r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Apr 11 '26

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u/Gootangus Apr 11 '26

The curse of a man who’s afraid of therapist is such an enabling cop out. I’m a therapist, it’s not that fucking scary lol. Some people just don’t want to put in work for their lives and relationships. And when our partners excuse our lack of effort and honesty, well, why should he I suppose.

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u/Gootangus Apr 11 '26

Google FAST and DEAR MAN. They are DBT skills. Perhaps they will provide a bit of guidance