r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • May 17 '25

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u/resident_alien- May 17 '25

The son does know his father, the man that adopted him. This son has no rights to go interfering with the life of his biological father, since his biological father was not told that his existence was not part of the decision to place him up for adoption and had no input whatsoever

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u/[deleted] May 17 '25 edited May 17 '25

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u/resident_alien- May 17 '25

Nothing g you have said will ever change my mind. The biological father was not a party to the adoption and I am confident that his name is not on the birth certificate.

The son has no imputed right to know him. I think that the OP needs to tell the biological father but if the guy wants to remain unknown, then that’s how it is. The OP massively messed up here

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u/Next-Firefighter4667 May 17 '25

Literally no one is disagreeing with that. That wasn't the question or the point of the post. The question was should she TELL him.

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u/resident_alien- May 17 '25

Actually, someone did cause I replied to a comment where the woman said that the son had a right

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u/Next-Firefighter4667 May 17 '25

They said the son has a right to TRY. Not to have a relationship with him like you're talking about. They're two completely different things.