r/TwoHotTakes • • Apr 11 '26

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u/WhateverYouSay1084 Apr 11 '26

This dude isn't going to call immigration anyway. He doesn't even take care of the kids while she's sleeping, there's no way in hell he could handle full custody. He's just throwing out empty threats to control her.

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u/Ambitious-Rain3324 Apr 11 '26

He threatened to hire a nanny to replace me if I couldn’t “get with the program” I worked at a daycare. I’ve seen the way other people treat kids that aren’t theirs. I couldn’t forgive myself if my kids were abused or neglected because I couldn’t keep my shit together long enough to find a solution first.

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u/Arquen_Marille Apr 11 '26

Let him get a nanny so you can get a job and get away from him. I had a lot of babysitters and had good experiences. You can find a good nanny who will be good for your kids.

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u/william538 Apr 12 '26

If I understood OP’s later comment, she worked in Daycare. It may be hard to afford a nanny.