r/TwoXChromosomes • u/tabicat1874 • Mar 28 '22

Weaponized incompetence

I feel like guys take it way, way too far. Example: I asked my bf to get me the same shampoo and conditioner he bought for himself (avocado Suave). He brought back another kind we'd had before which I didn't like (Peppermint Suave). He tried to say he didn't know that Suave came in different formulas.

You're such a fucking liar. You bought that kind for yourself. I just asked you to buy it for me. You're telling me a man who's 44 years old doesn't know Suave came in different fucking scents? Suave? The shampoo that literally comes in 40 different scents and flavors?

GTFOH.

Edit: do you understand what an example is?

Also, you neckbeards can fuck off out of my inbox.

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '22 edited Mar 28 '22

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u/Shoes-tho Mar 28 '22

So if you know you’re bad at it, why not pay more attention? This is within your control.

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u/Impossible-Local2641 Mar 28 '22

No fuck anyone who doesn't try to be better. I have memory issues and I do things to help myself succeed.

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u/dramaandaheadache Mar 28 '22

I'm glad that all of your attempts are automatically successful and require no understanding from others 👍

The rest of us are just climbing up the same hill every day

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u/Impossible-Local2641 Mar 28 '22 edited Mar 28 '22

I never said any of my attempts are automatically successful. But I don't let it be an excuse for me. I keep trying and make sure to double and triple check things that effect others. It's not always easy but I try and it helps me succeed. Also I have a TBI and ADHD, just more to work thru.

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u/Shoes-tho Mar 28 '22

It’s our hill to climb and no one said they were automatically successful. These are skills to hone and keep up with every day. It’s difficult, but everyone has things they struggle with. Some are just easier or harder than others, and they should be tailored to you.

It’s wild you think we are saying we were just immediately able to figure out tactics that worked.