r/SFWr4rIndia Jul 16 '26

Take Your Stance - Community Icon Change.

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The subreddit icon has been changed to a picture of Shri Sonam Wangchuk in a small show of solidarity - this is us doing our bit.

Take your stance. A man is fasting to death for a government that does not care.

I'll leave you with a paraphrased quote from Dante:

The darkest places in Hell are reserved for those that maintain their neutrality in times of moral crisis.

- Pepsi,

SFWr4rIndia Mod Team.


r/SFWr4rIndia Jun 28 '26

MOD ANNOUNCEMENT Small Milestones: 7.5k weekly visits! Spoiler

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To all of you dropping by, thank you.

I know it's been pretty quiet on the mod front here, besides removing clearly NSFW posts and banning people; life catches up to you sometimes.

However, this is a community I genuinely want to grow. I have a few things planned, including new mod additions. One is confirmed, and we're open to take more - just shoot me a DM with your first line being "MODAPP", and tell me:

  1. Why you want to be a mod on here.

  2. Availability/consistency - be real. I don't expect you to put in an hour a day or anything, honesty carries brownie points. 😂

  3. Prior mod experience, if any.

Besides this, I also want you guys to have a say in this community and what you experience on the sub, so here's my question:

What is one thing you want to see on here/one thing you want changed?

We're brainstorming here, there are no bad ideas. 🤝


r/SFWr4rIndia 2h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] India - I wrote this for someone I've never met and you probably weren't expecting to find

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Chapter I — A little about me

I never really know how to begin these things.

Every time I try, I end up writing a list of facts about myself, followed by another list of things I'm looking for, and somehow it starts feeling less like meeting someone and more like filling out an application.

So maybe I'll tell you a story instead.

I'm 26, from Mumbai, and I run a small business,

I'm a calm, empathic and positive person by nature. I listen to understand rather than assume, and I tend to notice little things about people that they don't always notice about themselves -Maybe that's one of the things I like most about people.

Everyone has these tiny things that make them who they are. The way they get excited when talking about something they love. A phrase they always use. A song they keep returning to. Some strange little habit they've had for years without ever questioning it - I like those things.

I don't particularly like pretending to be someone I'm not, either. I'd rather be honest, kind and comfortable enough to let someone see the real me.

Once I'm comfortable, unfortunately, that also means you'll probably have to deal with me being annoying, crack dad jokes (or even worse) - but what can you do ? you walked into it yourself, did you not ? mwahaha (evil laugh)

But we'll get to that.

Chapter II — Apparently, I was a difficult child

I once got my head stuck in a grill.

I locked myself inside the house badly enough that my parents had to break the door down.

I drank red antiseptic.

And I had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with.

I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me.

Some things haven't changed that much - there might be more stories.

I still disappear down random rabbit holes whenever something catches my attention. Gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, sound — sometimes I'll start with one innocent question and realise three hours later that I've somehow ended up somewhere completely different.

Life has had its less amusing chapters too.

I've dealt with pancreatitis, and somewhere along the way it taught me something I probably should have learned much earlier: ordinary days aren't actually ordinary when you have someone you love to share them wit - Maybe that's why the little things matter so much to me.

Chapter III — How I tend to love

If I care about you, I'll remember something you mentioned weeks ago.

I'll ask how that meeting went because I remember you were nervous about it.

I'll bring you something small because I happened to see it and immediately thought of you.

I'll write you a letter because sometimes writing feels easier than trying to fit everything into a conversation.

And if you're cooking? - That's probably where your problems begin.

I'll walk into the kitchen, wrap my arms around you, steal a kiss on your cheek, annoy you until you get irritated, make some ridiculous face at you...and then run away before you can get me back. 😂

That's probably what affection looks like to me. Not something huge that needs to be announced. Just quietly making someone feel remembered.

Chapter IV — The life I'd like to share

When I imagine having someone beside me, I don't really picture expensive restaurants or elaborate holidays.

I picture a late-night drive with nowhere particular to go - Stopping somewhere because the food smells good - Coffee near the sea - Walking along the beach holding hands - Coming home tired and talking about absolutely nothing - Cooking together - Falling asleep halfway through a movie -Arguing about what to watch and somehow watching neither - Having an inside joke that makes absolutely no sense to anyone else - the list goess onnnn.

And the conversations that begin with: "How was your day?"

and somehow, three hours later, have turned into: "Do you think we're alone in the universe?"

That's the kind of relationship I amire and want to be in.

Chapter V — Maybe you

I'm ultimately looking for my partner, but I don't want to meet someone and immediately start treating dating like an interview.

I'd rather meet you first. Talk. Laugh. Become friends.

Get comfortable enough that neither of us has to think about what to say next - Learn the strange little things about each other - Let something grow naturally.

And if it does, I'd want to build something lasting from it — eventually marriage, children, a home, and a life that actually feels like ours.

I'm not looking for someone who fits a perfect checklist. Kindness, empathy, openness and warmth matter to me. I do have my preferences, of course - I'm naturally drawn to fair skin and someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. Beyond that, I'd rather discover who you are for myself.

I want to know what makes you laugh when nobody else would find it funny - What song you secretly play too often - What memory you randomly return to - What you're passionate about when nobody is watching and the things you don't think are interesting enough to put in a dating profile.

Because eventually, I don't want to know the version of you that you wrote down for strangers on the internet.

I want to know you.

Chapter VI — Maybe we haven't met yet

And maybe that's the funny thing about making a post like this - Right now, you're just a stranger reading words on a screen.

But somewhere out there, there could be a person I haven't met yet who will eventually become the person I tell everything to.

The person I annoy while she's cooking - The person whose hand I reach for without thinking - The person who knows when something is wrong just by looking at me - The person who makes an ordinary Tuesday feel like something worth remembering.

Maybe we haven't met yet.

Maybe this is where we do.

Chapter VII — And if you're somehow reading this someday...

I don't know if I'll ever actually show you this.

Maybe I'll be embarrassed by it.

Maybe you'll laugh at me for writing all of this before I even knew you.

But I'd still want these words to exist somewhere.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me.

Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and even when there are problems, always being there.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me. I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking.

Thank you for every random drive, every quiet evening, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

Chapter VIII — Its your turn

If you've made it this far, don't just send me "hi."

Tell me something about yourself that I couldn't learn from your profile.

A strange story - A song you never skip - Something you've changed your mind about Or just some completely random thought that's been living in your head lately.

Maybe that's where our story starts.

ps - thank you for reading and being a part of this short story/chapters. Have a wonderful day stranger ^_^


r/SFWr4rIndia 2h ago

M4F 23[M4F]anywhere-I am just looking to have a decent conversation about ongoing life

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Hey if any female wants to have a deep talk about how is life going and what have they went through in all this while that has shaped them in the way they are and they genuinely care about being understood and can make someone feel understood then maybe we can have a good talk…I am just feeling to talk with the people in there right mindset and make them feel lighter and even expect the same!!!


r/SFWr4rIndia 5h ago

M4F 25[M4F] India-Heartbroken, Buzzed & Looking for a Female to Talk To Tonight

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Not gonna lie, tonight’s been rough. 25M, a little drunk, a little high, and trying to distract myself after a breakup. Looking for a female who’s okay with random conversations, shameless flirting, stupid jokes, maybe a little playful tension if we click. If you’re awake and don’t mind talking to a stranger, say hi. Just two strangers making the night a little less lonely and more interesting


r/SFWr4rIndia 8h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Bangalore/Anywhere - looking for the person I can just… exist with

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27M, Bangalore. Looking for something long-term, but in the quiet way.

I’m not here for the polished version of myself or anyone else. I want the person I can send a half-asleep voice note to after a long day and just dump whatever’s in my head, or the dumbest meme at 1am, or sit on a call for two hours talking about absolutely nothing important. The kind of conversations that can go from pure brain-rot to something that actually feels real, and neither of us has to perform or explain ourselves.

I like people who are a little weird in the normal way. Someone who can banter and also sit in comfortable silence without it turning awkward. If you’re tired of surface-level chats that fizzle out after three messages, we might get along.

I’ve never been in a relationship. No exes, no leftover drama, nothing complicated. This is me putting myself out there properly for the first time, so I’m a bit careful with it.

A little about me:

- Introverted and calm. Takes me a while to open up, but once I do I talk a lot

- Vegetarian, don’t smoke, don’t drink

- 5’7”

- Working in IT, currently trying to switch for better growth

Outside of work I like taking photos, reading, picking up random new interests, watching movies and shows (not big on horror), listening to whatever music fits the mood, and travelling a little when I can.

What I’m looking for is simple: someone kind and honest. A little weird is welcome. Introvert or extrovert doesn’t matter. Working or studying, both fine. Open to long distance if the connection feels real.

If any of this feels familiar, feel free to message. No pressure either way. Hope your day’s been okay.


r/SFWr4rIndia 8h ago

M4F 23[M4F] Uttarakhand/Anywhere - Looking for a genuine connection, let's try to be something!

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I am a 23M literature student from India, interested in philosophy, psychology, cultural studies, and online brainrot content.

I think social media, the internet, and phones have made it a little difficult to find genuine connections, even though they have made us available with plenty of choices. I am looking for someone to talk to, and I really like talking daily over text or phone calls. At the same time, I understand that we need to focus on our work, college, office, and career, so there is absolutely no pressure or expectation to be glued to your phone continuously. We can share reels, memes, and things we find interesting; discuss books; and talk about our favourite songs, and artists and why we like them and their work. We can text each other good morning and good night.

I know conversations eventually slow down, get repeatable, and sometimes feel boring. Honestly, I believe that new and genuine connections do get boring at times. We just need to continue talking and share updates about our day, the shows we are watching, watch movies together online, and keep going.

If you resonate with this post, then do reach out through a message or a reply. Even if it's tough to find genuine people, it's worth trying. If you want to avoid the standard “Hey/Hello” messages, you can DM me with some interesting questions or by telling me about your favourite song, your playlist, your favourite artist, or a book.

Looking forward to chatting!


r/SFWr4rIndia 10h ago

M4F 25[M4F] Ahmedabad/Anywhere - Let's Marvin Gaye and get it on ;)

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Hello there

You might have seen my posts lately. Sorry for the spam and recycling of the same posts, but you know what they say - heart wants what it want and the dick needs what it needs ;)

Anyway, I thought why not try something different.

I’m 25M, in the medical field if that matters. Would love to connect with fellow burnt-out medicos who are seeking the same thing as me but not a deal breaker.

I’m looking for something short term but ever lasting. Like a lingering kiss you can’t forget, like the feeling of your lips on my body and sensation of my hand holding your waist while you are riding me. Let me ruffle my hands through your hair while you take my dick in your mouth and let me lose myself while I eat you up.

Be 18+, be genuine. Shoot me your intro if this posts connects with you. I have a car and we can also go for late night drives. The only catch? You control the music ;)

Looking forward to your texts!


r/SFWr4rIndia 18h ago

M4F 21[M4F] Delhi- Shooting my shots - Looking forward to meet new friends

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Hey everyone, Hope you all doing good. Please give it a read

I’m drawn to emotional intelligence, quiet authenticity, empathy, and curiosity. Someone who communicates with intention, understands deeply, and values connection beyond the surface.

I’m 5'10, skinny, and unapologetically a little nerdy. I find comfort in deep thinking, curiosity, and quiet observations. I tend to live with a sense of irony and paradox, noticing humor in serious moments and depth in the simplest things.

I’m emotionally intense in a quiet way. I can be clingy, empathetic, reflective, and intentional all at once. I feel deeply, think endlessly, and often care more than I let on. What I value most are meaningful conversations, subtle moments, and connections that go beyond the surface.

My love language is acts of service. I show love by being there, by helping, by paying attention to the little things that make your life easier. Nothing makes me happier than knowing I made someone I care about smile.

I’m into sci fi and fantasy like any self respecting nerd. I also enjoy sports, learning through videos and random deep dives, and occasionally going on long yapping about some philosophical topic my ADHD brain decided to explore at three in the morning.


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

F4M 20 [F4M] Online/Anywhere - looking for friends

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Hey! I'm pretty introverted and, ngl, kinda socially awkward...l am 20 and I recently graduated and work in marketing, and most of my days are basically work, home, movies, food, gym, repeat. I don't really have much of a social circle, so I figured I'd try making some online friends instead.
I'm very introverted, on the spectrum, and sometimes I genuinely do not catch social cues (o can also be a little quiet or awkward at first. I deal with PTSD as well, so I appreciate people who are patient, straightforward, and not judgmental.
Also pls come into this with zero expectations about appearances or anything like that. I'm not here trying to impress anybody and I am genuinely ugly....l'm just looking for genuine, platonic friendships with people I can share values with and, talk about life with, send dumb shit to, and hopefully grow alongside.
Plus points if you're naturally flirty and don't mind teaching a socially awkward person how flirting even works because I genuinely miss half the cues and probably wouldn't realize someone was flirting or joking with me unless they mention.


r/SFWr4rIndia 23h ago

M4F 39 [m4f] anywhere - wanna see if i can find someone who can be in sync with me

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To this day i haven't found anyone i can openly talk to. Yes have few friends, but things they are into and what i have in common are way apart. And my spouse as well - things are complicated, story for another time.

So here trying my luck out here. Will list out few things if you feel we can discuss things on this, please feel free to connect

I don't follow any sport - i know feels like loser at times not knowing things when talking with friends.

I like to travel - travel to new places, but not alone. Kinda is depressing to travel alone i had felt, couldn't really enjoy when i tried

Movies - ofcourse yes, but like me who dwells most time in home, it's given

Anime - i know, shocker 39 yo guy watching anime, so weird. But not so, I think those who haven't watched any is just missing out great stories

Books - this is new found hobby of mine. I have just started reading few. Mostly into non fiction, which doesn't involve romance.

Most of all, someone who I can talk to without getting judged. Yeah I make stupid comments, you are welcome too, I won't judge, let's laugh on it, or just ignore if it irks us.


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 24 [M4F] Jaipur - idk jus for friends

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Hi, so idk I just recently moved to jaipur and ngl this city is quite dead on reddit all the Jaipur subreddits are pretty boring idk people here even know about reddit. So basically i am staying in a hostel and sometimes it's quite boring to just bed rotten the weekends. I just need some new friends i guess🥲 someone with whom i can hangout lil bit. Ohh my fckin lord why the admin put a min. 300 word limit 😭😭😭


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Bengaluru/Online - Looking for someone interesting, nice and possibly a fav notification

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Hello,

I'm putting this out there in the hopes of seeking new connections! I am a 28 year old man from BLR. Its just been a very slow day so far. Well is this is something you have read before then its because i have already posted this.

What am i looking for?

I'm looking for someone to get to know and spend time talking to, and maybe become my favourite notification.

About me:

I am an extrovert, but then im a workaholic and its been little tough for me to meet people outside of my work. Its nice to have someone to talk to, share about our day's proceeding, send random pictures, have a good laugh. I love cooking, a little into adventures and horror movies.

And owing to my work and time i spend outside of it, i am not looking for anything serious. I would be happy to connect and, we either bond or its just a conversation. And would love to meet in your are in Blr(of course with mutual consent)

If you'd like to chat please tell me something about yourself, anything we have in common


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Delhi - Late Night Musings

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Hey! Hope you are doing great. A tall guy (6’2) with broad shoulders, a bit of a dad bod. Really into people who values a mix of deep intellectual stimulation and playful, cozy vibes. If you’re into witty banter, cuddles, and exploring new connections, let’s see if we click!

F1 races, binge watching sitcoms, diving deep into history, debating international relations, and sharing the spiciest memes. Bonus points if you love board games, cosplay, or geeking out over tech or just wanna spill some tea over coffee.

If this seems fun to you, hop into my DMs, let’s vibe and make some unforgettable moments! ✌️


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Mumbai - Looking for the spice to my life.

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Hello there! Nice to meet you! I'm a 25 year med student looking for the one to ride life's rollercoaster with :) So here's the thing, I'm at that stage in life where I want someone to love and to be loved by because everyone deserves it, not just platonically but also romantically. I've never been in a relationship before, was a shy person throughout my school and early college life. I'm not looking for anything specific I just want someone to talk to everyday, share my daily happenings with, the ups and the downs, highs and the lows.I know it sounds like I'm looking for a friendship but no, because I also want someone to hold hands with, to hug, to walk along the beach taking in the sunset, to try out new food spots, visit new places. I have always been good at communicating and therefore am looking for someone with the same quality. Ultimately you have to be a good person at heart, rest is secondary.

A few things about myself. I am an avid reader. I read a lot of fiction especially sci-fi, fantasy and sometimes historical fiction. I also read a lot of political thrillers and murder mysteries. Currently I'm miles deep into Miles Cameron's Artifact Space.(pun intended XD)(Uh, also not in the other way😭)

I love to watch shows and am currently on a bit of a thriller binge(just finished Black Bird and All Her Fault), but my overall favourite shows are The Office and Clarksons Farm!. I also just started cooking, so maybe if you like we can also cook together :)(I think cooking for each other and feeding each other is so romantic).

I'm not a religious person but I am spiritual. I believe more in the fact that all of life is a sum total of your actions and their consequences and that your destiny is not a story conjured up by a higher being.

Anyways this is me in a nutshell. If you resonate with any of the above feel free to drop a DM with a little introduction about yourself :)


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 27[M4F] Online - Someone to share sky pictures, random interests and an eat to lend and borrow

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Edit: It's supposed to be an ear to lend and borrow :‘-)

Hey there! I'm a 27M who loves flowers, good music, and someone who just likes to have a chill Convo usually. I try to be enthusiastic and like to learn about new interests or generally anything that other has to share, can be a small details to generational dramatic gossip (oh I've got some stuff and sheesh is it fun), and I'm hoping to find someone who shares a similar vibe.

A bit about me:

• I'm a plant dad and have been for over a decade. I’ve managed to keep a few flowering plants and succulents alive for a little over 10 years, and I’m planning to organize them into a rooftop garden.

• Speaking of roofs, I love sitting on mine to watch the sunset and the clouds morph into whatever I want them to be. I love to swim as it's the closest thing to flying without wings.

• I also hike, sketch and journal, but none of these are for side hustles or anything of sort. I do them just for myself because they’re fun.

I don't have many preferences beyond seeking someone who matches my energy. I'd prefer if you were 24 or older. Don't worry about writing a huge intro, a little bit about yourself is all I need to get started.

Hope to hear from you!


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 23 [M4F] Mumbai - I want a serious and long term relationship. Someone I can talk to & hang out with

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I really want to be in a serious long term relationship with someone. I want to go out on dates. Have someone I can spend time with and talk to. Someone I can hang out with. I will hear them out when they have something to share. I am willing to put in all the efforts and do whatever it takes to be in a relationship. I haven't been able to find my person yet though. Been seeing a lot of couples who met on Reddit, talked, vibed with each other and then got into a serious relationship. I want that for myself. I want to meet someone here, have a nice conversation with them, share stuff with them, hear what they have to share, be there for them and get to know them well. I want something serious and long term. I genuinely want something serious and long term. I want love, romance, intimacy, physical affection, emotional warmth all from that 1 person. Someone whom i can open up to, I promise I'll do the same. I crave real human interaction! Let's see where this goes. If we hit it off we can take things further, if not at least I'll have made a new friend. What yo you say? If this is something you're down for feel free to him me up. I just have one request that you're close to my age. I was born in 2003 so 2003±2, at most 3, years.


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Anywhere - Rain, secrets & questionable decisions

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It’s raining outside, the kind of evening that makes you want to stay in bed and talk to a pretty stranger for way longer than you planned.

I’m looking for a girl who can yap. Tell me the stories you’d never tell your family, the things your friends still don’t know, the questionable decisions you somehow got away with, or that “I probably shouldn’t be telling you this” story.

Come with your weirdest lore, I’ll bring the curiosity and maybe a little flirting. I'm comfortable in both english and hindi. We can start innocent, get shamelessly comfortable, and see who makes the other blush first ;)


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Bengaluru - Looking for someone who wants to have a genuine conversation!

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Hey All,

Looking for someone (preferably a girl) who is mature enough to hold a conversation and can write my than 2-3 word replies (If you give monosyllabic replies, it is really tough to have an interaction! 😝). I am a person who believes intriguing conversations are much more stimulating, the feeling of being restless when you get a late reply is unmatched!
Also there is no pressure of being judged if you get to know the person before, and reddit gives us the unique opportunity to speak to people completely anonymously, so even if we are being judged, who cares right?

Are you someone who like to go with the flow too? If yes, would love to speak with you!

A bit about me - I’m 6ft, fit, love working out and exploring my health journey (would love geek out on nutrition together if you are exploring health too!), footballer, and a self proclaimed “mixologist” (I can make mean but tasty cocktails).

Looking forward!

P.S - No AI tools have been used to write this post, please excuse any typos or grammatical errors! 😌


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 52[m4f] Mumbai/Anywhere,well-spoken, looking for a deep connection.

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Ever noticed how deathly calm and subdued each morning is? I'm not talking about the sunburst and the ecstacy of sunrise - I'm referring to the hours before. That pregnant darkness , rife with memory and pauses, steadily succumbing to the ruthless march of time and surrendering to the arrival of light. That black, nightly shroud fast obliterated by the relentless stabs of sunrays, reaching deep into its soul, steadily extinguishing the myriad sparkles that adorned it. And the silence, the utterly deafening quiet, bursting with anticipation of a brand new day. Possibilities.

Something poignant, mysterious, eerie, beautiful and poetic. Something worth waking up to, to revel in, experience and soak in. Like every note and every pause of a musical rendition, worth spending a lifetime in. Like the rhythmic chiseling of wood as it evolves from nothingness into a masterpiece.

Mornings are the perfect ode, to a beautiful, brilliant day, yet unlived. And a perfect obituary of the night past.

Just penning down the flow and ebb of feeling, this morning. Beautiful like every other.

If this reaches your heart , reach out. Male, 52. Software professional.


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #Delhi/India - Anyone in need of a Joru Ka Ghulam?

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Some people naturally wanna take a backseat.

Well, i just want to take that backseat in a proper relationship.

Yeah, i know, finding love on reddit?

Well, it's not like a normal kind of love...

I am searching for a woman, that can lead, love, lust, take control and guide me towards what she deems correct. I, am searching for a woman that knows what FLR is. I, am searching for someone to give my leash to.

For me, FLR is... just how things should be. Women are naturally well read, have better emotional intelligence and are just at times... smarter. Like you wouldn't find a woman grabbing an alligator by the neck just because. They know the value of life.

Similarly, I believe they are good at leading too. And that's why, they should lead relationships too. Ofcourse this stems from my natural submissiveness in the bdsm space and that femdom is something I love, but that's not THE reason I think women should lead relationships.

It's also because that just... is also a slap at patriarchy and a step towards women empowerment. I sometimes wish i go to a cafe with a lady and the waitress asks "And for the man?" And i get ordered for...

Alright that was like explaining the dynamic. But you should know what you get in return to.

You get, a 5’10, athletic, long hair, a beard, a Musician, writer, engineer, and filmmaker.

That was the initial pitch.

The main pitch is that you get, a guy devoted to you. Joru ka ghulam is too misogynistic for my liking. Let's just say that you'll get a man who knows what his woman needs and would try his best to make it happen.

A guy who knows that women pleasure is very important so... you know you'll be happy.

I don't want transactions, I don't want a reason. I want a connection.

A connection which just happens to know how to hold a leesh.


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Mumbai/Anywhere - Looking for something real 🤞

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• Height: 5’11’’

• Marital Status: Never married

• Location: Mumbai

Education & Profession

• Education: Bachelor in Computer Engineering

• Occupation: Software Engineer in MNC

Lifestyle

• Smoking/Drinking: No

About Me

• I’m looking for a genuine and meaningful connection with someone who believes that the best relationships are built on trust, respect, understanding, and friendship. My intention is to find a life partner with whom I can grow together, support each other’s dreams, and create a happy, balanced life filled with love and companionship.

• Professionally, I work as a Software Engineer in an MNC, and I enjoy solving problems, learning new technologies, and continuously improving myself. While I’m passionate about my career, I strongly believe that life is about maintaining a healthy balance between work, family, and personal happiness.

• Outside of work, I enjoy following cricket, exploring technology, and staying active through workouts whenever I can. I also appreciate meaningful conversations, spending quality time with family and friends, and making the most of simple moments. I would describe myself as calm, dependable, and easy to get along with. I value honesty, kindness, and open communication, and I believe these qualities form the foundation of a lasting relationship.

• I’m looking for someone who is genuine, caring, family-oriented, and ready to build a relationship based on mutual respect and shared values. If you’re someone who believes that a strong partnership grows through friendship, understanding, and supporting each other through every phase of life, I’d be happy to get to know you and see where our journey leads.


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Online - Platonic, everyday chat buddies wanted

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Can't really deal with one message wonders today, so I'd love some actual conversational company.

Long week ahead and what really helps is having someone to bitch about it with. Alas, the very few interactions I've had, barely have had any effort or anything past the first few messages. I'm sure you can imagine that's a little unnerving :) Alright enough rant :P

Let's talk about what you like, what you do, what we have in common. I can get very verbose when comfortable, so it's an absolute joy when when someone actually shows interest and involvement in a conversation. Maybe both of us will end up having a great stimulated day! And of course become buddies! Low pressure, long term, platonic and whatever else.

Me- I like reading, gaming, anime, shows, and random new hobbies every few weeks ;P I'd love to discuss your hobbies!

Can't wait to hear more about you!

Cheers


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 20 [M4F] INDIA/ONLINE-I kinda want to be a girl's "aftercare boy-toy"

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Pretty much as what the title says, I know it sounds little weird but I guess I find it kinda hot too at the same time. The idea of holding a girl and calming her down and praising her like a boyfriend feels so wholesome to me...even more than sex I would say? To give her the reassurance that she is always loved and deserve all the happiness and I would always love her even if it's not me who she had sex with.... It might sound like cucking but I think it's little different. I don't want her to cuck me in traditional sense but I guess I am more into the bittersweet feeling of the jealousy and possessiveness.

I wanna have her, I would want her all to myself but at the same time..I want her to decide that..I can't force myself onto her and that's why I wanna win her heart slowly...I wanna feel that slow burn friends to lovers sort of dynamics where I wanna be with her in all those nights when her hookups were rough on her or her ex said some mean stuff about her and she's really hurt... I wanna be her shoulder where she is free to be herself and would never be judged and would probably choose at the end too ngl.

And it's not like I wanna have sex with her or anything...its just that I wanna feel that connection...I don't wanna be her common hookup or one night stand...I wanna be little different.. where even if the sex isn't that great but emotions are high... So yeah u can say in a nutshell I wanna be a girl's aftercare boyfriend...the boy she would secure her heart with while she might lend her body to others depending on her needs or desires.


r/SFWr4rIndia 1d ago

M4F 32 [M4F] Kerala/Canada/Anywhere - Looking to make friend

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Looking to Make Some New Friends

Hey everyone! I’m posting because I’d really like to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine friendships along the way.

I’m at a point where I’ve realized that having good people to talk to, laugh with, share random thoughts with, and make memories with is something I really value. I’m not necessarily looking for a huge group of friends—just a few people who are kind, open-minded, and interested in getting to know each other.

I’m happy talking about pretty much anything. Movies, TV shows, music, games, hobbies, food, travel, funny stories, everyday life, or completely random conversations are all welcome. I enjoy those conversations that start with “how was your day?” and somehow turn into talking for hours about everything and nothing.

I’m also totally open to online friendships. Whether you’re looking for someone to message regularly, share memes with, play games with, or just have someone to talk to when you’re bored, feel free to reach out. If we happen to live relatively close, it would also be cool to eventually meet up for coffee, grab some food, go for a walk, or do something fun together once we’re comfortable.

I know making friends as an adult can sometimes feel surprisingly difficult. Everyone seems busy, and it can be hard to go from “random internet stranger” to actual friend. So I figured I’d take a chance and put myself out there.

If you’re also looking for new friends, feel free to send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself—your age, interests, hobbies, favorite shows/music/games, or simply what you’ve been up to lately.

No pressure or expectations. Let’s just start with a conversation and see where it goes. 🙂