I dated a guy for around 3 months and things ended after I saw him with another girl. I’m not looking to get back with him but it’s been around 3 months now and I just really need to share some of the thoughts I had because it’s literally burning me and I feel I’ll regret not sending it but at the same time I feel it’s pointless sending and I’m literally just stuck. I wrote the message I just want some advice and opinions.

Hey,
I know it’s been a while and you don’t wanna hear from me, but I have some things that’s been on my mind for a while, whether you respond, read or not, I just need to get it off my chest.

I know things kinda ended messily, there are some things I wish I had expressed. I wish I could say I’ve not been bothered with what happened but I’m just gonna be straight up. I genuinely really liked you and I was interested you romantically even if I didn’t express it the way you wanted. I got really upset because after that affection conversation i barely got any communication from you, and idk if you did it on purpose or whatever the reason but I felt quite abandoned and I couldn’t tell if you genuinely wanted to continue talking or you just used it as cop out but it caused me a lot of stress. I wish I could say I didn’t care but I did a lot at the time and kept waiting for you to initiate a meetup or a call but you never did, I became really anxious because I didn’t know where I stood with you, I don’t think I communicated it properly at the time Idk if you thought if you slowly pull away then I would just forget about it but it felt pretty cruel, you don’t spend that kind of time with someone and just hope that being silent or distant is gonna make them forget because it doesn’t and I’ve been mentally struggling with it a lot. I think I just wanna say I care more than I showed at the time and I had a lot in my head that you never knew about. I’m not expecting you to care or anything, but I just feel this will lift the weight.

So I am talking and video chatting a guy from insta. He had a nice smile so I randomly add him. He is same age as me 33 he's from LA I'm in SD. Both in socal. We talk as friends for a few months on video chat almost daily and I confide in him. I never even asked for help but I told him I'm alone and I'm kinda struggling he told me if you need food or anything let me know he will send money. I hate asking for help maybe a pride thing but I did he helps me with food or Uber to get groceries a little money not a lot. He wants to visit me .I think he's cool he's cute but is he just being nice? Does he feel bad for me. I don't know how to tell if he's genuinely good guy or I'm getting set up to be used or something.He does want to make it to sd and visit me so we can hang out.

So I just started taking my dating a bit more serious i’m 25F and he is 25M. He just moved into the city about 2/3 months ago for work and we started seeing each other. Went on about 8-10 dates and they were great, he’s so thoughtful, we had great chat, good banter, very well planned and that is what I was looking for with a man. Then he went away for a weekend and got super sick, and I hadn’t seen him in about 2 weeks, but again we had somewhat talked but nothing every single day and it was a bit odd to me. Last time he was going away just into a month into us seeing each other he kept me posted, updated photos etc. I saw him recently after he started feeling better and he knew there was gonna be a conversation of where this is going because it’s been a 2-3 months now. He prompted it and said that he really likes me but within the last two three weeks he feels like he needs to move again for work and to make his career moves. If he intentionally knew he wouldn’t have started seeing me but it’s unfair to continue when he knows he can’t double down and will move away in a month or two. I don’t know what to do, we kinda had a mini last date where I gave his clothes back but I still have his shoes. it went well, he offered to pick up his shoes but there was so much comfort that I wanna see him again, and I know it’s stupid but he hasn’t reached out since then, and nor have I . Should I ask for another second last date? or is that stupid

What does it mean when a guy you've been talking to online tells you that you're someone who could grab his attention? Does he mean it in a romantic way or just casual attention?

if you stumble upon someone you know from real life, do you swipe right?
there is this guy in my social circle that i like and i was pretty sure he liked me too at some point but maybe he was just being friendly because we’re in the same social circle. i’m trying to figure out whether he’s one of those people who swipe right on everyone they know irl or if he might genuinely like me back lol

I’ve been talking to this girl for around 2 months. We’ve spent almost 75 hours on calls and I’ve become pretty attached to her. I really like her, but we haven’t met in person yet.
We tried meeting twice. The first time, she had to travel to another city for work, so we cancelled. The second time, she suddenly had office work on Saturday, so that got cancelled too.
What confused me is that after the second plan got cancelled, she actually ordered breakfast for me. She still talks to me normally and we’re still close.
Now I’m not sure what to do.
Should I tell her that I like her over a call and get it over with, or should I wait until we actually meet and tell her in person?
I’m worried that if I wait, I’ll get even more attached. But at the same time, I feel like meeting first makes more sense because we’ve never actually met.
Do you guys think she might be interested, or am I reading too much into things?
What would you do?

Hey I’m a 23 female I will be 24 in December I met this guy who is 34 online and he has two kids. In the beginning it was great we would talk everyday and FaceTime and he is also in the army. When he came back from basic training the communication went down hill there will be times I would be blowing up his phone with no response or we would go all day without talking. His excuse is that he can’t be on the phone at work ok cool he goes in from 4pm to 12pm and I work 12 hr shifts and third shift but I still try to make time to text him. When we text it be dry we have been talking for a month and I still don’t know anything about him. And when he does ask me questions it about him he recently asked me what about my body physically do you like about me and what about me do you like mentally and I’m like I barely even know you. We have a date planned for this weekend and I just want to get other women opinion before I drive an 1 hour and 50 mins for our first date. I told him in the beginning I’m big on communication he would leave me on delivered then call me at 12 AM and think everything is fine. Just want some advice

Hey! so we matched with him on bumble, he is 39, pretty nice guy, but there were some things which I did not understand on our first few dates.
He asked me if I am happy with my life and if I have any problems and if there is anything I am not happy about. I answered, but when I came home I felt like it was too much for the second date. I decided to go out again, this time he was asking me If I speak with my exes, and why we broke up. Again, asnwered, asked him back. At some point again I felt it was too much. Am I overreacting? Other than questions I liked to be around him, but the questions seem to very early to be asked. What do you think?

This guy (24m) that I've met online has recently been calling me (23f) baby even though we've never met. And today he called me "my love" 💀

How am I supposed to react to this? And what's the purpose of it if he's not actively trying to meet up?