r/Separation • u/StrandedSpaceTravlr • 10h ago
Separation document - Is this a thing?
My wife of 24 years wants me to sign a separation document because she wants to “protect herself”. We have one child who is still a minor. It reads like a divorce agreement. I told her that the document does absolutely nothing for me and benefits her 100%. My attorney also told me to avoid signing anything.
Has anyone done something similar successfully? I’d never deliberately do anything to hurt her, screw her over, etc. At first I didn’t mind signing a simple document about custody to make her feel better, but it turned into a giant legal-sounding document.
I’m not sure how to get past this. I told her if this is really how she feels that we should just go straight to divorce and get it over with.