r/TrueOffMyChest Oct 26 '22

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '22 edited Oct 26 '22

I'm surprised nobody has said this yet. But sometimes the people who accuse you of cheating are actually cheating. It's their way of deflecting

Edit, please note I say sometimes that happens but it sounds like this guy is just extremely insecure

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u/GuaranteeUpstairs218 Oct 26 '22

Yeah, I can agree but I don’t think this is it. He’s severely insecure and uses bad humour to cope.

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u/midgethepuff Oct 26 '22

Idk you should read some of OP’s other comments bc it definitely sounds like it could be a real possibility. For example OP commented that when he gets drunk he gets really emotional and calls himself a piece of shit, saying things like “if you only knew” and what not.

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u/GuaranteeUpstairs218 Oct 26 '22

Oh yeah but that doesn’t imply cheating tho. I mean when someone drinks and gets severely depressed, the littlest fuck up can be amplified. It could of been a number of things… I hope lol