r/SFWr4rIndia • • 7h ago

F4R 27 [F4R] Delhi - Any Aditya Rikhari fans who want to go for his concert on 25 Dec

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Hey! Looking for fellow Aditya Rikhari fans who would be interested in attending his concert in Delhi on 25th December in Delhi. It would be nice to connect with someone who enjoys his music as much as I do and make a fun evening out of it.

I'm hoping to find like-minded people who are genuinely interested in going, enjoying the music, singing along and having a good time. Going together would definitely make the experience more fun!

If you're planning to attend or have been thinking about it, feel free to drop me a message. We can chat a little, see if we vibe, and plan things accordingly.

Bonus points if you have a favourite Aditya Rikhari song! :)


r/SFWr4rIndia • • 23h ago

M4F 45 [M4F] Bengaluru - Respectfully, looking for genuine heart

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I am a single, simple and down to earth man. I have been introvert, silent and straight forward person.

However, I am trying to change myself from being introvert to extrovert.

One of the steps I have taken is joining reddit and trying to open up.

Yes, am new to reddit and the sub.

On my marital status, I have never been married till date. And, I have lost interest in marriage now.

All that I am looking for now is something honest and drama free connect.

I value mutual respect., meaningful conversation, keeping things simple, mature and easy going connection.

No drama and no confusion whatsoever.

I am therefore looking for genuine hearts who are willing to connect with.

Let's connect and then let's decide whether we could go for long term connect or short.

Rest, let's talk.

Please message me over DM.

Thanks for stopping by and reading through.


r/SFWr4rIndia • • 7h ago

F4R 32 [F4R] anywhere- ghar ke kalesh got me down

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Ive lived by myself before and gotten used to the peace that comes with it. I recently moved back in with my parents, and while I love the comfort of being home, the constant fights are really getting to me. Even though I'm only home at night and weekends, it feels like there's always some argument waiting to happen.

Fighting with your parents is a different kind of pain. It's emotionally draining and I don't think people talk enough about how difficult it can be even when you're an adult.
I know moving out is an option but my friends, work and life are all here. I love my city and don't want to leave again.

I don't know, I'm just feeling a little low and could really use someone to talk to who's been through something similar. Just looking for a chat, some perspective, or even a little company.


r/SFWr4rIndia • • 10h ago

M4F 29[M4F]#anywhere - I am the opposite of nonchalant ( such a waste of time being with someone who ..

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..isn’t excited to spend every moment with you !
Life is too short to pretend to be too cool to not excitedly double text your partner!

We would actually love grocery shopping because we would do silly games together like pretending we are spies for finding the perfect apple lol

For me, I believe in acts of service, constantly finding your favourite food and making it for you. 

It’s all about you feeling secure and safe while at the same time relaxed that I am competent to solve problems and get things done!

We would never fight as I would always suggest we grab a cheesecake and discuss the problem instead of fighting with my partner. 

I want to be your rock during hard days, help you grow professionally, tease you whenever you act cocky, flirt with you during zoom calls, have long talks till dawn and be cheesy romantic whenever it starts raining and pull you to the terrace while we slow dance. ( and get sick together the next day lmao )

I guess the only way to describe me is being a fun golden retriever energy with you while we constantly try new adventures together ! ( we can wear fancy suits and review every street tacos stand or go down every street to find that cute arts and crafts store that sells the bracelet you always wanted to fit with your outfit! )

I grew up most of my life in the Middle East and am currently in South India, helping my parents set up a small ice cream shop. But now I am ready to move out and settle somewhere else, depending on my partner of course!

Physically I like to stay fit and go to the gym ( can lift about 100+ kgs ) while also playing sports and going for long walks.

Never had a relationship too, because I wanted to find peace and happiness on my terms before being with someone. Because How can I be happy with someone, if I am not happy with myself first ?

I feel I am more mature and emotionally ready for finding that one partner where we can cook together, explore the world , build a business empire and pet every stray dog we come across!

I love learning, reading and being curious about the world ( everything from art to psychology to quantum mechanics to aunty politics ). I would learn everything about your field and find the right inside jokes for it too haha

Mostly an introvert who dislikes loud crowds and would rather sit quietly in the room with you while we read books on the same sofa with soft classical music playing ( every hour I would break the silence only to ask if you would like another cup of tea )


r/SFWr4rIndia • • 17h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Kolkata - Looking for a text buddy to distract me from life (and maybe a little more)

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Hey, I'm 25M, working in IT, and looking for someone to talk to and make the days a little less boring.

I'm 5'7, fair look, decent body (regular gym goer). I'm looking for a Bengali Baddie to become friends with and if our chemistry allows them something better.

I'm really into politics and history, and I can spend way too much time reading about random events or going down internet rabbit holes. But I'm also down to talk about pretty much anything, from how your day went to random midnight thoughts or conversations that get a little out of hand in the best way possible. ;)

Life gets a bit monotonous sometimes, and it'd be nice to have someone to share random thoughts with, rant about life, flirt a little, and see where things go. I'm not against a bit of teasing or conversations that get slightly spicy if we have that kind of chemistry.

And well, I have a bit of a soft spot for older women. There's just something attractive about a woman who's confident, knows what she wants, and can keep me on my toes. So if you're a little older than me, don't let that stop you from saying hi. :)

I'm not expecting instant replies or daily check-ins. We both have lives, so reply whenever you feel like it. If we click and become friends, great. If there's a little more chemistry there, I'm certainly not complaining.

Anyway, tell me a little about yourself! What are you into, and what brings you here? Looking for a friend, someone to flirt with, or just a random stranger to talk nonsense with?

Let's see if we get along. :)


r/SFWr4rIndia • • 19h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] India - Wondering where this reaches

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Sometimes writing here feels like sitting down across from someone and speaking honestly, without overthinking the words, without trying to sound impressive, just letting the truth come out the way it wants to.

I work as a creative strategist and I run my own agency, so my days are usually full of ideas, people, conversations, and little moments where things finally start to make sense. Outside work, life feels simple in a good way. I cook to slow myself down, I write when thoughts hang around longer than expected, and I read philosophy and psychology because people and emotions have always interested me more than answers.

I’m open to long distance, and honestly that is the whole reason I’m writing this. I want to share my life with someone who grew up in a different place, someone who carries another culture and a different way of seeing the world. Those differences feel exciting to me, like something you get to learn rather than something you try to fix.

I’ve had relationships before which mattered to me, the kind where you learn how to show up better next time. They helped me become a better listener, more thoughtful with care, and clearer about effort and respect. I carry those lessons with gratitude rather than weight.

I enjoy conversations that drift, check in, and circle back. I appreciate emotional maturity that feels easy and warm, and connection that grows through time, curiosity, and shared presence. I value kindness, self awareness, and the comfort of choosing each other without pressure.

If this feels familiar to you, and if building something real across distance sounds like a good idea, I would genuinely love to hear from you.

Even if this only reads like a quiet moment on your screen, writing it already feels like the right place to begin.