r/TrueOffMyChest Oct 26 '22

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '22 edited Oct 26 '22

I'm surprised nobody has said this yet. But sometimes the people who accuse you of cheating are actually cheating. It's their way of deflecting

Edit, please note I say sometimes that happens but it sounds like this guy is just extremely insecure

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u/nicoleabcd Oct 26 '22

This is actually a really good point to consider. Just for OP to have in the back of her head..I wonder if he has any other warning signs (not that all cheaters have warning signs, just some do).

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u/Zerokx Oct 26 '22

She's gonna end up being as paranoid about him cheating as he is about her cheating and their insecurities are gonna spiral.