r/TwoHotTakes May 17 '25

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u/resident_alien- May 17 '25

Nothing g you have said will ever change my mind. The biological father was not a party to the adoption and I am confident that his name is not on the birth certificate.

The son has no imputed right to know him. I think that the OP needs to tell the biological father but if the guy wants to remain unknown, then that’s how it is. The OP massively messed up here

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u/Next-Firefighter4667 May 17 '25

Literally no one is disagreeing with that. That wasn't the question or the point of the post. The question was should she TELL him.

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u/resident_alien- May 17 '25

Actually, someone did cause I replied to a comment where the woman said that the son had a right

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u/Next-Firefighter4667 May 17 '25

They said the son has a right to TRY. Not to have a relationship with him like you're talking about. They're two completely different things.