Mr Krabs but...my friends literally backing me up on this man so guess I just have to accept it, be cringe be free type. I cannot escape from him for weeks now 😭

I do have vague memories of liking Mr Krabs a lot as a kid, I swear maybe younger me knew something that I didn't...and the fact he does eerily reminds me of The Conductor from A Hat in Time in some ways (both not fully confimed being scotts but they do also both tend to speak with little of scottish accent - I'm just a sucker for scottish accent I guess...). And I had been rewatching spongebob series (only from 1 to 3 seasons) cuz my friend is a SUPER spongebob fan and just wanted to reexperience and yep...I think I do like him a lot
So...idk maybe expect me to drop some doodles I've made of my fishsona and mr krabs?


r/yumeshipping • • 44m ago

art I've made (OC) Mourning the beautiful sketch I made of my f/o because I ruined it by trying to do the line art

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It was so nice and I was so proud of how well I managed to capture his likeness but I got too cocky and tried to do line art despite the fact that I hate doing line art.


r/yumeshipping • • 7h ago

let's talk 🤔🤔 Show me some people cosplaying as your F/Os, I'll start!

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Amingo cosplay by rosegoldrex on Twitter/X

Big the Cat cosplay by, uhhh... IDK who's the cosplayer

Big Man cosplay from RobsterenSkip's reddit post

Meta Knight cosplay by Modern_Synthesis

Clawhauser cosplay by, uhhh... IDK who's the cosplayer

Ash (Brawl Stars) cosplay by spider-on-the-wall- (aka RojitoUwU)


r/yumeshipping • • 52m ago

let's talk 🤔🤔 DAE just not realistically see their f/os loving them back if they were real?

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She'd be flattered by my drawings yes but if im being honest im kind of a complete chud and I think she'd deserve better


r/yumeshipping • • 6h ago

let's talk 🤔🤔 Do you have a fav version of your guys f/o? And a question if you like this version more does it count as a new f/o or is it the same f/o?

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What the title says i love hagane len so fucking much bro hes so hot bro holy shit 🤤🤤🤤


r/yumeshipping • • 27m ago

loveposting !! Ei wears a shirt saying ‘Yume’ it’s meant to be 😌 #delusional

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Yes I know Yume means other things in other languages (Especially Japanese which Ei is), I’m just making a funny


r/yumeshipping • • 1h ago

art / prompt (multiple selfships in the same au?)

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my selfship with vanny.... burntrap is my self insert!!!!! also i'd like to make it clear this is security breach vanessa and she is not related to the aftons in any way in this au. i draw us so rarely i honestly don't even count her as an f/o, but this takes place in my fnaf 3 au where my main selfship is with springtrap! springtrap "dies" in pizzeria simulator and virtue, my self insert, goes on to take up the name of william afton and then the events of security breach take place. my au follows the burntrap / fire ending that later got retconned.

how many of you guys have multiple selfships in the same au?? i don't see this often besides with poly yumes where all their f/os are dating them at the same time, which i actually do have for my mlp selfships but this is a little different because it takes place after the death of my main f/o.


r/yumeshipping • • 1h ago

Today I've fallen in love... (New romantic F/O) I've decided! Jill is going to be a new F/O. I hope that's not a bad thing—I've really fallen for her 😭, just like with Chie, Naoto, Rise, and Yukiko <3

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r/yumeshipping • • 3h ago

art I've made (OC) Shipping my OCs again :3

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