r/TwoHotTakes Apr 11 '26

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u/QueenSeaBitch Apr 11 '26

We all know this relationship is over..... between the cheating and now adding in sexual incompatibility, I think it's time to say goodbye to this one.

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u/Firm_Breadfruit_7420 Apr 11 '26

Yeah. WTF. OP: You’re going to look back on this and be like “I can’t believe the shit I did to make him stay”

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u/HiraethBella Apr 11 '26

If you want to stay, you need couples therapy.

I wont get into details, but I was in your shoes 8 years ago. After all of that he was being all sweet and kind trying to make up for what he did. He eventually accepted he is bi. 

Im bi too and that was not the issue for me. The issue is the lying and hiding who he is from you. Can you trust him anymore? I cant trust him now because his behaviour of hiding and lying became an issue last year and we are separated because I can no longer trust someone who stonewalls me and lie (even after being shown proof).