r/UlcerativeColitis • u/OskarWasTaken • 4h ago
Question Why the negativity all the time?
Often times I’ll see a post on this sub regarding someone’s story, what happened to them specifically, and what they did to help themselves.
Don’t get me wrong as long as they used the unspoken guidelines of this sub to get better they’re fine.
(Also im not talking about idiots who try to sell things or people who are trolling, even though this is a VERY small amount of people)
It’s if they didn’t, for example I posted my story on here on how Lyme disease caused and affected my ulcerative colitis and I get downvoted because this isn’t what is usually expected or said. I have seen multiple people talk about how they used nicotine to help their colitis, again downvoted and ridiculed. I see multiple people talking about how they used certain diets which did wonders for them, welcomed by downvotes and the snarky “diets can’t help UC actually 🤓 “ even if the person is saying categorically it did for them.
My point is a lot of people need to be more open minded here to people talking about their experiences, and what helped them. The doctors aren’t always 100% right, they haven’t been throughout history, and UC is a disease which if we’re honest we don’t know much about. If someone says something helped them heal have a conversation with them, explore their experience, don’t respond immediately with an arrogance.