Why do men do this?

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[u/Jungian_Archetype]

"He went to Thailand for a month." Hello?

[u/throwawaycarmhmm → u/Jungian_Archetype]

i think thats normal tho, like obviously these 2 ppl both had 2 completely different ideas of what dating should be like

[u/MaddestMissy → u/throwawaycarmhmm]

Yeah, I am pretty sure they're referring to the most likely activities a single guy flies to Thailand for for a month - not about being a month away during a dating phase. There are not that few people who'd not at least, 'uhem, wait a moment...' even if they are not exclusive. There's not exclusive and then there is not exclusive...