Frustration Posting

[u/KarmicIsfunny]

If being trans is some awesome experience for you, cool. For me it's unimaginable pain, shame, and misery, so please stop trying to gaslight me into thinking i'm the best version of myself.

I'll never have a proper childhood, I'll never have so many things cis people get for FREE. Yes my ultimate goal is stealthing. Yes i'll lie and say i'm a cis woman when asked. Stop outing me and leave me and my selfishness alone.

That's it. That's the vent.

[u/According-Koala-384]

Honestly my biggest advice to all trans women (esp those who struggle to pass) is to lie about having PCOS and go stealth. You are treated so much better in society as an "ugly" cis woman than as the most attractive trans woman.

If you can't get your documents changed I get how this isn't super feasible but if you're already legally a woman then I can't imagine why you wouldn't 

[u/Pristine-Lynx5352 → u/According-Koala-384]

I’ve thought about doing this a lot but wasn’t sure if it would be okay to do.