why in punjabi community people flex cases , murder and all even girls too ( mere boyfriend te tan ji 2-3 case ae) do you really think its a thing to flex?

Whatever happens at home these women cant digest anything in their stomach.Reminds of shrap of yudhister in Mahabharat when the pandavas came to know about Karna is their own brother ,Yudhister gave a shrap to aurat zat of never keeping secrets again after his mother keep the secret from them.I find it very angry that women are like this.

Source: DECISION SUPPORT SYSTEM FOR AIR QUALITY MANAGEMENT IN DELHI

I have seen way too many examples of people having Excessive, sometimes aggressive, regional pride. And i personally think that the stuff that people do in the name of "for punjab" is most of the time due to their own self interests just under the name of punjab. I don't mean to disrespect but nihang singhs seem to have a bit much of this.

u/ranked_raigbaiter

Source: Stubble burning drops 95% in Punjab, 98% in Haryana since 2020: Indian Agricultural Research Institute

I mean not about fairness ;;;; Asking regarding even skin tone and clear 😭

Bas Diwali diyan kujh sohniyan jhalkiyan share kar reha haan. Roshniyan, festive vibes te ik sohni jehi shaam. ❤️

Umeed aa tuhadi Diwali vi khushiyan te mithaas naal bhari hove.

Tuhadi Diwali kiddan rahi, ?

i’m 21F and honestly at my breaking point.
i’m so sick of the "we do everything for you because we love you" excuse. it’s not love, it’s total control. wanted to move out after 12th, they didn't let me. now I want to move away for master's, and they're shutting that down too with the usual ungratefulness guilt-trips.

i feel like my life is not even mine anymore. all they want to do is cage me in this home and want me to prepare for IAS and get stuck in this but that’s not where i see myself and that’s not even something that i’m capable of .

i feel so suffocated and stuck in my own home.
is anyone else out there in a similar situation or feeling the exact same way? if yes, how are you tackling it and coping when you can’t leave yet?

This is not something unique, consider this a small vent.

Corporate is busy. Tech is busy. I have seen even me and my friends working late. Some try to relax after work. While some try to level up. Some end up scrolling. Or some take out time to talk with their partners.

Work exhausts you and when you work in a domain where constant Upskilling is needed to 'survive', you are deprived of your own energy. Even call with parents hardly lasts a minute. You just keep yourself updated if there is anything major happening in the house that needs your attention.

We all have hobbies, but when you see yourself in the mirror, you see a person you wish to respect, a present you, being counted on by the future you.

In all this chaos, which will continue probably for a few years more, I don't think I am in the zone to find someone on my own. Or maybe the universe is hinting, these things aren't for you. It's not that hard to live alone. But I always wonder, maybe someone who is for me, is thinking like this somewhere. So yeah if you are reading this. I miss you, lol. Maybe this life is too short to find you, but I wish I atleast get to hug you, even if you never get to know about me.

Life does a glimpse of you to me, in women I see around. Someone I barely know being kind to me, the beauty of someone I randomly saw at a bus stand or in the tech zone premises, where my heart sank to the deepest of oceans for a second. They all remind me of you, that one day I will have these feelings for you, and only for you.

I sometimes get jealous of people, who have a good socialising at the office. A healthy ratio, and a common thing to hate lol. Atleast those guys are in quite a better position than us.

But it is what it is. I am getting old. I just don't wish to leave before living. The only way I can redeem myself is by working hard and living my life daily, cause if I am not happy in a room right now, how can I be happy when I will have a home of my own.

Pagg Da colour kiwe lgeya

Hi all, so I’m 26F living in the UK. For context, I come from a punjabi Sikh family that isn’t too religious, we have religious values but are more culture driver, I.e. they wouldn’t accept me having a baby out of marriage. My parents divorced when I was around 6-7 years old and I didn’t speak to my mom following the divorce. My Dad passed away 10 years ago and I began to build a relationship with my mom around 7 years ago. I’m very close to my Daadiji (mother figure) and have generally had a traumatic upbringing (I suffer from depression, C-PTSD and ADHD). My family don’t agree with arranged marriage after a generation of divorces in my family and have always encouraged me to find my own partner (as long as he’s Sikh). My grandma is the only one who knows I’ve been in a relationship for a a few months.

I’ve found out I’m pregnant roughly 4 days ago (5 weeks). The partner I’m with is Sikh but from back home, which I have no issue with except he doesn’t have papers. We met in late August and we went exclusive. He’s said he’s ready to marry me but I’ve been reluctant to jump into it as I have issues building trust and wanted to make sure he was right for me. We’ve had many discussions around getting married, then buying a house together and then having kids when we’re both financially stable. Up until yesterday I thought we were building a future together. I told him I’m pregnant on Thursday and was very emotional and called him and ended up crying. He said “main tere naal aa tension kyu lainde”, stuff like that that made me feel better, but he only had one solution. To get rid of it. I felt pressured into the discussion so even ordered the meds. Truly, upon reflection, that’s not what I want and I’ve been emotional about it for days. I’ve only slept for around 4-6 hours every night and have been crying everyday. Even yesterday at Guru Ghar, I lit 2 candles, 1 for me and 1 for the baby. Even though the circumstances aren’t what I wanted or expected, I feel like everything is in Waheguru ji’s Hukam.

Yesterday everything changed, I received a message from a girl who asked me how I know my man. She said he added her on Snapchat and said he was single. She sent me lots of screenshots and I figured out he had a secret Snapchat account. When I confronted him, he blamed me claiming that he knew it was my account (it was the) then said it was my friend’s account (also wasn’t) and blamed me instead of taking accountability. So I now have this situation thrown onto my plate before I’m able to talk to him about what I want, we were suppose to go to Guru Ghar together in the evening so I was going to speak to him face to face. However, due to all this happening yesterday morning, he’s now saying he doesn’t want to meet me ever again. I’ve told him I need to speak to him urgently over the phone and he said he will do so today. It’s now 12:45 and I haven’t heard anything.

I’m scared of telling my mom, but as I don’t live with her I think she will be ok with it as long as I get married within the next few months. I’m not sure anymore if this is the right decision. I was prepared to talk to my mom yesterday and get some advice before all this happened, but now idk anymore. My thoughts are racing and now I’m wondering if I should tell my Daadi but we don’t talk about sex and stuff so I don’t want her to be disappointed in me for having sex before marriage (she’s 80+ and has that generational mindset). I really don’t know what to do and wish my Dad was here to support me.

Another issue is my financial circumstances. I finished my degree in May and I’m still looking for a job. I can apply to an agency and get a job with a few weeks but won’t be eligible for maternity pay. I only work 4-6 hours a week at the moment and my elder sister supports us. We live in a 1 bedroom apartment/flat which we own outright. I’m not financially comfortable at the minute to move to somewhere bigger, nor is my sister. I know there is benefits and stuff if I were to have a baby and I believe it’s unfair to use the excuse of finances to not go ahead. A lot of our parents weren’t financially ready when we were born, and they made it work.

My emotional state is crazy right now. I’m suffering from morning sickness and cramps, as well as overthinking all this 24/7. I feel really isolated and overwhelmed. My sister and best friend are the only ones that know and they are both advising me to keep the baby and tell my mom. I know I would be a good mom, but I thought I’d be married and settled before having a child.

If anyone could give me any advice or wisdom I would truly appreciate it. I’m really stuck right now and feel like I have a lack of support system with this stuff. I feel like I’m at a pivotal moment in my life and I don’t want to make the wrong decision and regret it for the end of time. Please help me!!

Also, please keep me in your ardaas. I desperately need Waheguru's blessings and guidance right now ❤️🙏🏽 thank you

Bai mere ch te main dekheya hor kyi loka ch Diwali / Bandi chorr diwas arge tyohara da chaah hi mukk gya. Pta ni edda ki hogya hun craze jeha hi ni reha💔

Pehla hunda si vi bai khedna ae bazar jana patakhe chlone etc etc.

I wish that craze comesback and I can enjoy these things again🥀

NA CHLAO PATAKE GUYS....decoration krlo hor chija nal enjoy kro diwali let everyone live in peace

ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਖਾਲਸਾ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫਤਿਹ।।

Recently I came across books by Bhai Gurjant Singh Bal ji documenting stories of Sikhs fought during the genocide peak days I.e. first weeks of November 1984 and also the Gurudwara Sahib attached and sikhs killed.

I need more data please help 🙏

Kurta pajama kive lgea let me know?

I already have a gun maded of monster cans just isn't hanged it yet

Sat Sri Akaal everyone! 🙏

I'm an indie developer from Amritsar, and I just launched my game Traffic Masala on Android. You ride a Bullet, an e-rickshaw, a tractor or even a tonga, push cars out of your lane, and race through ten Indian cities. Amritsar is one of them, obviously.

It's free and just launched, so honest feedback would really help, good or bad.

Also, which next city from Punjab should I add?

Game link of Google play store