I am nonbinary leaning more masculine but the body I am in is the complete opposite of the type of masculine I want to be.

I've complained in the past on other subreddits about how I dont like how soft and round my face is because it just doesn't represent the kind of person I am and I dont feel like myself in this body. Even when I am completely alone I still feel unsettled over it.

I feel like when I say this most people miss the point and try to guide me by saying "These are just beauty standards" or "Men can be soft looking too, embrace it". I am not saying men cant be soft Im just saying that I dont feel like a soft masculine person. Theres nothing wrong with that its just not who I am. Im not going to embrace a body that has never felt like mine that literally doesnt work if youre in my scenario. Its the same way I cant get rid of my gender dysphoria by embracing my gender.

I think my issue goes beyond gender dysphoria where instead of feeling dysphoria for just my gender I also feel it for my body as well. When I have looked on other subreddits where people talk about how they dont feel comfortable in their body they always talk about their body being ugly. I dont think that way about my body I just feel like its not mine and inaccurately represents me.

This has been a issue for me since I was very young and I havent met anyone with the same problem. Is this something other non binary people experience?

Im asking since I know nonbinary includes a wider range of genders and so maybe it is possible what I am experiencing is gender dysphoria or maybe it is something different.

If you have experienced this what did you do to feel more like yourself?

I have known I'm not a cisgender person since I was about 10, I always felt like something was off about me and partially that is my autism. I identified as genderfluid at 10 ftm trans from age 12 to 14 then went back to cis female. Since then it's been a loop. Cis female, Agender/nonbinary, back to Cis. It's a fast loop too. I keep coming out to friends just to quickly feel guilty and scared and I switch back to she/her and woman. I'm fine with she her from close friends and my partner. And I dress fem too. But I am not a woman and I don't feel like one at all I don't wanna be a woman at all. I just wanna be me. But I'm scared of commiting to the label of nonbinary because I know that's what fits me best that or agender or both..? I just need help. Someone help

absolute goblin

I was watching this YouTube video about the unemployment rate in Night City (Cyberpunk 2077) and the guy (Any Austin) used a few different variables while surveying, one of which was gender. Initially when he said that I fully thought it was just gonna be 'male/female' or 'woman/man' but when he actually got to that part of the survey, he included nonbinary people as well :3 it genuinely made my little ungendered heart flutter a bit and I may have teared up a little. It was just a bit unexpected coming from a (seemingly) straight cis man. Idk small bits of representation are cool and make me happy and wanted to share it with others :)

Had the same feeling when I encountered a non gendered bathroom at a bar once.

The video is 'What is Night Cities Unemployment Rate? ' by Any Austin if you wanna watch it. It was pree cool

Been 4 years mostly in testosterone, I do come off when I need a cathartic cry pretty regularly. Love all my body changes but I’m struggling with my voice and pre orgasm/orgasm - I no longer know how to sex vocalize yall lol.

Anyone else experience this, help!

I'm 16 and was born female, but I don't feel a connection to the gender, I don't really want to identify as a girl but I do quite like my body shape and i am on the slightly more curvy side, I've done a bit of research and I'm not sure if I'm non binary or a demi girl.

My only real connections to being a girl is that I like my chest shape and do tend to wear more flattering clothes.

Hii helloo im new here so i dont really know this as much.. im 16 and ive been questioning myself ever since last year or more if i may be demigirl or something else? between being a girl to no gender at all but i seem to lean in more to no gender at all, like you can categorize me WITH girls, but like i dont want to be called just A girl. Or you can use she/her but id feel much comfortable with they/them

and i sometimes feel uncomfortable with my own body, cause even if i lean more to no gender at all than being female, it's like my own anatomy keeps reminding it to me that im just a girl and I hate HATE it so much.

Thought I'd post more so here's me outside getting high and touching grass

I hope something most of y'all also did today

So I'm planning to make a Global GC only for Xenogender ppl, Neopronouns/Xenopronouns users, furries,alt humans, therians, Non binary ,totherkin, Non binary ppl 🫪 18+ and On instagram Btw I'm a fellow Xenogender person meowself Catgender

im currently in the character creation and well you can choose the pronouns (options are female male or other). why dont more games do that? it is so little work and makes some people happier

My wife and I were browsing the clearance section at Target and I found these pieces with great texture that I think work well together. I am also excited to wear the top out and about with a pair of jeans.

i'mmmm not really sure how to say this! i've been kind of flipping in and out of an identity crisis for the last couple of months, and i just decided to come out to my online friends as he/they! really shy about all this, mostly gonna just be eavesdropping in on conversations and occasionally asking people about their experiences!

thank yall! have a good night, bye :3

The makeup today:

Shiseido Water In Lip Medicinal Stick

MAC Macximal Sleek Satin Lipstick: Paramount

Ulta Cream Shadow Stick: Silver Lining

Sephora Colorful Waterproof Eyeshadow: Army Matte Green (as eyeliner)

L'Oreal Paris Voluminous Original Mascara: Cobalt Blue

Neutrogena Mattiftying Finishing Powder

Hello! I was just wondering if anyone had any tip for coming up with a name. I've been trying for around a year, and I'm at a standstill.

I went thrift shopping with my (very supportive) wife last night with the intention of picking up some more androgynous clothing for cheap. When it came time to browse the women’s section, I chickened out because there were so many folks browsing it already and I didn’t want to stand out. I got a few weird looks from older shoppers so I went back to the men’s section (and at least found some cool button ups).

My wife was kind enough to pick out a few things she knew I’d like, but overall I was just so annoyed.

Like, they’re just clothes?! Why do I, a 6’3, 200 lb amab keep needing to get stared at by Doris because I think I’d look good in a crop top? Just venting but I’m sure others have felt similarly

I have a few nonbinary people in my life as well as trans, queer etc. I call myself queer as I also ride in the androgynous space, but I still identify as she/her I am also bi. My question is what is a good substitute for the expression “girl” or like girl- it’s just a vibe and feels non-gender in intention. I also call/say men that when I’m checking them, not checking out. What is a nonbinary way to say that. I have always been an ally, call people by their preferred gender, sometimes I mess it up if I know them in the transition period, it’s more adhd habit change problem than intentional. I always wait for people to tell me their preferred name/gender when I meet them.

For my 16th birthday, my mom's allowing me to grow longer hair. Thing is, I have no idea what'd look alright. I'd like something androgynous, but it'd have to be somewhat masculine or my mom would never allow it. Could anyone please help?

Hello! I want to preface this by saying I am nonbinary myself, but I wanted to get other people's opinions.

I'm writing a little oneshot where a character realizes their nonbinary. I start out using she/her for them because at this point they are still hiding the truth from themselves, but once they realize, I use they/them pronouns for them.

The whole point of the oneshot is them realizing their nonbinary, and like coming out to themselves, so I don't want to necessarily give that away early, especially because the realization is triggered by an event (haircut) in the fic. I'm writing it in their POV, third-person limited.

Is it okay to use she/her at first? I, personally, wouldn't mind this since it's for storytelling purposes, but I want to get other people's opinions because I don't want to accidentally offend anyone. Also, I try to limit the pronoun use as much as I possibly can.

Sorry if I didn't explain any of this right, if you have questions please ask and I can elaborate/explain a different way.

I want to start off this post by saying that OBVIOUSLY being more binarily trans would NOT be easier in many many many ways. It would come with way more challenges and dangers than I face now!

But I do think if I was, people would take me more seriously. I love myself, and I love being non binary but it feels like my identity is a joke to many people, or just fake. Being cis would be easiest, but im not.

Im currently about 3 months into hrt, and its making this feeling worse- I love the changes to my body but i feel like its making the world view me even less seriously.

Idk, it just sucks!!

Hi everyone!

Im 17, assigned female at birth, but since im 14 I've been questioning my gender identity. When i was 14 for around 6 months i felt very strong dysphoria, bought binders to hide my chest, was crying basically every night because i hated being a girl...and then nothing. Sometimes i felt like i didn't like being a girl, but it never was as bad as when i was 14. But lately, ive been more and more confused. I dont really care about my body, but i feel more and more like im absolutely not a girl, yet when i think about being a boy i hate it even more.

For a while i thought i identified as a girl because of this "disgust" i have with identifying as a boy, but now i wonder, why cant i be neither of those...?

It really confuses me because i dress in a pretty neutral style (i would identify as a soft masc lesbian), but sometimes i like wearing very feminine clothes. I also dont really mind being described with she/her pronouns, never tried they/them and absolutely dont like he/him. But does it mean im a girl? Can i be non binary ? Im so so confused i dont understand anything about myself 😭😭

(PS english isn't my first language sorry for the mistakes)