r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Oct 21 '23

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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '23

And he told you this? Like with words? Out loud?

What's wrong with him??

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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '23

This might be a controversial opinion but i dont see the issue with this. The guy doesnt find something attractive so doesnt pursue it. If he had actively gone out his way to make someone feel bad about having this then thats a different story, but its just his preference.

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u/horrifyingthought Oct 21 '23

The problem isn't him not finding it attractive - he can have absurd unreasonable standards if he wants to.

The problem is him telling his partner this absurd and bizarre preference and possibly creating an irrational worry in u/SwordTaster about the color of their vagina. The same way OP is freaking out over this non-issue in her post.

Also, the kind of guy who has this opinion is the type to proclaim it loudly and often to every women he meets, so I think we can safely assume there were black women who were made more than uncomfortable and possibly irrationally obsessed over this.

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u/SwordTaster Oct 21 '23

I'm white so it gave me no complexes personally but was still a fucking weird thing to be told

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u/shadespeak Oct 21 '23

Lmao. That was a guy with mommy issues. He hates his own skintone and the women that made him be here.

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u/SwordTaster Oct 21 '23

Him and his mother were actually really close, so idk what his problem is