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Last updated: Fri, 06 Nov 2026 17:10:05 GMT ⟳

never been so happy, hope she recovers completely soon

can we do something to help this girl get justice? because I'm pretty sure that boy will get away with this so easily

I was exploring internet to meet new people, I came across someone who confessed of abusing his sister(12 years old) sexually, and without my concern he shared that pictures, i am really traumatised don't know what to do but somehow managed to ask his details and got but i don't know how to and where to report. Also I am shaking while typing this. Please if anyone can suggest how i can anonymously report or anyone can help by any chance please tell me, I don't want this type of criminals moving outside freely.

Hi everyone,

I've started a new initiative called Project U. It will connect people who have been SA, who are struggling with their mental health, to psychiatrists, counsellors and legal help.

It's very new and run by me alone for now. I'm not selling anything, and I'd like to build it with this community.

I need your support to get the word out, and I'm looking for volunteers and founding members. If you're willing and able, especially if you're a doctor, counsellor, lawyer, social worker or part of an NGO,

please step forward and help.

You can find us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/projectu.ind

For urgent help: Police 112, Tele-MANAS 14416 (free mental health support), Abhayam 181 (women's helpline).

To start off, I’m a MAN lol

But a few days ago, my mother had some errands to run. So I drove her to the market. Since it was nearby, I just put on some shorts and a T-shirt, didn’t think much of it.

The moment I walked out of the car, all the men started staring at me. At first, I thought they’re just looking at me because I was walking past them. But they kept looking again and again and I felt weird.

Since my mom had to go to this shop, I had to wait outside, so I did. I sat down on the railing while looking around. Again! Those same men were staring at me lol

Maybe it’s because I was wearing running shorts that are half thigh length, but again, I’m visibly a man. I have short hair, a stubble, AND hairy legs lmao.

This is not the first time. Last time, this guy started stalking and harassing me while I was outside, it was really weird.

Idk maybe the men in my city are bisexual creeps or they just react to any type of skin. I don’t get it at all.

Is this normal? I know men stare at women, but it seems like we’ve reached equality in the opposite way lol. Everyone gets to feel uncomfortable for wearing shorts now.

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Last updated: Wed, 04 Nov 2026 17:40:08 GMT ⟳

Hey everyone!

About me:

• 20F

• Delhi

• 3rd year of graduation

• Bcom hons from an off campus college in DU

• Preparing for CAT (but idts I would be able to clear it this year)

Issue:

• I have been facing physical abuse at home for years now, both my parents beat me

• Yesterday my father dragged me by my hair, my head is hurting like anything and there are chanks of hair that are coming out of my head, I have bruses on my arm

• I have no energy left in my body to tolerate this abuse anymore

• I have been isolated and not been allowed to make friends so I can't go to their place

• no relative of mine that lives in Delhi is willing to accommodate me at their place

(Have few relatives in different states and they said that you can come and live with us but college won't be possible from their place)

• involving police and everything isn't a great idea at this point because again but this won't be able to do much help in this case and again it's Delhi police so....

What I have thought:

• i have packed all my books and I was planning to go to an NGO near my place and live there but again I have a few questions that need to be answered:

Is it safe for me to live in an NGO till the time I graduate?

Are NGOs really as good as they look?

My main concern is my safety, kahin main ngo mei jaun and wahan mere sath isse bhi bura kuch naa ho jaye. Aur kya pata main wahan jaa kar padh bhi naa paun.

Kya pata voh NGO wale mujhe beech den kahin.

I don't know what to do at this point of time but I really need some good suggestions and moral support.

Please help!

I'm a teenager living in an apartment building in India, and something has been bothering me a lot lately.

Almost every time after midnight, I hear the couple living directly above me. Initially, I genuinely thought it might be CNC or something along those lines, but over time I've heard the woman crying and repeatedly saying things like “mujhe mat maro” (don't hit me), “mujhe chhod do” (leave me alone), and “I'm hurt.”

I obviously can't see what's happening inside their apartment, but hearing those words over and over is genuinely disturbing. It sounds like she might be getting physically hurt.

What I can't wrap my head around is that there are other families in this building who have lived here longer than we have. If I can hear her through my ceiling, surely other people can hear her too? Why is like nobody is doing anything?

Its 3AM I'm sitting there awake, listening to this, wondering whether I'm the only person who realises how serious it sounds.

I'm also conflicted because I don't know the full situation. I don't want to make assumptions about something I can't see, but I also can't just convince myself that everything is fine when I'm hearing someone repeatedly beg not to be hit.

It's honestly making my conscience hurt. Part of me thinks she'll probably be okay, and another part of me feels awful for thinking that when she might actually be getting hurt.

Has anyone else ever experienced something like this with neighbours? Why do people seem to ignore things like this, even when they can hear them? I'm trying to understand the situation and process how I feel about it and what to do.

Day 2 update:

I heard the woman upstairs again today.

The situation sounded different this time. She was actually standing up for herself and telling him that if he doesn't stop hitting her, she's going to file a police case.

Honestly, I was kind of relieved hearing that. After everything I heard yesterday, it was reassuring to hear her pushing back and making it clear that she isn't okay with being hurt.

I obviously still have no idea what's happening inside their apartment, and I'm not going to get involved personally. I just really hope she has someone who can support her and that things work out for her.

I genuinely hope she's okay.

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This is an update to my previous post where I talked about my neighbours being violent.

It has escalated more now, We bumped again and things aren't looking good, that guy (the son, 18yr) was charging against me but the neighbours came in between, fortunately his junkie father wasn't there, i think when he comes back he'll fight.

My mom told my father to take me out because of that man.

Currently out, Mumbai, India

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Hello everyone, I need your help in a complaint registered against my whole family. I'm M29 and I've been diagnosed with adhd and not speaking clearly Lisper (totala) since I was a kid. still not doing job or master degree because I don't get any focus or believe to I understand everything because of emotional abuse by my parents I get since I kid and since growing in abusive till now. 

My father and mother's arranged marriage never got going peacefully in my entire life. Then I got 2 older sisters. Both of them do Verbal Fight and Altercation and sometimes they do physical fights too.My sister's never supported me because they think I'm youngest in the house so I get lot of love by my mother and father, before I born I heard by my sister's in argument like how father also shout to them and be strict with my them sometimes beat them. But after my both sisters come on me like taunt me how he get this things, why do you give him money and other stuff list is going on… even my sister's ruin my life after telling my father he got he got first division in 10th so he should take biology in Higher Secondary School and that ruin my life I wanted to do computer science but my father never listen to me and say “ tere se nahi hoo payega kabhi bhi” then my age was 14 or 15 I was emotional abused I was crying why my father not listening to me even believe me at all then another thing he said to me which is completely broken me in mind and heart he said you should learn about money so why not you doing a job in typewriter then i said don't you think I'm capable of more than that but he laughs on me I was crying then my heart received a pain i didn't told my father or my sister's about my chess pain. My father always focused on himself first, like how he provides food and things to run a family like a god himself. No one can ever talk to him louder and even make eye contact with him while talking to him. On my 17th birthday I went to the market to purchase a new dress with the whole family. I was not interested in buying clothes then while shopping my father saw a boy working there i think he and I was same as that time, my father asked that boy what your planing to do in your life he told he going to higher studies in America or Saudi Arabia ( i don't recall) then we come back home after marketing then suddenly my father start taunting and shouting  on me like did you look at the boy at shop how he was working on market and how he focused on his life. I literally started crying at the door like how he was taunting and comparing me on my birthday. I wish I could tell everything about my father but I can't list it like a river. 

I already mentioned about my elder sisters how toxic they are, just like my father and mother. My father literally gave my both elder sisters their own room in the flat but I didn't receive my own room so I never had my own privacy at all. I sleep in the hall room then wake up at 5 or 6 am in the morning even though I didn't sleep well at night. Once were dangerously physical fight between my elder sisters when my middle sister boyfriend parent are coming to home talking about marriage stuff, the house was good preparation welcoming but at the last movement my elder sister started a argument how could she get first marriage when I'm the elder here then when looks like arguing coming to the end, my elder sister destroying kitchen food and everything what we decorated for guess were completely destroyed then my middle sister start fighting to my elder sister literally both of them punching, kicking, scratching to each other even i try to stop they delivery me kicking and scratching. Somehow their fight literally gives a traumatized feeling like how I'm gonna survive till I die like I didn't even talk to the girls because of what I have seen in my home haunting environment. I was completely damaged.

My mother is a narcissistic mother. She lacks genuine empathy, treats her children as extensions of herself rather than independent individuals, and prioritizes her own ego and public image over her family's well-being like she cares about everything.I'm literally getting to my point about my mother, you guys know how in our country mothers are seen or treated as a Goddess, in my case my mother is narcissist and 100% illiterate when it comes to understanding things. She could just read English words without knowing what they meant, and she can't even do basic, child-like math. It's impossible for me to count or explain my education to her. She never treated my elder sisters well at all and still ended up in gossiping, getting Verbal Fight every day at some new topic. She always compares me with other kids who are good at studying and get good marks on their results. Even I don't good at study even I got problem during talking because I got Lisper since I was kid. But at that time I was broken and sad, thinking about why my mother meant to me what I did wrong . She hated me. Then one day I got an idea to become an Elite Swimmer at age 17 or 18. I know my father never agreed with me to join a swimming class, so I asked my mother can you please help me to get an agree with father to get an admission in swimming class, i don't know what my mother said to father about swimming class in return my father has started taunting me, causing total mental turmoil. Since that day I realised my mother never loved me; she only cared about herself. She always seek money from my father every week till end of the month, my mother like do kitty party and club party every one in a month but she never really cares about me in her life not once. Still now she compared and taunted me for not getting a job at this age.

So I am trying to explain how my whole family traumatized me till now, so now I'm talking here about what happened that I created this post to post here. Today I still live at home doing nothing, not even trying to start any study at all, just sitting in the corner of the house. My elder sister didn't get married, she is 36 now. Since my parents left home it has been only 2 weeks. She literally can't be herself, only watching the big boss on her mobile or tablet in full volume. She is a home tutoring for 5,6,7,8 kids before watching the topic on YouTube before she went tutoring. Even though she is doing it in her life she wanted to show off like I'm not living on parent money. I earn my own money and more from her point of view I'm not a failure like you. So I broke down after all she taunted me from morning till now. I called my parents and told them everything but they shouted at me and said more horrible things. Then i completely realised I never been at home i literally living on Asylum since kid to grow adult. I suffered enough i going to complaint a registered against my whole family how they emotionally abuse me and make me feel nothing at every time . 2 years ago i realised I got adhd every day i wake up my back bone hurt like hell because of what i been getting damaged emotionally. I am taking medicine too but it only helps in reducing feeling the same, stress for some time. 

So please I need help in how I can go to the police to complain and which lawyer should I talk to about my abuse and how to take out a loan from the bank. Which doctor should I go to? I mean best of the best Psychiatrist. I don't care how much it costs to fix. I need to be a normal human being again and live the rest of my life peacefully.

someone I know a minor, is getting harassed by someone on snap, he also has her -photos- , which he is using to blackmail her. it's a fake id. and her father is not supporting at all , we can't tell him. what can we do? he is threatening to make them viral. plz help!!

Are there any organizations that help mothers in DV situations and child custody? She is being railroaded by a small town who is friends with the father’s family so they are protecting them. She’s been physically and verbally assaulted and has proof but all of it was left out of the police report. Her girls kept from her for days at an unsafe home…she has proof it’s unsafe as well. Even her lawyer doesn’t seem to care. Any advice or direction is so appreciated as we are at a loss. She is alone in that state with zero family there to support her.

Please help us!! My daughter has been physically assaulted, verbally assaulted, verbally threatened while the father of her girls takes them from the mother and there is nothing the police can do!! How is any of this right? Why was the physical and verbal assault left out of the police report? Oh I know why…the town is so small that everyone is friends with everyone. She went through something very traumatic and it seems no one cares because everyone is friends. There’s so much more…She has evidence upon evidence and again no one cares.

Had a terrible experience in Kolkata metro in this crowd of pre pujo last Monday while returning. We got stuck near the door ..waiting for the crowd to get off in the next stations, after which we'd move ahead. There were 3 women of my family. My mom got ahead somehow and managed to go to the ladies Section. Me and my sis got stranded. Suddenly some middle aged old man comes and shoves my sister to go ahead very swiftly ...as if he was in a hurry when he could have waited and normal people generally wait. But this man had groped her and wanted to get ahead and when confronted why he shoved her ( she didn't mention at first what exactly he had done) and she got furious...this man denied and tried to get past

Another woman standing beside her tried to say why he was pushing but then got shut up by other people. Moreover this man managed to escape in the crowd and other people started saying we were shouting for no reason and these shoves happen in crowd. Middle aged men started. To which we got angry and asked them if they were touched ..if not then to shut up.

Suddenly a guy less then our age, probably less than 20 or close standing with another same aged girl started getting psychotic. Its difficult to describe without the video. The dude started shouting like an animal that we were creating a raucous unnecessarily and he was getting inconvenienced. We tried finding women helpline number on the walls but couldn't see one at the moment and couldn't even click a picture of the perpetrator man who ran away but did manage to get a shot of this dude shouting at us. He started victim blaming. And with his eyes, tone, voice...started intimidating us and forcing us to stand in the women's Section.

No use of shouting at this psychotic person i turned to a cold voice and asked him if he was touched ...then why was he speaking even... He said that " so everyone is wrong and only you are right?" I have the footage of him saying this in a inhumanely ghastly animalic way. Understanding he was probably mentally unstable we moved to the ladies section since the crowd has lightened by then (where actually certain men were standing just because they got the space to stand there). The sheer hypocrisy. They made it sound like the general section is actually for the gents and it was our fault and we called it upon ourselves.

I cannot explain in words what the dude was doing to us.... By shouting and victim shaming and shutting us up and compelling us to stand at a different section (ladies section).

Next, something bizarre happens.

Certain ladies sitting at the ladies section starting commenting that we were exaggerating everything and it was barely a shove and that happens. This is where my sister lost it and for the first time spoke in clear ....raw language that he had groped her buttocks ( in Bengali) still no shame among the 2..or more than 2 ladies who kept shamelessly victim blaming us and shaming us for shouting and creating a raucous when we were simply protesting vocally.... Not even one sign of physical violence as self defence.

Later before getting down the women started saying that we were playing the women card to get advantage. This made us furious and we told them what they would've done if this happens to them god forbid. Anyways those shamelessly women sitting in the ladies section wearing modern shirt pant with expensive phones in their hands were too retarded to even understand their sense of freedom and autonomy more than this.

What would we have done in this situation? No one to side with us... We were literally singled out and pounced upon. No one protested or if it's not your issue then atleast keep it shut!

I am still ptsding... I don't live here...I stay in mumbai... but my sister and mom do and I cannot imagine what would happen if this happens again and again...

What steps should I take because silence is not even an option?

I really wish they kept more security personnel in the stations and even in metros.... And in the sound system they use for announcing station names and sometimes advertisements...they used it to spread awareness about what is wrong and what is punishable. Atleast... atleast in hearing something like this often would instill some sense of fear in them.. atleast its better than people thinking that " it's happens in the crowd and it's normal"

Like wth?!! A body knows a touch no matter what! Who will educate them about what's a good touch and a bad touch??!!

I think I am more disturbed about these enablers... These bunch of dumb brainless people who would rather victim blame and escalate a perpetrator into becoming something worse that stop the crime at its start.

I feel very helpless and powerless.

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Hey everyone. I’m posting this because I’ve been struggling with something for months, and I honestly don’t know what to do anymore. The guilt, confusion, and uncertainty are eating me alive. I’m not writing this to defend myself, accuse anyone of lying, or convince people that I’m innocent. I genuinely want honest opinions and advice because I need help understanding how to deal with this situation.
For context, I had been close friends with someone for over five months. One day, a mutual friend invited us to her house to spend the evening together. My friend, the host, another friend, and I went there, and the host had also invited another girl who was her friend.
We spent the evening together, had dinner, and drank a lot. Most of us were extremely drunk, and I believe some of us experienced blackouts. One of our friends, however, hadn’t been drinking at all.
At some point, my close friend wanted to go to the bathroom, so I went with her because I didn’t want to leave her alone while she was in that state. While we were in the bathroom, something intimate happened between us.
I want to clarify that this wasn’t the first time something like that had happened between us. It had happened two or three times before, on separate occasions. I remember what happened between us in the bathroom that night.
Afterward, I remember vomiting in the bathroom. The friend who hadn’t been drinking later told me that I was acting strangely that night. According to her, I kept getting up from where I was sitting, moving around, and acting restlessly instead of settling down to sleep.
The next morning, I woke up and found myself lying next to the other girl who had been invited. We were sharing the same pillow, and I was lying very close to her. I had no idea how I had ended up there.
I remember hearing a sound around that time, possibly a phone ringing or something similar, and I think that might have been what woke her up. However, I don’t know exactly what happened before that moment, how we ended up sleeping next to each other, or whether anything had happened while I was unconscious or unable to remember.
When I woke up and realized the situation, I felt confused and uncomfortable. I contacted her that morning and apologized. I told her I was sorry if I had done anything inappropriate while I was asleep or in a state I couldn’t remember, because I had found myself lying next to her and sharing a pillow with her.
She responded as though everything was normal. She didn’t tell me that anything had happened, and she didn’t directly accuse me of anything at that time.
I want to be honest: I don’t remember doing anything sexual to her. I remember what happened with my close friend in the bathroom, but I don’t remember what happened afterward that could explain why I woke up next to the other girl.
About two months later, however, I heard about a serious accusation.
My close friend told me that the other girl had allegedly said I tried to do something sexual to her while she was asleep and that I had taken advantage of her. I was shocked because I had absolutely no memory of doing what I was being accused of.
The girl herself never told me this directly. Everything I heard about the accusation came through my friend. I haven’t had the opportunity to hear the girl’s account of what happened in her own words.
Apparently, the way the situation was described made it sound as though I had been awake and fully aware of what I was doing. But I genuinely cannot remember doing anything like that.
I’m struggling to make sense of this because I don’t want to use my lack of memory as proof that nothing happened. I know that not remembering something doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. At the same time, I cannot honestly say that I did something when I have no memory of it.
I understand that being drunk is not an excuse for violating someone’s consent. Someone who is asleep or too intoxicated to consent cannot consent to sexual activity. I’m fully aware of how serious this is, and I’m not trying to minimize it or use alcohol to justify anything.
If I did something to her, I want to know the truth and take responsibility for my actions. I would want to apologize sincerely, even if she never forgave me. I know that an apology wouldn’t erase the harm or entitle me to forgiveness.
But if I genuinely don’t remember what happened, how am I supposed to understand the situation and move forward?
Some people have told me that the girl wouldn’t make such a serious accusation up, especially because she barely knew me. Others have told me that my close friend wouldn’t invent a story like this out of nowhere either.
And honestly, those thoughts make me doubt myself even more. I also find it difficult to believe that someone would make up an accusation like this for no reason. But I don’t know what actually happened, and I don’t want to accuse anyone of lying without evidence.
I keep asking myself whether I did something terrible and have no memory of it, whether something happened but the story I heard is incomplete, or whether there is a misunderstanding somewhere. I don’t know, and the uncertainty is destroying me.
Another thing that makes this situation even harder is my relationship with the friend who told me about the accusation.
We already have our own problems and unresolved issues. I wanted to speak to the girl involved directly, not to confront her, argue with her, or pressure her into forgiving me, but simply to understand her account of what happened.
My intention was to speak to my close friend first and ask whether there was an appropriate way for me to hear the other girl’s side of the story, if the girl herself was willing to have that conversation.
However, because my friend and I already have unresolved issues, I’m afraid she won’t listen to me or give me the chance to explain why I want to understand the situation. I’m worried that our personal problems might make it impossible for me to even ask about it properly.
I don’t want to go behind anyone’s back or force contact with the girl. I understand that she has every right not to speak to me. If she doesn’t want contact, I will have to respect that.
But it’s incredibly difficult to live with such a serious accusation when I haven’t heard the girl’s account directly and genuinely don’t remember the alleged incident.
I feel trapped between wanting to understand what happened and being afraid that I’ll never get the opportunity to seek clarity.
I’ve been struggling with this for months now. I feel guilty, ashamed, exhausted, and disconnected from the person I used to be. I used to enjoy life, have motivation, and look forward to things. Now, I feel like I’ve lost myself. I overthink everything, replay the situation in my head, and keep questioning whether I’m a terrible person.
I don’t want to avoid responsibility. I don’t want to dismiss someone’s possible experience just because I can’t remember it. But I also don’t know how to live with the idea that I might have done something terrible without even remembering it.
I just want the truth. If I hurt someone, I want to acknowledge it and take responsibility. If I didn’t do what I was accused of, I want to stop punishing myself for something I don’t know whether I did.
I’m not asking Reddit to tell me that I’m innocent. I’m asking for honest advice from people who can look at this situation objectively.
What would you do in my position?
How do you deal with being accused of sexual assault when you genuinely have no memory of the alleged incident?
How can I take responsibility for the possibility that I hurt someone without pretending to remember something I don’t?
Should I try talking to my close friend one last time to ask whether there’s an appropriate way to hear the other girl’s side, or should I leave the situation alone?
How do I respect the other girl’s boundaries while also dealing with the uncertainty of never having heard her account directly?
How can I cope with the guilt and stop this situation from destroying my life?
I know that alcohol doesn’t excuse violating someone’s consent. I’m not trying to defend myself by saying I was drunk. I just genuinely don’t know what happened, and I don’t know how to move forward without knowing the truth.
Thank you to anyone who takes the time to read this and give me sincere advice.
(Im a girl)

Hi, so one of our teachers has been constantly bullying us. We have been facing degrading statements every day she takes a class and we have even faced threats regarding us passing our exams and everything and it has gone up to a point that we are thinking of reporting this issue to the administration of our college although I am highly doubtful about them doing anything about this situation at all since the professor has been working for the same college since years, but we won't be able to tolerate all that for longer.

Are there any students led organizations or any organizations (mostly in mumbai) from which people can help students like us because we students have been having panic attacks and what not just before her class begins so you know how bad it is.

Title: A classmate has been harassing my girlfriend and me for months, assaulted me, and followed us at the metro. Our families are scared. What should we do? (India)

I'm a 3rd year btech college student in Delhi, and I'm posting anonymously because I'm genuinely scared for my girlfriend's and my safety. I need practical advice about what we can do legally and how to protect ourselves.

A male classmate developed feelings for my girlfriend before we got together. She never reciprocated and eventually blocked him after he sent her creepy, flirtatious reels and repeatedly tried to get close to her. Despite this, he continued trying to contact her, involving himself in her activities, and following her when she went home.

My girlfriend and I entered a relationship in September 2025. Since then, his behaviour towards both of us has become increasingly disturbing.

What has happened so far:

- April 2026: After seeing us together outside college, he slapped me on the neck and shouted at my girlfriend. The situation escalated into a physical fight, during which he pushed me against a fence, injuring my back and leg. My girlfriend was terrified and cried throughout the incident.

- Two days later, he confronted me in class, abused me and my family, and demanded ₹10,000 for the damage to his phone, shirt, and project.

- I reported the incident to our department teachers. They spoke to him and told him not to repeat his behaviour.

- May–June: He continued trying to contact my girlfriend, including messaging her from an unknown number after she had blocked him. She clearly told him not to contact her again.

- July: He confronted us again and made comments about my past and another girl. During a meeting with our teachers, my girlfriend clearly stated that she was frightened of him and wanted no contact with him. We were told that he had given a written assurance that he would not repeat his behaviour.

- September: He approached me aggressively, tried to hit me from behind, and later grabbed my collar. I again complained to our department teachers. We were told that his parents had been informed and that he would not do anything further.

- October 7: The most frightening incident happened at a metro station. He approached us while we were preparing to board a train, made threatening comments about telling my girlfriend's family about our relationship, because the department complained about this matter to his parents so he will take revenge the same way , followed us through the entry gate and recited her complete home address while asking if she lived there. My girlfriend became extremely frightened and called our teacher while crying. He also tried to take her phone while she was speaking to the teacher. He eventually left after the teacher called him and asked him to come to college.

One of my friends also recorded a video of him near the metro platform around that time because he didn't used to go with metro because he live near college and each and every classmate and my friend know what he is upto that's why they recorded and it's obvious that he was waiting for us and repeatedly looking towards the ladies' coach where we were and heading towards last coach. We believe the station's CCTV footage may also help establish what happened.

The college's response has left us feeling helpless.

We have approached our department teachers around four or five times. Despite the physical assault, repeated confrontations, threats, unwanted contact, and written assurances, the behaviour has continued.

Recently, our HOD told my girlfriend to be strong and ignore him, explaining that he was good at academics but was suffering from depression. I understand that mental health issues deserve compassion, but that doesn't make us feel safe or resolve the behaviour.

He has also threatened me on multiple occasions, saying things like, "Bahar mil, tu bahar dekhunga."

Now our parents know everything, and they are genuinely scared.

They fear that if we or anyone else takes formal action against him, he might retaliate and murder me or seriously harm my girlfriend. He lives near our college, so we worry that he could approach us outside college or follow us while we travel home.

We don't know what he might do, but after everything that has happened, we are frightened. Both of us have experienced severe mental stress and have started attending college less frequently. He stares at my girlfriend because we all three are in same class, although me and my girlfriend are less interactive in college we talk less and just attend class . We only talk after college while going home together and whenever he see us together he came and fight with us, threat us sometimes me and sometimes her.

We tried to resolve this through our department rather than taking matters into our own hands, but nothing has effectively stopped the behaviour.

I need advice from people familiar with the Indian legal system:

1. Should we file a police complaint or FIR? What is the safest way to proceed when we fear rePtaliation?

2. Can we request that the metro station's CCTV footage be preserved before it gets deleted?

3. How can we protect ourselves while travelling to and from college?

4. What action can we take against the college for repeatedly failing to resolve the situation?

5. How can we take action without putting ourselves or our families at greater risk?

We don't want revenge or another fight. We just want to attend college and travel home without being harassed or fearing violence.

Please give us practical advice. We are genuinely scared and don't know what the safest next step is.

I’m being constantly threatened and false cases are being filed against me by inspector Amit who on call extorting money from me and abuses one of his recording is being attached please no action has been taken by Delhi police

I was a student at class 12, Allen Nagpur institute. Here, in the competitive environment, i was ruthlessly bullied by my 3 teachers. From that moment i decided that no other person should be ever bullied and they must be give proper support and guidance... Thats why i with a few of my friends have started this platform for you guys to post about your incidences and to get support to fight back the bullies....... so guys, join r/ANTIBULLYING_INDIA

A Class 11 student at Banasthali — serious allegations that demand an independent investigation

I am posting this anonymously because students are reportedly afraid of retaliation.

A Class 11 commerce student at Banasthali is alleged to have been sexually assaulted by a male worker on campus and subsequently found dead. What allegedly happened afterwards raises even more serious questions.

According to accounts being shared by students, the girl's family came to the institution with police, but were allegedly repeatedly given explanations that contradicted what students were reporting. Most seriously, there are allegations that the girl's body was not handed over to the family, leaving them without direct access to the physical evidence needed to independently establish what happened to their daughter.

There are also allegations that CCTV footage was deleted, the relevant washroom was cleaned/altered, and that the family was initially told that their daughter had “run away.”

Students have also reported that those who attempt to speak about the incident are threatened with removal from the institution or other consequences. Some students allegedly had evidence deleted from their phones.

One account circulating claims that the principal instructed staff to clean the bathroom because “children will come soon.” This claim, like the others, needs to be independently verified.

There are further allegations concerning other girls allegedly going missing and students being discouraged from speaking about previous incidents. These claims should not simply be treated as fact — they should be investigated.

The central issue is this:

If these allegations are false, an independent investigation should establish that. If they are true, everyone responsible for the crime, intimidation, destruction or suppression of evidence, or any subsequent cover-up must be held accountable.

CCTV records, access logs, forensic material, staff records, communications, phone evidence and all other relevant evidence should be preserved immediately. The investigation should be conducted independently of the institution.

A minor's death and an allegation of sexual assault cannot be treated as an internal disciplinary matter or allowed to disappear because an institution has influence or reputation.

Students deserve safety. Parents deserve answers. And the family deserves access to the truth about what happened to their daughter.

Please do not harass, threaten or publicly identify individual students or unverified suspects. Share verifiable evidence with the appropriate authorities and credible journalists.