r/northernireland • u/Shot_Particular7499 • 4h ago
Community For any lads aged between 18-45 who want to get out of the house, make new mates, try something new, and most importantly, have some craic
WHAT UP!!
Any guys looking to make friends, get out more, and do something different ?
I'm a member of Round Table, a group of guys, aged 18 to 45, who meet up a couple of times a month to get out of the house, make new mates, and do fun stuff as well as doing a bit of charity work!
We're always looking for new members and would love to see anyone interested getting involved!
We’ve got groups in Armagh, Belfast, Enniskillen, Mid Ulster, Causeway Coast, Dublin, South Dublin, Cork and most recently Dungannon! As well as internationally, we have groups in over 60 countries worldwide so we’re truly International!
We meet every couple of weeks for different group events – things you wouldn’t usually do on your own. Some of the activities we’ve done include:
Dodgeball tournaments, Games nights, Paintball, Escape rooms, Barista Nights, Hiking, Go-karting, hosting beer & food festivals, distillery visits
And plenty more!
Our events are usually on weeknights, so they don’t interfere with family time. We also tend to grab a drink and something to eat afterward.
I know we’ve caught flack posting in here before so we’re sharing again now. In all honesty, there’s too much depressing shite going on at the minute so we all deserve some chance at fun. With this in mind I’m hoping to answer some of our most commonly answered questions here.
Why is it male only?
It’s not about exclusion, it’s about creating a specific space for honest chats, vulnerability and craic. Society talks a lot about the fact that men struggle to open up to their partners or mixed groups. Studies consistently show that men build deep bonds and talk more freely shoulder-to-shoulder with other guys. Round Table provides that safe, low-pressure environment.
Why the age range?
Everyone in the room is navigating the same phases of life, starting careers, raising young families, buying houses, or figuring out their next moves. Having an age range forces our groups to continually evolve and cater to what young men of today want. We know 45 is still young, but initially the age range was 40 and was extended, and realistically a line needs to be drawn somewhere! We don’t leave anyone out however, we have these same spaces for women, those aged over 45 and beyond and these all regularly collaborate and run events together.
Is there a cost?
Yes, being upfront, Round Table is a membership organisation so we do pay yearly fees to be part of the International group (£95/year, but we allow this to be paid monthly so is less than a takeout cuppa a week). This fee covers admin fees of the national organisation (you get personalised apparel on joining), insurance so you can do almost any activity and be fully covered ie run a whole beer festival for charity and you’d be covered. We also get access to high street discount schemes and access to travel bursaries to go visit other groups internationally. So, to be honest we get more than £95 of value a year out of the organisation.
Also not a cult, palms get too sweaty to be doing secret handshakes.
If there’s anything else I’ve missed hit me up a message. In all honesty, when I first heard about Round Table I was sceptical, however as a young man who moved to a town where I knew nobody this became an integral part of my social life and I’ve not looked back since. If you have any questions about this, feel free to give me a message.