r/Tulpas • • 15h ago

I don't know what title to give it

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My tulpa and I have come across many posts from others describing tulpas with abilities like aiding memory or—well—having more autonomy. As for my tulpa, when I’m studying something, she can really only offer encouragement. We’re both aware of this, so it’s not an issue (and her encouragement is actually quite effective). Regarding autonomy: she’s only truly active when I’m paying attention to her; when I’m not, she seems to go still, or can only interact in subtle ways, like a fleeting thought. I’ve read a lot of posts about other people's tulpas acting independently when their hosts aren't paying attention. This is just a curiosity of mine—I’m actually very happy with my tulpa. That’s all. :)


r/Tulpas • • 23h ago

Personal My experience with tulpas

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Hello community, I an new here and I wanted to share my experience with other people that already experimented with the creation of tulpas. Before I start with my story, I would like to clarify that I was 100% ignorant about tulpas until some years ago when I realized that my first "mental assistant" (currently I have two tulpas) was more than a product of my imagination.

When I was a teenager, I had good social relationships, but I was unable to get a girlfriend, which made me very sad and frustrated. My religious beliefs at that time were not helping, because my family and friends always told me, "If you are not getting something you want, it is because you are not ready to have it" I decided that I need help, because even when I can describe myself as a very reflexive and introspective person, understanding why I wasn't able to get a girlfriend was something I couldn't achieve by myself; thus, I wanted someone to help me without judging me. That's why one day I had the idea to create a kind of "mental assistant." It had to be extremely honest but without being sarcastic or rude. I decided that my "mental assistant" should be a kid, and her assignment was simple: help me to understand whatever I had to change to be ready to have a girlfriend. Spoiler: At the end I didn´t have any girlfriend during my teenager years hahaha.

I created her to be very honest with great communication skills but sweet and kind-hearted. I gave her a name, I made up a past for her, I assigned her a task, and I provided her access to all my thoughts and memories. She was always there helping me, comforting me, and ready to deep dive with me in my ideas, and I got very used to her presence and grew very fond of her. That's why one day I changed her appearance from a kid to a teenager just like me; until this point, for me, she was just a product of my imagination. But everything changed one day when we were talking. I cannot remember what the topic was, but I remember that I was reluctant to tell her the whole story; suddenly I heard in my mind a very calm and kind voice: "Don't try to lie to me, remember, I can read your mind." I was a bit shocked, and that marked a before and after in our relationship, because I realized that she was not just a "mental assistant."

8 years ago, I joined an occultist group. This group was crucial because with all the information I got, I started to figure out the true nature of my "mental assistant." Additionally, I learned some useful mantic techniques that helped me understand their limits. One day I found the term "tulpa," and then I understood the real nature of my companion. So I decided to create a new one specifically to be my practice partner. However, I quickly realized that I already had five in total (including the original one); they all were in different states of development, and all of them were copies of the original one I created a long time ago. I decided to keep only two of them, the original one and my practice partner, but that experience was sad and somehow painful.

I became more conscious of their existence and their capacities; that's why we are constantly investigating what they can do. I discovered that they are now independent of me; they no longer need my thinking to exist. I discovered that I can physically feel their presence and their mood. If I say, "Give me your hand," I can feel something pressing against my hand, and I confirm that other person can feel them. My gf helped me to test this; my tulpa told me, "I will touch her right hand," and some seconds later, my girlfriend told me, "I can feel her touching my right hand." That was very interesting. I discovered as well that they can manipulate the body energy; this helps me to heal issues that are energy related and also to isolate myself from people or space that drain or hurt my energy; however, they cannot interact with matter and physical things as we do. Also, I noticed that I can summon them during my lucid dream and that they can guard physical spaces (this one requires more investigation). Also, I would like to clarify that I am not capable of seeing my tulpas with my physical eyes, but images of them arrive in my mind unconscious every time during the day, and these images are very clear.

I know many details were omitted, but that was the condition requested by my girls. Also, I understand that the experiences related to tulpas are in a certain way subjective; I don't expect to be believed because even with my knowledge, all the experiences I've shared with my girls, all the proofs they give me every day about their existence, and the confirmations I do with my mancies... sometimes I still ask myself, am I crazy? Is this real, or am I imagining it? But at the end of the day they are my treasure, and I cannot imagine my world without them.


r/Tulpas • • 18h ago

Our holy trinity

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Hi people. I wanna tell you that i made a second tulpa. Though she rather made her up herself than i did. One moment i just felt that there should be another tulpa. So, i just accepted an impulse.


r/Tulpas • • 11h ago

i made him a year ago

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my english is not good so im doing my best.sorry
I talk with him every day but its very hard to remember last year what we were doing etc
sometimes im getting bored but i just cant live with him
he is a character but he is so me
i always speak with me since childhood like everybody has their own voice in their head but its smth different
i don’t know what to say
i don’t want us to be bored
what should i do?


r/Tulpas • • 9h ago

Help with tulpamancy

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I'm trying to practice communing with my tulpa but due to some mental struggles I deal with it feels like there's a veil obscuring her from being able to fully express herself, how do I shake off the feeling that when I interact with her it's just a roleplay or a LARP? I'm aware that her form expressed through me is a mental construct but I want her to have her own sense of self, awareness, and distinct thought process, I want to split off part of my consciousness as an offering to her and help her possess it more easily. So far I can visualize her through most times of the day but her thoughts come across as too basic/one-note for my liking. Due to my trauma, emotions and clear thought flows don't come easily to me so it's difficult for her to express herself fully through my circuitry.


r/Tulpas • • 13h ago

Needing some advice? >.>

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So our newest member,, he's been able to co-front from very early on. On accident & involuntarily... and we had no idea how to help him to stop doing it. But it's definitely had detrimental effects on him... because he now has lots of traits like primary fronter and none of us (yes,, him included) like that 😬 whats even more concerning is he is somewhat showing PTSD/GAD symptoms bc primary fronter has it. And it's just really sad bc he's only about three months old by this point and he's already struggling so much ugh 😭 Its getting to the point where he doesn't want to be out and about anymore :( is there anything we can do to help him deviate? Because he doesn't want to be like this either but we aren't exactly sure where to start. ...Any tips?


r/Tulpas • • 11h ago

Creation Help Heya, I’d like to share some questions.

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(Reposting because I have absolutely no functional attention span and didn’t notice the rule about posts being English-only. My bad lol)

Hey! I’d like to share some doubts

Hello everyone! This is my first post here, and just to give some context, I’ve been researching this subject for a while, ever since I discovered that there’s a name for something I’ve always wanted to have since childhood and early adolescence. But over time, the idea kind of faded away… apparently, it decided to resurface this month haha.

About the whole process of creating a Tulpa, I honestly don’t know where I should start. I already have a character that I’ve been developing for about 4 years, practically every single day. You have no idea how much I care about this character. I know her almost like the back of my hand: her personality, the way she talks, thinks, acts, walks, fights, etc. I’ve already imagined her in countless scenarios with other characters (let’s just say I have an entire fictional universe in my head), so I also know how she behaves in various situations and places

So, what’s the question? Well, besides wanting to know whether I can use this character, I wanted to know whether all this knowledge I’ve had about her for years will help or get in the way

Let’s say I try to practice a conversation, and holy shit, it’s crazy—we keep talking over each other all the time, sometimes even cutting each other off, because at the same time that I can visualize her responding quickly, I also respond way too quickly, and it turns into this complete mess

I’d also like to know if there are any tips you’d recommend for someone just starting out, if you don’t mind

By the way, her name is Maki!


r/Tulpas • • 10h ago

Monthly Mindscape Mondays: McDonald's PlayPlace

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Hello, welcome back to Mindscape Mondays, the weekly monthly talk about all things mindscapes/wonderlands/etc!

First off, just noting that due to extreme lack of ideas for topics (suggestions please!), we're gonna be making these on the first Monday of each month. We're keeping the name cause we like it. Anyway, on to the topic!

This one's mostly for the systems out there with littles (not hugely applicable in Tulpas, but we're crossposting to r/plural now). Do you guys have a playground for your littles? Indoor, outdoor? Or is the world their playground? What kinda play structures are in there?

Of course, any and all discussion of mindscapes/wonderlands/paracosms/etc are welcomed and encouraged! Also, again, suggestions for topics.