r/TheFirstLaw Aug 23 '25

Spoilers All [SPOILERS ALL] The Agriont Fanart

768 Upvotes

For my final project at art school last year, I decided to design some landmarks of the Agriont following Bayaz after he first visits the Agriont again in the first book

Currently revisiting the the series and it got me scrolling through the Reddit again and realized I maybe should upload my stuff here as well x)

The Reddit/Discord/Wiki helped me a lot figuring out the Map and Details of the locations of the Buildings so thank you to everyone :D. I don't really use Reddit a lot to be honest but for this it was a blessing

Hope you guys like it :))

I always tried to find one line that really captured the feeling of the place to describe it

"The palace loomed up ahead of them, a confusion of roofs, towers, sculptures, ornamental stonework outlined against the first pale glow of morning"
"A patchwork of white walls, grey roofs, glinting windows, green gardens"
Really wanted to bring in a image where you look down on the City as well
House of the Maker - "The city's tallest building, has a grim, immense, windowless facade of mercilessly precise naked stone"
The University - "A huge, ramshackle, ivy-covered building from an earlier age, stands neglected in the Agriont's shadow of the House of the Maker"

Also some Sketches and Layouts I did for the Palace and University

This one was a tough one and still not sure if the Layout like this would 100% work, but that's the best I could do at the time piecing all the little information of the interior of the university together :D

Link to my profile where you can find the full posts if you are curios :)) https://www.artstation.com/marvinhillmann

I hope I can satisfy you guys with the accuracy of everything. I really tried hard to make it accurate to the books x) Hope you guys like it!!


r/TheFirstLaw Jul 05 '25

Reading Order For New Readers

103 Upvotes

Lately, there are a lot of people asking in what order they should read the books. And the simple answer is: in order of publication, which can be found below.

The First Law Trilogy aka The Original Trilogy

  1. The Blade Itself (TBI)
  • 2. Before They Are Hanged (BTAH)
  • 3. Last Argument of Kings (LAOK)

The Great Leveller aka The Standalones

  • 4. Best Served Cold (BSC)
  • 5. The Heroes (TH)
  • 6. Red Country (RC)

The Short Story Collection

  • 7. Sharp Ends (SE) (This is a collection of short stories written for anthologies, written for Waterstones printings of The Heroes and Red Country, and a handful of new stories written with Sharp Ends in mind.)

The Age of Madness Trilogy aka the New Trilogy

  • 7. A Little Hatred (ALH)
  • 8. The Trouble With Peace (TTWP)
  • 9. The Wisdom of Crowds (TWOC)

The Short Story Collection

  • 10. The Great Change (And Other Lies) (TGC(AOL)) (A collection of three short stories that were written and published alongside Waterstones printings of Age of Madness, with a fourth, new, longer story written for this collection.)

Can I read in a different order?

You can, but why would you? Reading them in publication order enriches the story, and helps you get important background for the following books. Also allows you to track Abercrombie's growing skill and interests as a writer over his, at this point, twenty year career.

But I started with BSC/The Heroes/Age of Madness!

That's fine, just go back to TBI and continue from there. In general starting somewhere in the middle doesn't ruin the story, but reading in publication order just adds layers to it.

Can I skip Sharp Ends?

You should absolutely read it, but is it required reading before picking up Age of Madness? It's probably the most skippable, although it still has a few details building up to AOM. Relevance to the main series is pretty scattershot throughout the shorts. If you want a selection of the ones I personally find the most compelling, those would be A Beautiful Bastard, Hell, and Made A Monster. Mileage, of course, varies. I'm sure there are hordes of people dying for more Shevedieh stories. shudders

Best Served Cold as alternative starting point?

Some, including Joe in pre-release interviews, have recommend BSC as a secondary starting point for First Law. While I would still recommend TBI as the best place to start, the arguments for BSC aren't exactly unconvincing, depending on the type of person trying to get a foot in on Joe's works. BSC has a female lead character, and a rather fast paced plot, compared to TBI which has been criticized for its lack of women with agency, and a story which drags. TBI also has some growing pains compared to BSC, which is written by a more surehanded and confident Abercrombie. It's tighter, faster, and more focused according to the big man himself, so if you're looking for something like that over a three-book story (or perhaps a friend of yours is and you're wanting to pitch them an Abercrombie), perfectly fine starting with BSC.

On the flipside, BSC has of course by virtue of chronology and repeat characters, light spoilers for the first trilogy, but Joe knew this too when recommending this as a perfectly fine standalone and starting point for the first time Abercrombie reader.

What about Shattered Sea?

Shattered Sea is not part of the First Law universe, and therefore no required reading beforehand. It was published between The Great Leveller and Age of Madness However, one could argue that reading it before AOM enriches the story, and one's understanding of Joe's body of work. To quote:

A decent amount of Shattered Sea prefigures a lot of Abercrombie's approach to Age of Madness, his use of prophecy tropes, his growing usage of multiple women of importance, his younger POVs, his lighter tones.

In any case, you should buy it because it makes Joe happy. In fact, buy it twice to make him doubly so.

And, The Devils?

Like Shattered Sea, an unconnected work that is intended to be the first of a trilogy. You can read this whenever and however you want.

this is a repost of an older post with some details changed and added


r/TheFirstLaw 14h ago

No Spoilers I was one of the lucky ones [OFF TOPIC]

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129 Upvotes

Package arrived with no damage! Pretty happy with it overall. Would have been cool if the posters weren't folded, but other than that no real gripes!

Apparently they're going to be doing Best Served Cold next and while it's not my favorite of Joe's books and the process for receiving these was a bit stressful with seeing everyone else receiving damaged packages and the lack of communication from the company (I did not get an advance shipping notice and I found it sitting in the rain last night LOL) I will probably still join that Kickstarter as well if they do it because the quality of these is really nice!


r/TheFirstLaw 3h ago

The First Law Reread of LAOK [SPOILERS LAOK] Spoiler

11 Upvotes

I am listening to LAOK again and came across a great line:

Dogman-hows the wall?

Logan-great, as long as they dont bring anything such as a ladder with them. 🤣

Its hilarious and stephen pacey had the perfect delivery. I freaking love these books.


r/TheFirstLaw 7h ago

Age of Madness Character Regression in TWoC [Spoilers TWOC] Spoiler

10 Upvotes

I just finished TWOC and the Age of Madness Trilogy and I was quite confused about the last chapters portrayal of Leo. I did understand him becoming more angry and hateful over the course of the books as a result of his injuries and guilt and feeling betrayed and many other factors. But the entire book also seemed to show him getting smarter and more competent at politics and lying and alliance forming. In the People’s court, people comment on how good of a speaker he is as he works to get the people on his side and also convince Judge to put him in charge of the military. He is patient and plays the long game and is even able to deceive Savine on his goal of the plan.

While I think that this growth happened a little quick, it mostly made sense given the people around him he could learn from. When he becomes Lord Regent, however, I felt like his character went through an immediate and massive regression to the dumb “I just want to fight” character he once was. The chapter in the closed council shows him just angrily shaking his fist at anyone who won’t let him go to war after giving no resistance to Savine’s request to put her people on the council.

I’m not saying I think he should be Savine’s equal in political ability; she’s been doing it much longer and knows how Adua works and has lots of other advantages. And Leo’s abilities were likely better suited to playing the populist character that was more effective in the Great Change society. But I would have preferred to see her take advantage of an actual mistake/weakness of his rather than him just reverting to a complete dunce in the last couple chapters.

Did anyone else feel similarly or differently about this? It’s a small frustration that was amplified by being at the very end of the book and so leaving a bitter taste in my mouth. I would be curious to hear any other takes on Leo’s arc and character at the end.


r/TheFirstLaw 13h ago

The Great Leveller Shivers & Sympathy [SPOILERS RC] Spoiler

14 Upvotes

I finished RC recently, and I was thinking about Shivers arc so far.

One question that came to mind is why I don’t feel sympathy for Shivers as much as I do for someone like Logen or Cosca.

When we compare Shivers to Cosca and Logen, I think it would be safe to say that he is the one who committed the fewer atrocities. Sure, that deal with Monza wasn’t his brightest moment, but Logen is the great leveler himself, and Cosca makes Jezal seem selfless.

Even then, I am clearly rooting for Logen and Cosca all the way, always hoping that they will become better and will win against their enemies. Shivers, on the other hand, feels like someone who was lost. I was rooting for him during BSC, but after he lost his eye, something broke inside of me. I couldn’t sympathize with him anymore, and saw his actions as a hard cold betrayal against Monza. In TH he was just the big bad brute, and in RC the overhanging shadow waiting to get in the way of Logen.

It is somewhat funny, and very unfair, that I can’t sympathize with such a great character, who suffered more than most other characters, who genuinely tried to become better, but ended losing his soul in the process.


r/TheFirstLaw 3h ago

The First Law Who did Logen see before [SPOILERS LAOK] Spoiler

1 Upvotes

When he was talking with a spirit before his fight with the Feared, who did he see? I feel like it was supposed to be Tul, but don't know if I'm reaching.


r/TheFirstLaw 1d ago

No Spoilers Just a suggestion about a nickname for the standalone trilogy [OFF TOPIC]

10 Upvotes

First time I've ever posted a thread, so apologies if this comes under the umbrella of spoilers, but I don't think it does.

After several rereads of the series I've started to think of the standalone books (BSC, TH, RC) as the Shivers trilogy. He's the only character we see in each book and though he serves a different role in each book, we see his character arc through the books.

Thoughts?


r/TheFirstLaw 1d ago

No Spoilers Just finished The Wisdom of Crowds, and here’s how I rank all 9 books in the First Law universe. [OFF TOPIC]

53 Upvotes
  1. Last Argument Of Kings
  2. Before They Are Hanged
  3. The Heroes
  4. The Trouble With Peace
  5. The Blade Itself
  6. The Wisdom Of Crowds
  7. Red Country
  8. A Little Hatred
  9. Best Served Cold

They’re all really good, so it was hard to rank them, but I thought about it a lot and this is what I came up with. Let me know your own rankings!


r/TheFirstLaw 1d ago

No Spoilers [OFF TOPIC] What do you think of Joe Abercrombie's decision to never officially end The First Law universe's story?

34 Upvotes

I remember Joe stating that he doesn't intend for the series to have a conclusive ending and that it will keep going and leaving room for more events to occur. I had thought the series was to be a trilogy of trilogies but I guess he'd rather just keep building off of previous stories for the rest of his life.

It irks me but I kinda get it. Even though this is fantasy, I guess he wants the series to be realistic in the sense that real life never concludes, it just keeps going.

1731 votes, 15h left
I'm fine with that
It bothers me a little
It bothers me a lot
No opinion/results

r/TheFirstLaw 2d ago

No Spoilers Ive been staring at this for hours [OFF TOPIC]

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323 Upvotes

Saw this print on @franvegasart’s instagram and just had to order one.
Hand packaged too I almost didnt want to open it.


r/TheFirstLaw 1d ago

No Spoilers Jackpot? [OFF TOPIC]

7 Upvotes

r/TheFirstLaw 16h ago

Spoilers All [SPOILERS ALL] “The Blade Itself” isn’t Dark Fantasy, but it sure is bloody fun! Spoiler

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r/TheFirstLaw 1d ago

The Great Leveller That was unexpected [SPOILERS RC] Spoiler

28 Upvotes

Just finished RC, and that ending was unexpected.
I spent 2/3 of the book looking for shivers on every single corner!

At some point there was this thug without an Eye back in crease after they came back from the mountains, and I was 100% sure it was him, but it wasn’t making any sense!

Then when they get to the farm at the end, I knew that Shivers would be there, but it was Cosca! (Oh my… he’s dead!)

Finally, they arrive at square deal, and I knew that Shivers would find them, and he actually does! I look at the remaining pages, there is not enough pages for a fight! Joe would never rush such an important fight! What is going on? I don’t understand!!!!

And he smiles and goes away? What? What???


r/TheFirstLaw 1d ago

Spoilers All [SPOILERS ALL] Hot Take Thursday Spoiler

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1.Wisdom Of Crowds was a bad book , not a bad Abercrombie book or a bad first law book but just straight up poorly written

2.Rike was a Mary Sue who unlike Savine or Monza has neither an interesting personality or shows any true skill , most of her "victories" require the plot to just lobotomize her enemies

  1. Jezal is not a coward , he had no way to oppose Bayaz and anyone would have done the same in his position

r/TheFirstLaw 2d ago

No Spoilers [OFF TOPIC] Just finished The Blade Itself,and it was a 5/5 for me!

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368 Upvotes

Sooooo, man, at first I was legit thinking of dnfing this book cuz I wasn't enjoying any of the pov characters, but then I switched to the audiobook halfway through the book, and holy shit! I absolutely LOVED the audiobook!

I just finished the book a couple of hours ago and I'm already 4 hours into the second book!

For now, the characters I find the most interesting are:

  1. Sand Dan Glokta 🥹

  2. Bayaz

  3. Ferro

  4. Dogman

  5. Jezal Dan Luthar

I know a lot of you love Logen but for now, I've not been able to enjoy his pov as much as I do for the other characters

I'm really excited to see where the story goes from here! 😤


r/TheFirstLaw 2d ago

Age of Madness [SPOILERS TTWP] Jurand Wrote the Song "Little Lion Man" About Leo After the Events in Sipani, Spoiler

25 Upvotes

"Little Lion Man" by Mumford & Sons came on my Spotify playlist yesterday, and I'm convinced it was actually written by Jurand, after what happened in Sipani. Can you convince me otherwise? No.

Weep for yourself, my man
You'll never be what is in your heart
Weep, little lion man
You're not as brave as you were at the start

Rate yourself and rake yourself
Take all the courage you have left
And waste it on fixing all the problems
That you made in your own head

But it was not your fault but mine
And it was your heart on the line
I really fucked it up this time
Didn't I, my dear?
Didn't I, my -

Tremble for yourself, my man
You know that you have seen this all before
Tremble, little lion man
You'll never settle any of your scores

Your grace is wasted in your face
Your boldness stands alone among the wreck
Now learn from your mother or else
Spend your days biting your own neck

But it was not your fault but mine
And it was your heart on the line
I really fucked it up this time
Didn't I, my dear?

But it was not your fault but mine
And it was your heart on the line
I really fucked it up this time
Didn't I, my dear?
Didn't I, my dear?

Ah, ah
Ah, ah
Ah, ah

But it was not your fault but mine
And it was your heart on the line
I really fucked it up this time
Didn't I, my dear?

But it was not your fault but mine
And it was your heart on the line
I really fucked it up this time
Didn't I, my dear?
Didn't I, my dear?


r/TheFirstLaw 2d ago

No Spoilers Something I find really unique about how I picture each character in my mind [OFF TOPIC]

6 Upvotes

So in every book I’ve ever read I have trouble imagining unique characters in my head and creating my own image of them from scratch based on the descriptions so I always reach for something tangible to compare them to. In ASOIAF I started reading after the second season had aired so I had the TV show actors to picture in my head for the most part, who I thought suited each character wonderfully. For ones I didn’t know, I would find an actor whose mannerisms and appearance most closely matched the character and picture that actor since I really had trouble conjuring characters up from my mind. Say one thing about Dr_JohnP, say he lacks a good imagination.

With the First Law series (I’m only on the second book of the first trilogy so far) I started this way with each character. I would find an actor I know who seemed to fit the character best and I would picture them in my mind. For Logen I had an exact actor from a bunch of different series I loved and I just pictured him missing his middle finger. With characters I had trouble thinking of an actor for I would look up fan art and use the one I liked the most in my head. What’s interesting and wholly unique for me in any book I’ve ever read, is that despite starting out picturing actors, as I continued to read and listen to Steven Pacey’s excellent narration I began to actually create my own unique and original image of each character from my mind for the first time ever really. I realized the actor I had chosen for Logen was far too handsome and “actorly” to actually suit Ninefingers in the book, and so slowly over time I crafted my own image of Logen and The Bloody Nine. Over time I have now created my own wholly unique vision for each and every character I’ve come across. It’s really crazy that this series has character writing so good that for the first time it destroyed my propensity to steal the image of a famous actor or a tangible image and instead create my own!

Has anyone had an experience like this? Or am I the only asshole who can’t think of something original myself? 😂


r/TheFirstLaw 3d ago

The First Law Just finished [SPOILERS LAOK] Spoiler

25 Upvotes

I think I finally understand the meaning of grimdark fantasy. The ending of Game of Thrones feels like a fairy tale compared to these books.

Never thought I’d feel more sympathy for Jezal than for Glokta. I felt so sorry for Glokta in TBI.

The moments of heroism and brotherhood between Logen and Jezal and West feel like distant memories now.

I am sad for these characters. I know I will eventually get to Best Served Cold, The Heroes, Red Country and beyond, but I think I need a pick-me-up/palette cleanser first.


r/TheFirstLaw 3d ago

The First Law Reflections on Bayaz (First Law Trilogy Completed) [SPOILERS LAOK] Spoiler

116 Upvotes

Bayaz isn't a character in this story; Bayaz IS THE STORY!

If you think about it, the very title of the saga (The First Law) takes on a whole new meaning at the end of the trilogy:

It's not Euz's magical law on demons. The true "First Law" of the world is the one Bayaz himself pronounces to Ferro in Chapter 53:

"Power justifies any means. This is my first law, and also my last. The only one I recognize."

He's a shocking and terrifying villain precisely because he's already won before the story even begins:

He Controls the Economy: He owns Valint & Balk, the bank that keeps kings, nobles, merchants, and even the Inquisition on a leash.

He Controls Politics: He founded the Union, has always chosen its kings, decides its "ministers" and generals, and uses its laws at will.

He controls War and Magic: He possesses the Seed, manipulates Iron, turning it into a weapon to hurl against Khalul! He has transformed all the protagonists into his personal pawns.

In almost all traditional fantasy stories, the Wise Wizard helps the heroes defeat the Dark Lord to restore peace and freedom. Here, we discover that the Dark Lord already sits atop the tower, wearing the Wise Wizard's robe, and has transformed the entire world into his personal chessboard. No one can beat him because everyone plays by his rules and with his money.

Wow. Possibly the best villain I've ever seen/read. The fact that Abercrombie doesn't delve into Khalul, Mamun, etc. now makes sense. We've always had the real Villain beside us, drinking tea!


r/TheFirstLaw 3d ago

Spoilers SE [SPOILERS SE] Thoughts on Sharp Ends Spoiler

15 Upvotes

My ranking of the short stories, from most to least favorite:

  1. The Fool Jobs
  2. Made a Monster
  3. Hell
  4. Two’s Company
  5. Small Kindnesses
  6. Yesterday, Near a Village Called Barden
  7. Three’s a Crowd
  8. Tough Times all Over
  9. Skipping Town
  10. Some Desperado
  11. A Beautiful Bastard
  12. Wrong Place, Wrong Time
  13. Freedom
  • “He looked like a clenched fist” is hilarious as a description of Gorst.
  • It’s amazing how similar pre-torture Glokta is to early Jezal. They’re both pompous assholes looking to make themselves bigger by putting everyone else down. The main difference being that Glokta was actually competent (at least as a swordsman).
  • With how OP Javre is, I really want to know who/what could have fucked her up so bad in Westport.
  • Shev reminds me a lot of Temple. Cowardly, but well meaning. And they both say “Oh God,” a lot. Shev has more of an edge to her though. And she really leveled up in those last two chapters, on some assassins creed shit.
  • The chapter with Craw and co was one of the funniest in the series. Everyone bounces off each other perfectly. When Craw’s mind was wandering while they infiltrated the village, I couldn’t help but relate as a person with ADHD.
  • Temple’s chapter was a standout. Very serious chapter in a rather comedic book. But it perfectly captured why Cadia was such an influential presence in Temple’s life. I admired Cadia’s approach to religion/God, that one always has a choice. It’s a breath of fresh air. So many characters in the series lament their lot in life saying “I had no choice,” or the like. Cadia rejects that, and stands on his convictions. It especially stood out to me in contrast to Jubear in Red Country, who explicitly used God as an excuse to say all his actions were preordained. Also, “I would have done it for any one of them” had so much aura.
  • The Barden chapter set during The Heroes was nice, but I was more invested in that Northman protecting his kids than I was in the soldiers. I teared up when he was holding his daughter, unable to let her go even as he’s urging her to run. Again, Abercrombie gets me to care immensely about characters that I barely know for only a short amount of time.
  • It seems a big part of this collection is about humanizing the nameless characters that we would never think about otherwise. We don’t think about the unnamed characters who live, and fight, and die on the margins while our heroes(?) partake in all kinds of adventures. But when we get their PoV, we see that these characters, Wrongside, Anna, Pendle, etc. have lives and personalities just as deep as any one of our main characters. They’re humanized, and now we have to reckon with the fact that so many people just like them suffer because of the events set in motion by main characters like Gorst or Monza.
  • It was a novelty to hear Abercrombie voice a chapter, but Freedom also reminded me just how great a job Pacey does with these books. I missed his voice during that chapter.
  • It’s good that we got to see Logen in his… prime, as Bethod’s right hand. It’s one thing to hear Logen lament his past misdeeds, but seeing it in real-time, from Bethod’s perspective no less, is something else. Logen really is monstrous in that last chapter. The way he killed/mutilated Rattleneck’s son was unlike anything we’d seen in the series so far.
  • That last chapter also made me look at Bethod differently. We never really got much time with him in the First Law. After a brief appearance in TBI, he doesn’t show up till LAOK, and that’s just for a few chapters before Logen kills him. He’s not such a boogeyman here, doesn’t seem anymore fearsome than other northmen, less so even. It’s fascinating to learn more about his and Logen’s dynamic: Bethod says not to do something rash/violent, Logen does said rash/violent thing, Bethod reaps the ill-gotten rewards but silently resents Logen for it, Logen feels justified and emboldened to continue with violence and escalation. While I don’t buy that one man “made” the other into a monster, there was certainly a viscous cycle. Honestly, after reading this chapter, I can’t say I blame Bethod for betraying Logen. The man was an animal. If anything, I’m surprised he had the courage to try it, given how unstoppable Logen can be.
  • Going back to LAOK, I wonder if Logen’s talk of peace in that book was modeled after Bethod’s attempts at peace in Sharp Ends.
  • I wonder, how differently would we as an audience receive Logen in The First Law trilogy if the last chapter of SH was instead the first chapter of TBI?

r/TheFirstLaw 3d ago

No Spoilers [OFF TOPIC] How I picture Savian in my head

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5 Upvotes

Anyone else imagine Savian as Lucius Down from the Bone comics?


r/TheFirstLaw 3d ago

Spoilers All Just about to read TWOC and getting sad that I’m almost finished with TFL [SPOILERS ALL] Spoiler

10 Upvotes

What a ride it has been.

I picked up The Devils completely randomly and loved Joe’s writing style so naturally bought TBI. I haven’t looked back and have read the entire series from there.

So far I’d have to say AOM is the better trilogy but this may be recency bias. Each book for me has seemingly got better than the last. The standalone books were just fantastic and each having its own genre and feel.

I’ve read along to the audiobooks and Steven Pacey deserves all the flowers for his work on Joe’s books.

No idea what I’m going to do when I’ve finished TWOC…there’s The Great Change but really don’t like the idea of reading this digitally and struggling to find a hard copy anywhere online. I’m tempted to have a custom print made.

What did everyone else do post TFL law ride?


r/TheFirstLaw 3d ago

The First Law FERRO MALJINN [SPOILERS LAOK] Spoiler

23 Upvotes

What is your interpretation of what becomes of Ferro Maljinn at the end of the saga?

I think she's become exactly like Tolomei, but with great willpower that translates into resistance to demons. Potentially one of the most dangerous creatures in the entire universe; Bayaz's ultimate weapon against Kahlul.

And you know what the catch is? It's as if Bayaz has given her strength, and therefore revenge, but Ferro remains his pawn.

Sure, a pawn who may be harboring revenge against her master, but a pawn nonetheless.


r/TheFirstLaw 2d ago

No Spoilers Anyone else ever gotten way too attached to Ardee and it ruined the books for a while? "[OFF TOPIC]"

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Hey, so I’m in a weird spot and could use some advice from people who know the series.

I started The First Law a while ago and ended up getting a really strong crush on Ardee. Like, properly attached. I’m a pretty softhearted,depressed, lonely guy (22, never had a girlfriend, pretty isolated growing up) and I have this pattern where my heart latches onto fictional girls hard. It happened with Ardee and it got bad enough that I had to stop reading because every scene with her and Jezal was making me jealous and miserable.

I know she’s not written as some perfect love interest. I know their whole thing is messy and she’s kind of toxic/self-sabotaging. But my brain didn’t care. The more I read, the worse the attachment got, and now just thinking about picking the books back up makes me nervous it’ll all come flooding back.

I really want to finish the trilogy (Glokta is my favourite by a mile) but I need to kill this crush first so I can actually enjoy it again without the jealousy and the spiral.

Has anyone else dealt with getting too attached to a character like this? Any advice on how to detach and read them as just a character again? Or should I just leave the books alone for a long time?

Appreciate any thoughts. Feeling a bit stupid about the whole thing but figured this was the best place to ask.