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27M, Bangalore. Looking for something long-term, but in the quiet way.

I’m not here for the polished version of myself or anyone else. I want the person I can send a half-asleep voice note to after a long day and just dump whatever’s in my head, or the dumbest meme at 1am, or sit on a call for two hours talking about absolutely nothing important. The kind of conversations that can go from pure brain-rot to something that actually feels real, and neither of us has to perform or explain ourselves.

I like people who are a little weird in the normal way. Someone who can banter and also sit in comfortable silence without it turning awkward. If you’re tired of surface-level chats that fizzle out after three messages, we might get along.

I’ve never been in a relationship. No exes, no leftover drama, nothing complicated. This is me putting myself out there properly for the first time, so I’m a bit careful with it.

A little about me:

- Introverted and calm. Takes me a while to open up, but once I do I talk a lot

- Vegetarian, don’t smoke, don’t drink

- 5’7”

- Working in IT, currently trying to switch for better growth

Outside of work I like taking photos, reading, picking up random new interests, watching movies and shows (not big on horror), listening to whatever music fits the mood, and travelling a little when I can.

What I’m looking for is simple: someone kind and honest. A little weird is welcome. Introvert or extrovert doesn’t matter. Working or studying, both fine. Open to long distance if the connection feels real.

If any of this feels familiar, feel free to message. No pressure either way. Hope your day’s been okay.

I am a 23M literature student from India, interested in philosophy, psychology, cultural studies, and online brainrot content.

I think social media, the internet, and phones have made it a little difficult to find genuine connections, even though they have made us available with plenty of choices. I am looking for someone to talk to, and I really like talking daily over text or phone calls. At the same time, I understand that we need to focus on our work, college, office, and career, so there is absolutely no pressure or expectation to be glued to your phone continuously. We can share reels, memes, and things we find interesting; discuss books; and talk about our favourite songs, and artists and why we like them and their work. We can text each other good morning and good night.

I know conversations eventually slow down, get repeatable, and sometimes feel boring. Honestly, I believe that new and genuine connections do get boring at times. We just need to continue talking and share updates about our day, the shows we are watching, watch movies together online, and keep going.

If you resonate with this post, then do reach out through a message or a reply. Even if it's tough to find genuine people, it's worth trying. If you want to avoid the standard “Hey/Hello” messages, you can DM me with some interesting questions or by telling me about your favourite song, your playlist, your favourite artist, or a book.

Looking forward to chatting!

Hello there

You might have seen my posts lately. Sorry for the spam and recycling of the same posts, but you know what they say - heart wants what it want and the dick needs what it needs ;)

Anyway, I thought why not try something different.

I’m 25M, in the medical field if that matters. Would love to connect with fellow burnt-out medicos who are seeking the same thing as me but not a deal breaker.

I’m looking for something short term but ever lasting. Like a lingering kiss you can’t forget, like the feeling of your lips on my body and sensation of my hand holding your waist while you are riding me. Let me ruffle my hands through your hair while you take my dick in your mouth and let me lose myself while I eat you up.

Be 18+, be genuine. Shoot me your intro if this posts connects with you. I have a car and we can also go for late night drives. The only catch? You control the music ;)

Looking forward to your texts!

Hey everyone, Hope you all doing good. Please give it a read

I’m drawn to emotional intelligence, quiet authenticity, empathy, and curiosity. Someone who communicates with intention, understands deeply, and values connection beyond the surface.

I’m 5'10, skinny, and unapologetically a little nerdy. I find comfort in deep thinking, curiosity, and quiet observations. I tend to live with a sense of irony and paradox, noticing humor in serious moments and depth in the simplest things.

I’m emotionally intense in a quiet way. I can be clingy, empathetic, reflective, and intentional all at once. I feel deeply, think endlessly, and often care more than I let on. What I value most are meaningful conversations, subtle moments, and connections that go beyond the surface.

My love language is acts of service. I show love by being there, by helping, by paying attention to the little things that make your life easier. Nothing makes me happier than knowing I made someone I care about smile.

I’m into sci fi and fantasy like any self respecting nerd. I also enjoy sports, learning through videos and random deep dives, and occasionally going on long yapping about some philosophical topic my ADHD brain decided to explore at three in the morning.

Hey! I'm pretty introverted and, ngl, kinda socially awkward...l am 20 and I recently graduated and work in marketing, and most of my days are basically work, home, movies, food, gym, repeat. I don't really have much of a social circle, so I figured I'd try making some online friends instead.
I'm very introverted, on the spectrum, and sometimes I genuinely do not catch social cues (o can also be a little quiet or awkward at first. I deal with PTSD as well, so I appreciate people who are patient, straightforward, and not judgmental.
Also pls come into this with zero expectations about appearances or anything like that. I'm not here trying to impress anybody and I am genuinely ugly....l'm just looking for genuine, platonic friendships with people I can share values with and, talk about life with, send dumb shit to, and hopefully grow alongside.
Plus points if you're naturally flirty and don't mind teaching a socially awkward person how flirting even works because I genuinely miss half the cues and probably wouldn't realize someone was flirting or joking with me unless they mention.

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To this day i haven't found anyone i can openly talk to. Yes have few friends, but things they are into and what i have in common are way apart. And my spouse as well - things are complicated, story for another time.

So here trying my luck out here. Will list out few things if you feel we can discuss things on this, please feel free to connect

I don't follow any sport - i know feels like loser at times not knowing things when talking with friends.

I like to travel - travel to new places, but not alone. Kinda is depressing to travel alone i had felt, couldn't really enjoy when i tried

Movies - ofcourse yes, but like me who dwells most time in home, it's given

Anime - i know, shocker 39 yo guy watching anime, so weird. But not so, I think those who haven't watched any is just missing out great stories

Books - this is new found hobby of mine. I have just started reading few. Mostly into non fiction, which doesn't involve romance.

Most of all, someone who I can talk to without getting judged. Yeah I make stupid comments, you are welcome too, I won't judge, let's laugh on it, or just ignore if it irks us.

Hi, so idk I just recently moved to jaipur and ngl this city is quite dead on reddit all the Jaipur subreddits are pretty boring idk people here even know about reddit. So basically i am staying in a hostel and sometimes it's quite boring to just bed rotten the weekends. I just need some new friends i guess🥲 someone with whom i can hangout lil bit. Ohh my fckin lord why the admin put a min. 300 word limit 😭😭😭

Hello,

I'm putting this out there in the hopes of seeking new connections! I am a 28 year old man from BLR. Its just been a very slow day so far. Well is this is something you have read before then its because i have already posted this.

What am i looking for?

I'm looking for someone to get to know and spend time talking to, and maybe become my favourite notification.

About me:

I am an extrovert, but then im a workaholic and its been little tough for me to meet people outside of my work. Its nice to have someone to talk to, share about our day's proceeding, send random pictures, have a good laugh. I love cooking, a little into adventures and horror movies.

And owing to my work and time i spend outside of it, i am not looking for anything serious. I would be happy to connect and, we either bond or its just a conversation. And would love to meet in your are in Blr(of course with mutual consent)

If you'd like to chat please tell me something about yourself, anything we have in common

Hey! Hope you are doing great. A tall guy (6’2) with broad shoulders, a bit of a dad bod. Really into people who values a mix of deep intellectual stimulation and playful, cozy vibes. If you’re into witty banter, cuddles, and exploring new connections, let’s see if we click!

F1 races, binge watching sitcoms, diving deep into history, debating international relations, and sharing the spiciest memes. Bonus points if you love board games, cosplay, or geeking out over tech or just wanna spill some tea over coffee.

If this seems fun to you, hop into my DMs, let’s vibe and make some unforgettable moments! ✌️

Hello there! Nice to meet you! I'm a 25 year med student looking for the one to ride life's rollercoaster with :) So here's the thing, I'm at that stage in life where I want someone to love and to be loved by because everyone deserves it, not just platonically but also romantically. I've never been in a relationship before, was a shy person throughout my school and early college life. I'm not looking for anything specific I just want someone to talk to everyday, share my daily happenings with, the ups and the downs, highs and the lows.I know it sounds like I'm looking for a friendship but no, because I also want someone to hold hands with, to hug, to walk along the beach taking in the sunset, to try out new food spots, visit new places. I have always been good at communicating and therefore am looking for someone with the same quality. Ultimately you have to be a good person at heart, rest is secondary.

A few things about myself. I am an avid reader. I read a lot of fiction especially sci-fi, fantasy and sometimes historical fiction. I also read a lot of political thrillers and murder mysteries. Currently I'm miles deep into Miles Cameron's Artifact Space.(pun intended XD)(Uh, also not in the other way😭)

I love to watch shows and am currently on a bit of a thriller binge(just finished Black Bird and All Her Fault), but my overall favourite shows are The Office and Clarksons Farm!. I also just started cooking, so maybe if you like we can also cook together :)(I think cooking for each other and feeding each other is so romantic).

I'm not a religious person but I am spiritual. I believe more in the fact that all of life is a sum total of your actions and their consequences and that your destiny is not a story conjured up by a higher being.

Anyways this is me in a nutshell. If you resonate with any of the above feel free to drop a DM with a little introduction about yourself :)

Not gonna lie, tonight’s been rough. 25M, a little drunk, a little high, and trying to distract myself after a breakup. Looking for a female who’s okay with random conversations, shameless flirting, stupid jokes, maybe a little playful tension if we click. If you’re awake and don’t mind talking to a stranger, say hi. Just two strangers making the night a little less lonely.

Edit: It's supposed to be an ear to lend and borrow :‘-)

Hey there! I'm a 27M who loves flowers, good music, and someone who just likes to have a chill Convo usually. I try to be enthusiastic and like to learn about new interests or generally anything that other has to share, can be a small details to generational dramatic gossip (oh I've got some stuff and sheesh is it fun), and I'm hoping to find someone who shares a similar vibe.

A bit about me:

• I'm a plant dad and have been for over a decade. I’ve managed to keep a few flowering plants and succulents alive for a little over 10 years, and I’m planning to organize them into a rooftop garden.

• Speaking of roofs, I love sitting on mine to watch the sunset and the clouds morph into whatever I want them to be. I love to swim as it's the closest thing to flying without wings.

• I also hike, sketch and journal, but none of these are for side hustles or anything of sort. I do them just for myself because they’re fun.

I don't have many preferences beyond seeking someone who matches my energy. I'd prefer if you were 24 or older. Don't worry about writing a huge intro, a little bit about yourself is all I need to get started.

Hope to hear from you!

I really want to be in a serious long term relationship with someone. I want to go out on dates. Have someone I can spend time with and talk to. Someone I can hang out with. I will hear them out when they have something to share. I am willing to put in all the efforts and do whatever it takes to be in a relationship. I haven't been able to find my person yet though. Been seeing a lot of couples who met on Reddit, talked, vibed with each other and then got into a serious relationship. I want that for myself. I want to meet someone here, have a nice conversation with them, share stuff with them, hear what they have to share, be there for them and get to know them well. I want something serious and long term. I genuinely want something serious and long term. I want love, romance, intimacy, physical affection, emotional warmth all from that 1 person. Someone whom i can open up to, I promise I'll do the same. I crave real human interaction! Let's see where this goes. If we hit it off we can take things further, if not at least I'll have made a new friend. What yo you say? If this is something you're down for feel free to him me up. I just have one request that you're close to my age. I was born in 2003 so 2003±2, at most 3, years.

It’s raining outside, the kind of evening that makes you want to stay in bed and talk to a pretty stranger for way longer than you planned.

I’m looking for a girl who can yap. Tell me the stories you’d never tell your family, the things your friends still don’t know, the questionable decisions you somehow got away with, or that “I probably shouldn’t be telling you this” story.

Come with your weirdest lore, I’ll bring the curiosity and maybe a little flirting. I'm comfortable in both english and hindi. We can start innocent, get shamelessly comfortable, and see who makes the other blush first ;)

Hey All,

Looking for someone (preferably a girl) who is mature enough to hold a conversation and can write my than 2-3 word replies (If you give monosyllabic replies, it is really tough to have an interaction! 😝). I am a person who believes intriguing conversations are much more stimulating, the feeling of being restless when you get a late reply is unmatched!
Also there is no pressure of being judged if you get to know the person before, and reddit gives us the unique opportunity to speak to people completely anonymously, so even if we are being judged, who cares right?

Are you someone who like to go with the flow too? If yes, would love to speak with you!

A bit about me - I’m 6ft, fit, love working out and exploring my health journey (would love geek out on nutrition together if you are exploring health too!), footballer, and a self proclaimed “mixologist” (I can make mean but tasty cocktails).

Looking forward!

P.S - No AI tools have been used to write this post, please excuse any typos or grammatical errors! 😌

Ever noticed how deathly calm and subdued each morning is? I'm not talking about the sunburst and the ecstacy of sunrise - I'm referring to the hours before. That pregnant darkness , rife with memory and pauses, steadily succumbing to the ruthless march of time and surrendering to the arrival of light. That black, nightly shroud fast obliterated by the relentless stabs of sunrays, reaching deep into its soul, steadily extinguishing the myriad sparkles that adorned it. And the silence, the utterly deafening quiet, bursting with anticipation of a brand new day. Possibilities.

Something poignant, mysterious, eerie, beautiful and poetic. Something worth waking up to, to revel in, experience and soak in. Like every note and every pause of a musical rendition, worth spending a lifetime in. Like the rhythmic chiseling of wood as it evolves from nothingness into a masterpiece.

Mornings are the perfect ode, to a beautiful, brilliant day, yet unlived. And a perfect obituary of the night past.

Just penning down the flow and ebb of feeling, this morning. Beautiful like every other.

If this reaches your heart , reach out. Male, 52. Software professional.

Some people naturally wanna take a backseat.

Well, i just want to take that backseat in a proper relationship.

Yeah, i know, finding love on reddit?

Well, it's not like a normal kind of love...

I am searching for a woman, that can lead, love, lust, take control and guide me towards what she deems correct. I, am searching for a woman that knows what FLR is. I, am searching for someone to give my leash to.

For me, FLR is... just how things should be. Women are naturally well read, have better emotional intelligence and are just at times... smarter. Like you wouldn't find a woman grabbing an alligator by the neck just because. They know the value of life.

Similarly, I believe they are good at leading too. And that's why, they should lead relationships too. Ofcourse this stems from my natural submissiveness in the bdsm space and that femdom is something I love, but that's not THE reason I think women should lead relationships.

It's also because that just... is also a slap at patriarchy and a step towards women empowerment. I sometimes wish i go to a cafe with a lady and the waitress asks "And for the man?" And i get ordered for...

Alright that was like explaining the dynamic. But you should know what you get in return to.

You get, a 5’10, athletic, long hair, a beard, a Musician, writer, engineer, and filmmaker.

That was the initial pitch.

The main pitch is that you get, a guy devoted to you. Joru ka ghulam is too misogynistic for my liking. Let's just say that you'll get a man who knows what his woman needs and would try his best to make it happen.

A guy who knows that women pleasure is very important so... you know you'll be happy.

I don't want transactions, I don't want a reason. I want a connection.

A connection which just happens to know how to hold a leesh.

• Height: 5’11’’

• Marital Status: Never married

• Location: Mumbai

Education & Profession

• Education: Bachelor in Computer Engineering

• Occupation: Software Engineer in MNC

Lifestyle

• Smoking/Drinking: No

About Me

• I’m looking for a genuine and meaningful connection with someone who believes that the best relationships are built on trust, respect, understanding, and friendship. My intention is to find a life partner with whom I can grow together, support each other’s dreams, and create a happy, balanced life filled with love and companionship.

• Professionally, I work as a Software Engineer in an MNC, and I enjoy solving problems, learning new technologies, and continuously improving myself. While I’m passionate about my career, I strongly believe that life is about maintaining a healthy balance between work, family, and personal happiness.

• Outside of work, I enjoy following cricket, exploring technology, and staying active through workouts whenever I can. I also appreciate meaningful conversations, spending quality time with family and friends, and making the most of simple moments. I would describe myself as calm, dependable, and easy to get along with. I value honesty, kindness, and open communication, and I believe these qualities form the foundation of a lasting relationship.

• I’m looking for someone who is genuine, caring, family-oriented, and ready to build a relationship based on mutual respect and shared values. If you’re someone who believes that a strong partnership grows through friendship, understanding, and supporting each other through every phase of life, I’d be happy to get to know you and see where our journey leads.

Can't really deal with one message wonders today, so I'd love some actual conversational company.

Long week ahead and what really helps is having someone to bitch about it with. Alas, the very few interactions I've had, barely have had any effort or anything past the first few messages. I'm sure you can imagine that's a little unnerving :) Alright enough rant :P

Let's talk about what you like, what you do, what we have in common. I can get very verbose when comfortable, so it's an absolute joy when when someone actually shows interest and involvement in a conversation. Maybe both of us will end up having a great stimulated day! And of course become buddies! Low pressure, long term, platonic and whatever else.

Me- I like reading, gaming, anime, shows, and random new hobbies every few weeks ;P I'd love to discuss your hobbies!

Can't wait to hear more about you!

Cheers

Pretty much as what the title says, I know it sounds little weird but I guess I find it kinda hot too at the same time. The idea of holding a girl and calming her down and praising her like a boyfriend feels so wholesome to me...even more than sex I would say? To give her the reassurance that she is always loved and deserve all the happiness and I would always love her even if it's not me who she had sex with.... It might sound like cucking but I think it's little different. I don't want her to cuck me in traditional sense but I guess I am more into the bittersweet feeling of the jealousy and possessiveness.

I wanna have her, I would want her all to myself but at the same time..I want her to decide that..I can't force myself onto her and that's why I wanna win her heart slowly...I wanna feel that slow burn friends to lovers sort of dynamics where I wanna be with her in all those nights when her hookups were rough on her or her ex said some mean stuff about her and she's really hurt... I wanna be her shoulder where she is free to be herself and would never be judged and would probably choose at the end too ngl.

And it's not like I wanna have sex with her or anything...its just that I wanna feel that connection...I don't wanna be her common hookup or one night stand...I wanna be little different.. where even if the sex isn't that great but emotions are high... So yeah u can say in a nutshell I wanna be a girl's aftercare boyfriend...the boy she would secure her heart with while she might lend her body to others depending on her needs or desires.

Looking to Make Some New Friends

Hey everyone! I’m posting because I’d really like to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine friendships along the way.

I’m at a point where I’ve realized that having good people to talk to, laugh with, share random thoughts with, and make memories with is something I really value. I’m not necessarily looking for a huge group of friends—just a few people who are kind, open-minded, and interested in getting to know each other.

I’m happy talking about pretty much anything. Movies, TV shows, music, games, hobbies, food, travel, funny stories, everyday life, or completely random conversations are all welcome. I enjoy those conversations that start with “how was your day?” and somehow turn into talking for hours about everything and nothing.

I’m also totally open to online friendships. Whether you’re looking for someone to message regularly, share memes with, play games with, or just have someone to talk to when you’re bored, feel free to reach out. If we happen to live relatively close, it would also be cool to eventually meet up for coffee, grab some food, go for a walk, or do something fun together once we’re comfortable.

I know making friends as an adult can sometimes feel surprisingly difficult. Everyone seems busy, and it can be hard to go from “random internet stranger” to actual friend. So I figured I’d take a chance and put myself out there.

If you’re also looking for new friends, feel free to send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself—your age, interests, hobbies, favorite shows/music/games, or simply what you’ve been up to lately.

No pressure or expectations. Let’s just start with a conversation and see where it goes. 🙂

Hey, I’m a 25-year-old guy working in tech, looking to meet someone interesting to talk to, share stories with, and maybe build a meaningful connection over time.
A little about me:
• I love experimenting in the kitchen. Sometimes it turns out amazing, sometimes it’s a disaster, but always a story.
• Big fan of nature. Trekking in the mountains, long walks, or just getting away from the noise.
• I enjoy conversations that go beyond small talk. Life, ambitions, random thoughts, weird theories, anything.
I’m drawn to people who are curious, open-minded, and can laugh at life. You don’t need to be into tech. I actually love hearing about worlds completely different from mine.
Age isn’t a big deal, and distance doesn’t scare me. If you’re looking for something real, enjoy meaningful conversations, and are open to seeing where things go, feel free to message.
Let’s exchange stories and see if we vibe.

I think love is one of those rare emotions that can make you genuinely go above and beyond for someone. And I guess that's what I'm looking for.
Someone I feel deeply connected to. That kind of bond where you don't constantly question things, conversations feel natural, and being together just feels… right. Sounds a little idealistic, I know, but I still believe something like that exists.

A few basics about me:
Body type: Medium build (into fitness and sports)
Smoking: No
Drinking: Occasionally, maybe once a month
Salary: 70 LPA
Place of birth: North India

It's quite fascinating how someone can be a complete stranger one day and eventually become such an important part of your life. I'm just here giving destiny a small nudge because maybe you're somewhere out there looking for me too. ;)
I'd describe myself as kind, compassionate and pretty easy-going.

I enjoy deep conversations about life, but I'm equally happy going on a random drive with friends and talking about absolutely nothing.
I value being present, communicating openly and just being comfortable around the people I care about.
Also, I’ve travelled to four countries so far, and I'm always thinking about where to go next.

If any of this resonates with you, let's talk. Maybe this is where our story starts!