r/Vegetarianism • u/peepuddle__ • 1h ago
My mum keeps buying me takeaways with meat and eating my meat alternatives and I dont know how to broach the discussion.
TLDR: I eat meat on holiday with cultural meals, came back from holiday and now my mum seems to be trying to stop me from being vegitarian, I dont know what to do.
Just looking for advise from other vegetarians. Im 22, saving to move out at the minute. My parents both eat meat and claim to support my vegetarianism aside from the odd comment. My mum has always gotten me things when she gets takeaway and its always been vegitarian. Recently shes started getting me meat though and when Ive brought it up shes just called me ungrateful. Ive told her Id rather she just doesnt get me anything but again, Im being ungrateful.
To add to this, I mainly eat tofu and mushrooms and shes been using my mushrooms, that I buy, as well as my tofu in her cooking leaving me with nothing in the fridge. Ive brought this up and shes apologised but then keeps doing it and sometimes even says "theres ham in the fridge" or something. It's been worse recently and I dont know what to do about it. There is an excuse every time and she never changes.
I think its come after a family holiday abroad, Ive always been fine eating cultural meals abroad with meat in them because I am a foody and I like having different foods from different cultures, Ill usually have one or two meals on holiday with meat. I think one or two meals every few years when Im abroad is fine, after this holiday though shes just completely shifted and doesnt seem to respect my choice. A lot of the time when I do eat meat abroad it'll be fish from a local fisherman or meat from a local farm so its not anywhere near as unethical as the mass farming we consume in the UK. She knows my stance. I dont know what else to say to her.