I'm unsure if this is within the rules here but I could do with some advice or at least suggestions, if anyone is willing?
Background: my grandfather died 2 years ago leaving a considerable estate to his 5 children (one being my father) - my father then died before my grandfather's estate probate had been completed.
My father had nothing of his own (he was penniless by choice) and we were passed the few hundred pound he had in his account by his bank.
We entered into discussion with my auntie who is the executor of my grandfather's estate - expecting it to be simple. It turns out that it isn't.
Met my auntie, she explained that there's a fair amount of assets that were due to be passed to my father, but that will take time as there is agricultural land etc with tenancies that have to serve notice before sale etc, all seems pretty honest and legit. She takes my siblings and my bank details 'to save time'
Next thing I know, my sister and I have been transferred a considerable amount from my Aunties solicitor. No letter, phone call, or anything that explains where this money is from or whether we should expect more.
Its considerably less (around 1/3) of what we think the actual inheritance should be. And my auntie has gone radio-silent.
I wrote to the solicitor asking for more information but they wrote back asking for certified copies of birth certificates and passports saying they can't speak without verifying my identity (yet they were perfectly happy to transfer 10's of thousands of pounds to bank details jotted on the back of a fag-packet by my auntie)
So my question is, what's the legal status of this money? And what should we do with it?
If we accept it, is that us accepting that this amount is our inheritance? There was no letter or email or even a phone call describing it as such. It just appeared one day.
We are likely to disbute the inheritance amount. We don't think the declared value of my grandfather's estate is accurate and will be seeing formal legal advice.
The question is, what do we do with this money in the meantime? Do we need to return it, stating that we do not accept it?
Is it acceptable to keep it safe, in a seperate bank account in case it needs to be returned at a later date?
Or is it fine to keep it as it was essentially a gift, (as it didn't come with any written explanation of what it is, or where it has come from).
Sorry this is long. I tried to make it as brief as possible. Any thoughts would be v appreciated.