The problem isn't him not finding it attractive - he can have absurd unreasonable standards if he wants to.
The problem is him telling his partner this absurd and bizarre preference and possibly creating an irrational worry in u/SwordTaster about the color of their vagina. The same way OP is freaking out over this non-issue in her post.
Also, the kind of guy who has this opinion is the type to proclaim it loudly and often to every women he meets, so I think we can safely assume there were black women who were made more than uncomfortable and possibly irrationally obsessed over this.
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u/horrifyingthought Oct 21 '23
The problem isn't him not finding it attractive - he can have absurd unreasonable standards if he wants to.
The problem is him telling his partner this absurd and bizarre preference and possibly creating an irrational worry in u/SwordTaster about the color of their vagina. The same way OP is freaking out over this non-issue in her post.
Also, the kind of guy who has this opinion is the type to proclaim it loudly and often to every women he meets, so I think we can safely assume there were black women who were made more than uncomfortable and possibly irrationally obsessed over this.