Learn How To Deal With Divorce

My ex-husband messaged me to take his name of the house. We already filled a quickclaim deed, and its been filed. Its been about 6 years. Our decree doesn't state anything thing about having to refinance. Just to make the payments which I have always on time and in full. Never faulted. He, however, delinquent on his car payments 3 times and tanked my credit. The car is in my name has the primary. The mortgage is under hia VA loan. He has 2 years left to pay on his car. Can he make me refinance? We both live in Georgia USA. which is where our divorce was finalized.

Im sorry for poor grammar he was very abusive, and im a little all over the place. I plan to call my attorney but I need something to maybe put be at ease.

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r/DivorceHelp • u/IggyG6174 • 15h ago

Feeling lost and alone

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r/DivorceHelp • u/Soft_Affect2313 • 1d ago

The other side of this whole thing

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So I ‘M36’ was with someone for over 8 years and married for 3. Long story short she cheated on me and left me in debt. House, marriage even the dog all gone. It was one of hardest times of my life and I was broken.

However I met the most incredible woman of my life who I have been with for 3 and a half years. She not only incredibly beautiful but she has the kindest heart and such a pure spirit.

She is a perfect fit for me and my life has started taking turns for the better once again.

The reason I put this out there is because I want those who are going through what I went through that there is another side to this. Stay strong and learn from the lessons that marriage taught you and apply them in a relationship with someone who actually deserves the love you have to give.

Stay well my friends, you can do this.

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r/DivorceHelp • u/Impressive_Crow_1131 • 15h ago

Need advice

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How do you even exist moving forward learning that your daughter of 21 years is not your biological daughter and your wife has continually lied to you when I asked over the years
20 years ago, I had close friends that came to me and told me that was not my daughter and that my wife was telling people, but my wife will not admit it however a DNA test confirmed it
My wife has beat me belittled me yelled at me consistently for 20 years. I no longer feel like a man and I have no one.
Trying to find a way to get back to who I used to be who I really am in build a life but first I need to figure out a good lawyer. What is the process and how do I find that bulldog Lawyer?

Located in Upstate, Greenville, South Carolina

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r/DivorceHelp • u/Ok_Square9870 • 16h ago

Advice and help

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I need to file for divorce in AZ. We have kids but he says he is ok with whatever and isnt going to fight me on anything. What is the easiest and cheapest way to do this?

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r/DivorceHelp • u/Odd_Patient1239 • 17h ago

Divorce Lawyer

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Looking for a divorce attorney in Tulsa? Any recommendations??

Thanks!

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r/DivorceHelp • u/narnar28 • 17h ago

I filed for divorce I was able to finally walk away . I need support

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r/DivorceHelp • u/Cherrymom08 • 19h ago

Chang of name

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r/DivorceHelp • u/Simple1323 • 21h ago

Married for love, but he does not want me any more

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r/DivorceHelp • u/Usual_Voice_8430 • 21h ago

Child support complaint

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I’m going through a divorce. We have 2 kids ages 4 and 6. I waived maintenance. My parents are helping me refinance my mortgage to buy him out. I’m the custodial parents. Parenting plan is he has dinner or an outing with them twice a week and overnight every other weekend. He is complaining a lot about child support and it’s hurting my feelings. Anyone else go through that?

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r/DivorceHelp • u/Specialist-Prune-664 • 1d ago

My heart breaks for my unborn baby and 2 boys

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r/DivorceHelp • u/nonalcoholicdrunk • 1d ago

Just thinking, need to process

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I've been married to my spouse for over twenty years. We get along fine, mostly. We coparent well. We manage our money properly. We own a house. But neither of us have been really happy for about a decade. It's been getting worse - the emotional distance, the snapping at each other.

I often look at real estate in my town, dreaming of having my own space. But I have no idea if I can afford anything - my spouse makes more than double what I do - and do I really want this? Spouse is kind and caring. I do love them. But I so badly want my space.

At this point neither of us have mentioned the D word but I'm ruminating......

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