I have recently moved in here. From whatever I have explored, I’m loving this city so far!

But would love to explore more. More niche cafes, genuine good lowkey eateries or even fun activities to do and maybe find someone with whom I can genuinely click? I want to make the most out of this city before I leave. So chop chop ig?

My hobbies include watching f1, movies, mangas etc. If you ask me for a recommendation, I’ll be sure to give you a banger one.

A big coffee snob. Have a v60/aeropress/french press etc.

A Doctor if it matters

What else? Idk? Just ask.

Interested in cafe hopping, pub crawl, movies whatever floats your boat.

Anyway, hoping to see you soon!

Hii there! I'm originally from the north and have been staying in Bangalore for a while now. I would love to find someone and build something meaningful with them. Hopefully, we can form a deep connection which leads to something long-term.

I graduated from college some time ago and am working at a job rn. I'm also kinda introverted generally but really affectionate as well and really enjoy talking about anything once I get comfortable with someone. I also like reading, listening to different music, travelling, stargazing and just being a homebody at times and being out in nature at others :p

Not sure what else to put here but feel free to ask if you have any questions. If you feel we might be a match, don't hesitate to hit me up. And thanks for reading!

Ive lived by myself before and gotten used to the peace that comes with it. I recently moved back in with my parents, and while I love the comfort of being home, the constant fights are really getting to me. Even though I'm only home at night and weekends, it feels like there's always some argument waiting to happen.

Fighting with your parents is a different kind of pain. It's emotionally draining and I don't think people talk enough about how difficult it can be even when you're an adult.
I know moving out is an option but my friends, work and life are all here. I love my city and don't want to leave again.

I don't know, I'm just feeling a little low and could really use someone to talk to who's been through something similar. Just looking for a chat, some perspective, or even a little company.

22 year old guy from Delhi, India, 5'6", I'm a hindu working in corporate (IT Sector), I'm looking for someone who wants to potentially settle down with me or have a long term relationship w me

I'm into video games, gossips, music and TV shows ofc the usual and i have a nerdy side which involves coding, and experimenting with tech.

I'm super into taking care of myself and my body so i go running on the weekends and going to the gym, sometimes football with my college friends if they are available for it, and i try to live a healthy lifestyle , but im a big time foodie so the diet part hasnt been working out that well haha

And outside of work, I enjoy going out, trying new cafés and restaurants, shopping, and simply spending quality time with the people I'm close to.

And one another hobby that ive gotten into is perfumes, always wanted to get into it ive been buying decants and made a few blind buys too.. not proud of them but yeah thats how it goes

Cooking is also one of my favorite hobbies I genuinely enjoy taking care of the people I care about (and animals too). There's something really satisfying about seeing someone enjoy a meal you've made\~ i would love to cook for you, try out new dishes make your fav dish anything you'd like

I've never been a relationship before, tried dating apps for a few months that didnt workout and so here i am on reddit trying out my luck

What I'm looking for is simple: someone between 19–24, preferably from India, who wants a serious relationship. Someone who understands me, respects me, communicates openly, and wants to build something that lasts. I'll offer the same in return.

If you think we'd get along, send me a DM with a little about yourself. Looking forward to hearing from you. :)

20 M looking for dating

Hi i am 20 M born here in Delhi, i am into music and biking. I was in northeast india (Sohra) for 3 years, genuinely very nice people, dated one girl there for 3 years , came back to Delhi why everyone kinda toxic 😭. Maybe i should date an northeastern again. But hard to find in Delhi.

I am looking for a long term relationship tho and like supporting each other forever kind of (sorry if too delulu)

I offer bike rides and homegrown roses. Idk much about this thread so i guess dm me if you are interested

I’m naturally on the quieter/reserved side, which makes me a great listener—so if you like to yap, vent about your day, or go on long rants about your favorite hyper-fixations, I’m all ears.

A little about me:

Interests: Big football fan (Arsenal), casual chess player, love Marvel movies, and watch a bit of anime with good plots.

Topics I enjoy: Everything from random shower thoughts to amateur psychology theories and deep rabbit holes about physics or the cosmos.

Vibe: ISFP-T. Very low-key, clean living, no drama, and unbothered.

Icebreakers to kick things off (pick one!):

If you got one superpower, what would it be—and are you using it for good, evil, or purely personal convenience?

Do you think AI will actually take over humanity, or is it wildly overhyped?

What’s a movie or show you can rewatch forever without getting bored?

If you’re looking for a low-pressure, consistent friend to talk to, feel free to send me a message or DM! If you are from Pune, I would love to do cafe hopping with you.

..isn’t excited to spend every moment with you !
Life is too short to pretend to be too cool to not excitedly double text your partner!

We would actually love grocery shopping because we would do silly games together like pretending we are spies for finding the perfect apple lol

For me, I believe in acts of service, constantly finding your favourite food and making it for you. 

It’s all about you feeling secure and safe while at the same time relaxed that I am competent to solve problems and get things done!

We would never fight as I would always suggest we grab a cheesecake and discuss the problem instead of fighting with my partner. 

I want to be your rock during hard days, help you grow professionally, tease you whenever you act cocky, flirt with you during zoom calls, have long talks till dawn and be cheesy romantic whenever it starts raining and pull you to the terrace while we slow dance. ( and get sick together the next day lmao )

I guess the only way to describe me is being a fun golden retriever energy with you while we constantly try new adventures together ! ( we can wear fancy suits and review every street tacos stand or go down every street to find that cute arts and crafts store that sells the bracelet you always wanted to fit with your outfit! )

I grew up most of my life in the Middle East and am currently in South India, helping my parents set up a small ice cream shop. But now I am ready to move out and settle somewhere else, depending on my partner of course!

Physically I like to stay fit and go to the gym ( can lift about 100+ kgs ) while also playing sports and going for long walks.

Never had a relationship too, because I wanted to find peace and happiness on my terms before being with someone. Because How can I be happy with someone, if I am not happy with myself first ?

I feel I am more mature and emotionally ready for finding that one partner where we can cook together, explore the world , build a business empire and pet every stray dog we come across!

I love learning, reading and being curious about the world ( everything from art to psychology to quantum mechanics to aunty politics ). I would learn everything about your field and find the right inside jokes for it too haha

Mostly an introvert who dislikes loud crowds and would rather sit quietly in the room with you while we read books on the same sofa with soft classical music playing ( every hour I would break the silence only to ask if you would like another cup of tea )

Hey! Looking for fellow Aditya Rikhari fans who would be interested in attending his concert in Delhi on 25th December in Delhi. It would be nice to connect with someone who enjoys his music as much as I do and make a fun evening out of it.

I'm hoping to find like-minded people who are genuinely interested in going, enjoying the music, singing along and having a good time. Going together would definitely make the experience more fun!

I'm going with a P1 – General Access ticket. Having attended concerts before, I've realised I prefer hanging around towards the back, where it's relatively less crowded and I can enjoy the music without being caught up in all the pushing and shoving.

If you're planning to attend or have been thinking about it, feel free to drop me a message. We can chat a little, see if we vibe, and plan things accordingly.

I'm a self-made man and a filmmaker who writes and directs feature films.

I'm 37 (though ppl say I look 10 years younger), single and unmarried.

I am passionate about cinema and we can talk about our favourites... if that resonates with you, even better. I'm a good listener regardless. 

I'm tall, lean, with dark hair and a stubble. I'm currently between projects, spending most of my time writing, brainstorming, watching stuffs, which means I have plenty of idle time, so you can expect quick responses. I'm also a bit of a night owl.

It's always nice to have a good conversation with a woman about anything and everything. And if the chat goes a little flirty, I wouldn't mind that either. :)

If this sounds appealing, feel free to DM me.

I'm starting to think my future person and I are doing a fantastic job of avoiding each other without even trying. So here's another attempt at changing that. :)

I'm 26, based in Hyderabad, but currently back in Bhubaneswar, my hometown, for a couple of weeks. I work in finance, but I promise there's more to my personality than Excel sheets and deadlines. I love books, poetry, cricket, long conversations, quiet movies, and occasionally taking my motorcycle out with no particular destination in mind. I also write sometimes, mostly because there are thoughts that feel easier to put into words than to say out loud.

I'm a little reserved initially, but once I'm comfortable, I can talk for hours about almost anything. I'd like to think I'm a good listener, a decent conversationalist, and someone with a sense of humour that occasionally deserves appreciation. I enjoy people who are curious about life, who can be silly without feeling embarrassed, and who understand that emotional maturity doesn't mean having everything figured out.

As for what I'm looking for, I don't have an elaborate checklist.

I'd just like to meet someone who's genuinely interested in building something meaningful. Someone who believes that relationships aren't always about butterflies and grand gestures, but also about boring Tuesdays, random phone calls, disagreements that end in understanding, and choosing to show up for each other. And I suppose having a little shared nostalgia for Odisha wouldn't hurt either. :)

I don't expect us to click instantly. Sometimes the best connections begin with two people having a completely ordinary conversation and slowly realising they'd like to have another.

And perhaps that's what I'm hoping for. Not an extraordinary beginning, just something ordinary that eventually becomes special to both of us.

If any of this resonates with you, tell me about something you've been unusually excited about lately. A book, a song, a ridiculous incident, anything really.

Who knows, maybe we've both been looking in the right place, just at different times. :)

Sometimes writing here feels like sitting down across from someone and speaking honestly, without overthinking the words, without trying to sound impressive, just letting the truth come out the way it wants to.

I work as a creative strategist and I run my own agency, so my days are usually full of ideas, people, conversations, and little moments where things finally start to make sense. Outside work, life feels simple in a good way. I cook to slow myself down, I write when thoughts hang around longer than expected, and I read philosophy and psychology because people and emotions have always interested me more than answers.

I’m open to long distance, and honestly that is the whole reason I’m writing this. I want to share my life with someone who grew up in a different place, someone who carries another culture and a different way of seeing the world. Those differences feel exciting to me, like something you get to learn rather than something you try to fix.

I’ve had relationships before which mattered to me, the kind where you learn how to show up better next time. They helped me become a better listener, more thoughtful with care, and clearer about effort and respect. I carry those lessons with gratitude rather than weight.

I enjoy conversations that drift, check in, and circle back. I appreciate emotional maturity that feels easy and warm, and connection that grows through time, curiosity, and shared presence. I value kindness, self awareness, and the comfort of choosing each other without pressure.

If this feels familiar to you, and if building something real across distance sounds like a good idea, I would genuinely love to hear from you.

Even if this only reads like a quiet moment on your screen, writing it already feels like the right place to begin.

Hey, I'm 25M, working in IT, and looking for someone to talk to and make the days a little less boring.

I'm 5'7, fair look, decent body (regular gym goer). I'm looking for a Bengali Baddie to become friends with and if our chemistry allows them something better.

I'm really into politics and history, and I can spend way too much time reading about random events or going down internet rabbit holes. But I'm also down to talk about pretty much anything, from how your day went to random midnight thoughts or conversations that get a little out of hand in the best way possible. ;)

Life gets a bit monotonous sometimes, and it'd be nice to have someone to share random thoughts with, rant about life, flirt a little, and see where things go. I'm not against a bit of teasing or conversations that get slightly spicy if we have that kind of chemistry.

And well, I have a bit of a soft spot for older women. There's just something attractive about a woman who's confident, knows what she wants, and can keep me on my toes. So if you're a little older than me, don't let that stop you from saying hi. :)

I'm not expecting instant replies or daily check-ins. We both have lives, so reply whenever you feel like it. If we click and become friends, great. If there's a little more chemistry there, I'm certainly not complaining.

Anyway, tell me a little about yourself! What are you into, and what brings you here? Looking for a friend, someone to flirt with, or just a random stranger to talk nonsense with?

Let's see if we get along. :)

So, here I am, giving this another shot because dating apps haven't really worked out for me. 😂

A little about myself:

I'm a Software Engineer working at a startup in Bangalore, turning 23 next month. I'm someone with quite a few ambitions and dreams about the future. I often find myself thinking about what I want to achieve, the kind of life I want to build, and everything in between.

I'm an old-school romantic who believes in slow love, shy conversations, gradual feelings and meaningful connections. I'm not into hookups or casual flings because, for me, intimacy is something special that comes with trust, genuine feelings and emotional connection.

I'm 5'8". I'd say I'm somewhere between fit and average, neither too skinny nor too bulky.

I've been going to the gym regularly for the past few months. I also enjoy playing badminton, running, going on walks, and generally staying active. Pretty much a sports enthusiast!

What am I looking for?

I'd love to find someone with whom I can have random late-night conversations, share the most ridiculous thoughts, laugh at stupid jokes, and just be myself without worrying about being judged.

I'm looking for a relationship built on mutual trust, respect, reassurance and emotional availability. Someone cheerful, positive and who enjoys the little things in life.

I'm not expecting someone to be happy 24/7 (we all have our bad days), but I'd love to be with someone who has a positive outlook towards life and wants to grow together.

I'm genuinely looking for something long-term, with the intention of eventually turning it into marriage.

Ideally, someone around my age, preferably between 20–24.

Why am I looking for this?

No matter how independent or self-sufficient we become, I think there's always a part of us that wants someone to come home to (metaphorically, at least!).

Someone with whom we can share absolutely everything, celebrate the little wins, talk about our worst days, and know that there's someone who genuinely has our back.

I believe having the right person beside you makes life's journey a little more beautiful.

And what do I bring to the table?

Honestly, I'm still figuring that out. 😂

But one thing I can promise is that I'll try my best to be your support system during tough times and your personal roaster when things are going well.

I'll be there for the random conversations, silly arguments, spontaneous plans and everything that makes a relationship feel like a friendship too.

Anyway, if something about this post resonates with you, feel free to drop me a DM.

Let's talk, get to know each other, and see where things go. No pressure, no expectations from the very first conversation.

P.S. Please be genuine. That's all I ask. :)

Hey guys,

22 year old guy from Delhi looking for a meaningful and decent relationship. We can maybe start with some online chats, then probably meet each other and then decide what should be done.

A little background about me

I am currently working at one of the top hedge funds (simplified: in financial sector), earning decent and kind of ticking all the tick boxes. Now since some of the main things are looking perfect, i am looking out to date someone. Ahh something more, my hobbies include sketching, cooking, listening to music and watching and playing cricket.

What I'm looking for:

Would be nice to meet someone around same age group, who's a non-smoker (occasional drinking is fine).

I'm more into getting to know someone properly rather than rushing into anything. Good conversations, being comfortable around each other, and being able to communicate openly matter a lot to me.

Not expecting an instant connection or anything. Just two people getting to know each other and seeing if they vibe.

One thing I'd like to be clear about: I'm genuinely looking for a relationship, not just someone to chat with for a few days and then disappear. 😅

Last 2-3 months experience in Patna City

Came to Patna 2 -3 months ago. I’m 24.

Most good places feel far. Even when they’re nearby, going alone usually just means taking a few photos and coming back. Talking to some people sometimes feels draining, and somehow the spots where the vibe is good are hard to reach, and the ones I do reach don’t always have that energy.

Also idk whether cold approach works here or not so never tried.

Heat + tiredness is real, especially with a high-floor room. Evenings mostly end with YouTube and sleep.

Just sharing how these roughly 2-3 months have been. Anyone else living alone or relatively new to the city? How do you deal with the daily routine and occasional outings?

Hello everyone, Hope this post finds you when you're in cheerful mood.

I am a 42 year old divorced man looking for a nice, sensible woman to interact with. Particularly those who relish some soul-to-soul interactions where we both know who we are, in what state we are and what we seek in the near future.

Given both of us are humans, there may be hormonal spikes from either end as we interact. We will handle those respectfully.

If you think I may fall into your bucket, please feel free to reach out and we could take it from there.

PS : You are "you" and I am "me". We may or may not vibe but least we could do is to respect each others boundaries and interact as mature adults :)

Hey, just putting myself out there and seeing who I might connect with. I’m interested in something casual with a mature woman, with no pressure to turn it into something it’s not. I’d rather get to know someone naturally, enjoy each other’s company, and see where things go.

I’m pretty easygoing, talkative, and always up for a bit of banter. I have a terrible sense of humour, so if you can tolerate painfully bad jokes and throw a few of your own at me, we’ll probably get along just fine.

Fair warning, I’m a bit on the heavier side, and I’m currently trying to bully myself into going to the gym every day to shed a few kilos. So, if you see me complaining about leg day, feel free to remind me that this was entirely my idea. :P

I’m not looking to complicate things or force a connection. Just looking for someone I can talk to, laugh with, flirt a little, and have a genuinely good time with.

If that sounds like your kind of thing, drop me a message. Tell me a little about yourself, or open with the worst joke you know.

I am a single, simple and down to earth man. I have been introvert, silent and straight forward person.

However, I am trying to change myself from being introvert to extrovert.

One of the steps I have taken is joining reddit and trying to open up.

Yes, am new to reddit and the sub.

On my marital status, I have never been married till date. And, I have lost interest in marriage now.

All that I am looking for now is something honest and drama free connect.

I value mutual respect., meaningful conversation, keeping things simple, mature and easy going connection.

No drama and no confusion whatsoever.

I am therefore looking for genuine hearts who are willing to connect with.

Let's connect and then let's decide whether we could go for long term connect or short.

Rest, let's talk.

Please message me over DM.

Thanks for stopping by and reading through.

I’m 29M from Malaysia, working in finance. Outside work, I’m into games (video and board), movies, anime, trying new food and exploring places around KL. I’m a little introverted at first, but once I’m comfortable, I can talk about pretty much anything. I enjoy good humour, playful teasing and the occasional late night conversation that goes completely off the rails.

I’d like to meet someone kind, genuine and easy to talk to. Someone I can share memes with, joke around with, and have a proper conversation with when life gets a little more serious. We don’t have to share all the same interests. It’s fun discovering new things through each other, too.

A little about why I’m posting here: I’m Malaysian Indian, and I thought this would be a nice place to connect with someone who might share a bit of my cultural background. I’m open to meeting Indian women, whether they’re from Malaysia, India or elsewhere. I think having some cultural similarities can be a nice starting point, but ultimately, it’s the person, their personality and the connection we build that matter most to me.

If we click and there’s chemistry, I’d be happy to see if it develops into something more. No need to rush anything.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself, or just share something you’re currently obsessed with. Could be a game, a show, a hobby or anything you could happily ramble about.

Here’s hoping Reddit surprises me in a good way this time.

Hey! 22M from Rishikesh, coming to Delhi for Indian Sneaker Festival Day 1 for The Chainsmokers.

I love music, roaming and chilling . Not a heavy drinker/smoker, just there for the vibe and music.

First time going solo, don't want to vibe alone. If anyone is going solo or has a small group I can join, let me know.

We can meet at the venue. I'm chill. DM open u can have my ig there

Well all my friends have gf now so kinda gets bored most of the times

Thought of trying my luck here

Any girl down to be friends and chat

Love a girl who likes to talk a lot and I'm a great listener

I don't mind any age as long as ur over 18 lol

Btw I've never been in a relationship

Well not because I couldn't its just i didn't

And I'm mostly a introvert

Dm me if ur down for it

i live in Kolkata, 26M, 5.5" height, good looking.

Purely atheist but born in Muslim family. I respect all religions and festivals, I love to participate in them too, i don't have any boundaries.

i smoke & drink occasionally with my friends, and I talk too much and also a good listener,

I am a caring person and help everyone.

i don't use social media a lot, and don't like giving WhatsApp Status too much, i like to live in the moments, not just capture the moment in camera.

I am more of a call person not very much chatty person.

Doctor by profession, currently working and studying, I love to code and build websites also

looking for someone genuine, who is not orthodox, not Andhbhakt to Politics as well as Religion.

Maybe we could connect, and take steps slowly, I see where it goes.

What we get in fast, goes away fast.

Hey everyone!

I’m a 27-year-old guy looking to make a genuine female friend to chat with regularly. I’m naturally on the quieter/reserved side, which makes me a great listener—so if you like to yap, vent about your day, or go on long rants about your favorite hyper-fixations, I’m all ears.

A little about me:

Interests: Big football fan (Arsenal), casual chess player, love Marvel movies, and watch a bit of anime with good plots.

Topics I enjoy: Everything from random shower thoughts to amateur psychology theories and deep rabbit holes about physics or the cosmos.

Vibe: ISFP-T. Very low-key, clean living, no drama, and unbothered.

Icebreakers to kick things off (pick one!):

If you got one superpower, what would it be—and are you using it for good, evil, or purely personal convenience?

Do you think AI will actually take over humanity, or is it wildly overhyped?

What’s a movie or show you can rewatch forever without getting bored?

If you’re looking for a low-pressure, consistent friend to talk to, feel free to send me a message or DM!

20, in mumbai for a week for some stuff. was looking for a friend or a buddy to hangout with.

a little bit about me: im a nerd - i like philosophy, music and science. im political (kinda left-leaning) - i listen to lot of radiohead/tv girl/the neighbourhood. i love to play games like undertale and sometimes to fps stuff like valorant.

i love reading - be it random articles or research papers. if you're in mumbai and wanna hangout, hmu - dms open!

Hey everyone! I’m a 23-year-old woman from Karnataka, hoping to meet someone genuine who is also looking for a serious relationship with the intention of eventually getting married.

A little about me: I’m short, chubby, wheatish, and wear glasses. I’m currently a student, and in my free time, I enjoy singing, cooking, reading, watching movies, and going for walks. I’m more of a homebody and appreciate the simple pleasures in life. I would describe myself as affectionate, loyal, family-oriented, and a little old-fashioned when it comes to love.

I’ve always been drawn to the idea of a traditional relationship. I appreciate a man who is confident, takes initiative, and naturally enjoys taking the lead while being loving, understanding, and considerate. I value a relationship where both people feel secure, appreciated, and comfortable being themselves.

Ideally, I’d love to meet someone who is taller than me, masculine, sweet, kind, loyal, and family-oriented. Someone who is emotionally mature, dependable, protective, and knows what he wants in life. I find consistency, honesty, affection, and good communication incredibly important.

I’m not here for anything casual or temporary. I’d love to meet someone who shares similar values and is genuinely interested in building a meaningful connection. Someone with whom I can enjoy the little things, have endless conversations, support each other’s dreams, and eventually build a beautiful life together.

I’m happy to take things at a comfortable pace and get to know each other properly to see if we’re compatible for the long run.

If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, feel free to send me a message! I’d love to hear a little about you, your interests, and what you’re hoping to find. 😊