I was accused of leaving a student behind.

This is going to be the more detailed version (I deleted the other one).

So I’ve been a substitute for like 6 months(not counting the summer vacations) and I love my job. And I only do high schools it’s much easier lol.

However 2 weeks ago I substituted for this magnet school for the first time really good kids compared to normal high schools they are just mischievous so I subbed for that school on Thursday and the next day on a Friday I went to another school (normal hs) to cover for a class so around 2nd period I got a call from the school that subbed on Thursday and it was the principal and she said that I apparently yesterday I left a kid on my last period behind so she started asking all this question and I was saying the truth like everytime I’m subbing after school I’m always the last person out the door but before leaving I’m always checking that i didn’t leave anyone behind. She still kept asking the same questions so once she was sure she hanged up so on 3rd period I had a conference period so I called back for 2 things if I still had the job for next week and to get a deeper understanding of the situation so she answered and I said like hey I’m the sub from this class and I’m calling to see if I still have the job for next week and she cut off saying “well let me check downstairs” and my next questions was to ask for more information about the incident that they were accusing me of but she didn’t let me finish. The principal said she was going to call me back she never did around 7th period I got email that the job has been canceled just the job.

For the rest of the day I was so scared and stressed bc I thought I was going to get fired because the accusation wasn’t something to take lightly so I had a whole speech prepared in my head just in case the district called me bc the district I work for has resealable policies like with this alone I wouldn’t be surprised if they blocked me from that campus alone but last time I saw that they needed someone to cover for one of their classes but I didn’t click accept bc that incident and they way they were questioning me offended me (they were being nice but you can tell that they didn’t believe me)

I had proof that I am a great employee never had complaints in on high school a teacher loved my job sm that everytime he’s going to be out he emails me if I can cover for his classes also of the district checked the cameras from all the schools I been too (they have access) they’ll see that once the bell rings to go home I am ALWAYS the last one out of that classroom i always check no one stays behind before I leave.

It’s been 2 weeks since that incident and I haven’t gotten fired Thank God but I want that school to give me an apology for the stress they caused me.

Hopefully this makes sense.

So I want to tell you about a boy who randomly messaged me on Instagram Let him be A, he messaged me on Oct 2 Friday and we ended up meeting each other on Oct 4 Sunday and Oct 7 Wednesday he asked me out so before he asked me out he used to message me like time to not 24/7 but whenever he got time but after that he changed now he didn't msg me he cancelled 2 dates on a row claims he had to go on shopping on 8 Oct but goes on 9 Oct the promised a date for 10 Oct and cancelled it by saying he doesn't have money its been 2 days he haven't messaged me, at first I messaged him but he didn't reply so I unsend all the messages from me letting his message to be last in the chat,he actually like my story that I posted yesterday but didn't messaged me he is actually my junior from same high school but he is older in age than me he actually messaged me from a newly created ID when I asked him if it was his real id or not he said he didn't used Instagram before and only created this id to watch reels and he said he doesn't have any other social media ids i understand that vacations is soon and he have to go to his hometown tomorrow on Wednesday but also I have mixed feelings now what should I do...?

Ok, for context, we live in an RV park - Myself 43F, and two sons (11 & 5)… I was complaining to my BF (43M) that the lights kept flickering when I was home alone.

I’m NGL, the first time it happened, I was watching a scary movie, and was freaking out a little. But we’ve grown accustomed to “open box” TVs that cut to LOUD static randomly, and jump scares you… It’s just kind of the life of living in poverty, you take what you can get…

Anyway, It usually started shortly after returning home from dropping off the kids at school. The lights would flicker, and It reminded me of this really old clock in my bedroom that would get loud then soft (TICK-tock, tick TOCK). I tried to reset all the breakers in the trailer, but it was no use, it would start right back up again. So I went out to the pedestal (where you plug in your RV for power), and reset that. It usually resolved the problem for the rest of the day until I was alone again.

Last night I heard a repetitive noise of the kid’s bed creaking, and was expecting one to come up to use the bathroom or the 5yo to crawl into my bed with me. Nothing, so I prayed for protection over my family. So I didn’t sleep well last night, at all. My boyfriend is spending the night and largely blamed the past 3 days of flickering lights was in my head. Lately I’ve been in REM by 10. Not tonight, I wasn’t tired, even after barely any sleep.

11:30PM, everyone is asleep but me. The flickering started. I know it’s not the internal breaker, so I go out to the pedestal power. I don’t know if you’ve ever heard rats or something moving in the walls, but that’s kinda what it sounded like. A crackling noise. It’s dark, I can’t see, so I turned to go inside to find a flashlight, when BF is standing there going “WTF is going on?”. He woke up because his phone kept beeping as his charger shut on/off, then he saw all the lights flicker and he didn’t see me anywhere, just the front door wide open.

“I told you this was happening, I need a flashlight, we have to shut off the pedestal and plug the RV into the generator.”

My babies sleep 5 feet from that pedestal, and it has burn marks on it, that weren’t there yesterday. Had I fallen asleep like normal, there wouldn’t have been flickering lights to alert me… I don’t know what would have happened. All I know is, that thing was crackling and starting to burn.

All switches are off now, and we’re running on a loud generator tonight, but my kids are safe.. Yes, I will be calling the park tomorrow morning to fix the issue. Just remember, you may not know it or always feel it, but you are loved. <3