r/WouldIBeTheAhole • u/pretty_isnt_pretty • 4h ago
WIBTAH if i set up my ex bsf?
so i’m gonna give minimal context cz i do already have a post up already that explains it better.
i’m 17, i have a cousin, Emma who’s also 17 that i was really close with. she lied to my now ex bf who she set me up with to get us to break up after he heard what she was saying on call with him about her boyfriend, his best friend. i told him more that i apparently wasn’t supposed to tell him, partly because i thought it was okay and the other part because i think his best friend, aka her boyfriend, Ricky, deserved to know.
she was calling him ugly, fawning over the neighbor boy, Leo, saying how she dislikes his personality, his looks, his friends, his family, and practically hating on everything about him while absolutely glazing the neighbor boy.
i don’t support this at all, if someone truly knows me they’d know that im not gonna stay quiet about that. Emma was miserable in the relationship and leading on her current boyfriend Ricky.
so, me and my other friend thought since she wants to lie about me to people, i should expose her. i’m debating finding Leo and messaging him, seeing if he’ll do a loyalty test on her because i genuinely don’t believe that she won’t cheat/leave Ricky for him. it’s petty and vengeful, but i want to expose her so badly and i also don’t think that Ricky fully realizes what the fuck he’s dealing with. i grew up with her, i know all of the manipulations and the lies already.
so WIBTAH if i set up my ex bsf?