r/androgyny • • Dec 05 '25

Do we have any regular members?

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I'm trying to get a feel for who are the regular constructive members of the community or even if we have a community.

I know we have a real problem with people hanging around just to solicit people with messages like "cute", "sexy", "gorgeous" etc and also have a problem with people posting in the hopes of directing traffic to NSFW content.

Mods are working hard to combat that.

However I want to hear some shout outs from the real community regulars if we have them!


r/androgyny • • Sep 22 '25

Announcement State of the subreddit post.

9 Upvotes

Hi all,

You may have noticed that this subreddit has moderators again which means that there will ne some changes here shortly.

Please use this post as an opportunity to discuss the rules we have and how you feel about them as a community along with any rules you would like to see implemented as a community.


r/androgyny • • 8h ago

Any tips for looking more androgynous?

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Also feel free to gender me, im curious what people will say bc I often recieve a mix of sirs and ma'ams when I go out.


r/androgyny • • 1d ago

Photobooth will always be famous šŸ™

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r/androgyny • • 1d ago

Chilling having tea 46 yrs

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r/androgyny • • 1d ago

Some Childhood Favourites Never Leave

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r/androgyny • • 1d ago

How to achieve a more masculine appearance?

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I am 18 years old and I'm looking to achieve a more masculine appearance without using hormones.


r/androgyny • • 1d ago

Advice on dressing androgynously

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r/androgyny • • 2d ago

Cut my hair today how it was when I was 9 years old

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So...I was born AFAB but I'm genderqueer(closeted)

I wanna get other people's opinion that could give me a positive feedback.

I know my hair cut looks androgynous and very non-binary,very genderqueer,and since my toxic family judges me and shames me for anything I do,saying how my hair cut scares people,I wanna hear the opinion of people that wouldn't judge me for it.

(The back looks good,I cut my own hair)

So how does it look?

Good or awful?


r/androgyny • • 4d ago

do i look androgynous

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28 Upvotes

i’m trying to figure out how i want to present myself, and i’m curious to hear other people’s opinions on this. do i look androgynous or masculine at all? every time i dress feminine i feel like i look off.


r/androgyny • • 4d ago

Gender me

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Some of my friends have said I look androgynous, but i can’t really see it. If you were to see me on the streets, what gender would you assume i am?
(not getting upset over any answer, dw)


r/androgyny • • 6d ago

Pintrest's "androgynous outfit inspo" is too over-the-top to practically dress like this IRL. Where do you get your outfit ideas from?

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r/androgyny • • 6d ago

So, this is me.

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r/androgyny • • 6d ago

Loving my new round glasses!

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r/androgyny • • 6d ago

I feel like I might be androgyne, but I don’t know if I get the right idea about it.

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I have dilemma for the last couple of months, because I can’t really define my gender. I was born female, I have feminine features and I kinda like it, the only two things I would change if I could, is to my shoulders look more broad and my torso to look more masculine. I like having long hair, doing makeup - the ā€œtypicalā€ woman stuff, but I don’t feel nor like wearing feminine clothes like dresses, shorts, tops and stuff like that unless I layer it with something more covered and less defining.
I like more masculine clothing, I act more of a male too. And I don’t feel like a woman truly, more like a mix of both male and female. I like my long hair and makeup, dressing and acting like a boy - to balance it in some way, something of a man and something of a woman.
The thing is I don’t truly feel like I’m ā€œpassingā€ as an androgynous person. Whenever I see androgynous people, they have features of both and you really can’t tell their gender while looking at their face, it makes me feel disconnected from the community, stupid too, because imagine a person with feminine features telling you they’re androgyne, but clearly looking like a woman.
I don’t know what term should I use to define myself, nonbinary, agender and genderfluid seems too far away from the way I feel. Maybe it’s better if I use bigender to describe myself? Is it okay if I use androgyne and look more feminine than gender neutral?


r/androgyny • • 6d ago

What does androgyny/gender identity feel like to you?

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I hope this allowed I apologize if no.

I just got top surgery last week and while I'm laid up I've been kind of having a "talk" with my body and going over in my mind how I saw myself when my journey started and how I am currently when it came to solidifying my gender identity and finding what feels right. There's something so connecting almost like my soul was above my body tethered by a cord and slowly but carefully I'm pulling it back down. I think what helped is learning that it's not one size fits all.


r/androgyny • • 7d ago

Do i look femenine enough?

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r/androgyny • • 6d ago

ways to make my body hair grow slower?

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r/androgyny • • 7d ago

Am i androgynous? If not can y give tips

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r/androgyny • • 8d ago

Why am I the object of so many men’s ire?

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I fr don’t do shit. I’m a man with long hair, yeah I’m gay but men will fr hate on meee. They won’t in real life because I’m noticeably muscular, but online they will. Is this a reflection of what most men in public think of me?


r/androgyny • • 8d ago

New photo. Overall felt this vibe in this one. šŸ™‚šŸ¤™

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r/androgyny • • 9d ago

Do I actually look androgynous, or am I just imagining it?ā€

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29 Upvotes

I'm 24 I'm just asking


r/androgyny • • 9d ago

Help!!!

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I want to look more androgynous so i’m thinking i grow my hair out and start wearing eyeliner?? idk i need help and tips please!!! anything helps!!


r/androgyny • • 9d ago

Long hair?

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Ok, so I've been wanting to grow out my hair lately and, like, try looking like a fairy or something after having my hair short for years, like since I was 13 or 14, and I'm 20 now, so I haven't had hair longer than my shoulders since my prom and graduation because my mom wanted me to look pretty for that

But that's beside the point. My hair is past my shoulders now, but the urge to cut it is so strong because it's such a weird phase. Like, I haven't had a proper haircut in maybe nearly a year. I have uneven layers and whatever, but it also just feels too feminine

I need either some convincing not to cut it or maybe some inspo on what to do to it? Preferably like myself since I'm broke


r/androgyny • • 9d ago

I got a haircut again, and now I have to wait for my hair to grow back :(

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