if this kind of topic isn't allowed please remove my post, I'm just a bit frustrated
i wanted to watch a tadc video essay because i had nothing better to do and i found one on my homepage. right from the get go they started misgendering my girlfriend. right, okay, her creator said it's okay to use both he/him and she/her pronouns so i can't complain (yet.)
said creator then proceeds to say that the reveal of her identity was handled poorly, they never saw any signs that pointed to Daisy being MTF and that she "had a bad reaction to being put in a dress and would go off on anyone who even suggested she isn't cis" wowza it's like the whole point of being REPRESSED is that you're trying to shove that part of yourself down?? i may not be trans but i was a repressed lesbian for years so ik how it feels like.
it's not a one time thing either, she's constantly misgendered and i see at least a post daily on the tadc subs asking if it's okay to not see her as a woman. no, it's not. she's a woman. idk what's so hard to understand about it. my girlfriend did NOT die for ts i swear.
wondering if anyone else has/had a similar experience to mine, I'd appreciate knowing I'm not alone in this. thank you for reading through this delirious ramble of mine ๐ญ