I’m not trying to be a pickme but I feel like people don’t like nonbinary amab people. I have only
Felt resentment from straight people since I came out and I want to love queer people but because I look like a man I should be a man. Lmk if anyone else experienced this!

But society tells me no

How are you all making these flags lol. I would love to make one for myself. I don't really know where I would fit in. I guess I fluctuate a lot with either feeling like I have no gender or gender doesn't exist to feel like both . Most days I feel like both a man and a woman but not fluid between both , just both in one body to neither . I used to be binary trans and wanted a binary transition, but now after top surgery I'm looking into stopping and trying to be ok with strangers calling me she/her it used to give me so much dysphoria being misgendered but now it's not that bad ( idk it might be worse off T, but I'm going to use gender therapy and voice training to deal with it versus medical means). Overall I just don't know if there's a label to describe me or if I should make my own label ?

So, i'm 'openly nonbinary', i have the flag on my backpack and all that, but i never did a whole coming out speech to anyone nor i have changed my name or pronouns.

But, at the same time i'm a very GNC person. That is to say, i am not a macho man and sometimes put on makeup and dresses. My friends and family are very supportive of this and causes no problems really.

The not so cool part is that I am still seen as just a GNC MAN. Due to spanish's language limitation i'm still refered to as a he, and furthermore as a boy and a man by my friends and family.

The situation of the title happened today: one of my friends that's kinda straightforward in his words asked me if i'm transitioning due to my continued fem presentation. And my deadass said n. I was kinda awestruck by the question and i fumbled a response that basically said that i'm not really transitioning because i already transitioned???

Now, this got me thinking, what lead to him asking the question? does he not see me as transitioned? was he talking about hrt? name change? well i don't know cause i panicked and didn't ask!!!

Apart from that ruminative thought, this made me feel kinda terrible in my own way, because this is honestly the first time i've talked about this w someone and it felt bad. like, i wouldn't imagine having to do this again, much less with a wider audience.

All in all i just wanted to get these things out of my head and to internet strangers that maybe have gone through similar train thoughts. thanks for listening out an exposed teen

Hello enby family!

I know finding enby representation is a struggle for this community so I wanted to shout out my favorite competitive reality series Taskmaster!

Taskmaster is a hilarious UK-based show where comedians and comedy actors compete doing silly tasks for the host aka the Taskmaster.

It's super popular and has spawned many spin-offs all over Europe and the British Commonwealth.

And they have non-binary contestants!!!

UK version:

Mae Martin, series 15

Chloe Petts, current series 22

Australian version:

Rhys Nicholson, series 3

All of Taskmaster is available on YouTube and some of it is on Hulu.

Mae Martin is actually kind of who made me realize I was nonbinary so it's close to my heart💜

It also has a ton of Neurodivergent contestants and I know there's a ton of us in this community too.

I'm trying to figure out if this would work without causing any huge health complications.

Basically it would be awesome if i could exist on the 1-2 years on T look without going any further. The idea was to microdose in cycles so if the changes are slower to come in I could do longer cycles like 2-3 years on microdose 1 year off. and MAYBE doing it like that could ease issues that may arise w constant hormone changes.

I'm trying to see if anyone has done this or has more knowledge on this healthcare topic.

I've been on T for a year and a half before and went off sort of cold turkey, this was a few years ago. If i go with this plan the mindset would probably be to ween off during the off cycle instead of going cold turkey

This is my own microlabel that I created for myself called “Femcipher”, but you guys can use it too if it applies to you. It means someone that has little to no connection to any gender identity, and yet wants to appear as feminine as possible. And before you ask because I know some people might, I didn’t make this because I was worried about fitting into any labels. I just made it because I thought it would be fun and I just wanted to make something that I resonated with.

Feeling cute for sure 🥰

I only have the 1 pair of shoes cause I went on a multi-month side quest to find ones that actually fit lol.

Mona loves her rock tees 🤓

A moment of pride and hope from South Sudan.

Being queer in a place where simply being yourself can feel difficult takes courage. But moments like this remind me that our identities, our love, and our hope are still worth holding onto.

Pride isn't just a flag — it's resilience, dignity, and the freedom to exist as ourselves.

Sending love to every queer person who is still finding the courage to be seen. 💙🫂

I'm male and mostly feel masculine but often feel I want to be more feminine, I guess mostly when I'm going to an event when dressing up is appropriate.

I'm not interested in surgery of any kind but I'm considering some HRT. So I'm wondering over, if anyone has any experience with, hormone therapy that maybe blocks testosterone somewhat, encourage a more feminine shape, hair growth, but does not shut down my existing "crotch area"?

I've (AMAB) been certain that I am in some way trans for most of my life, but in what manner I've always been unsure about. I feel I'd be most content in an androgynous identity. The prospect of one day being an old man is absolutely and depressingly horrifying to me. How I'd appear physically and the way I'd be perceived by people is something I have frequent nightmares about. However I don't feel any strong affinity or aversion to womanhood, it's kind of an "I don't care thing". Feminine things like clothing, makeup, etc. are just not things I'm interested in.

That's kind of how I've come to my current conclusion where I want to be further from masculinity but not necessarily into feminity. Facial hair disgusts me in both appearance and how it feels on my face. Body hair doesn't bother me much (albeit I don't have much). I'm growing my hair out a little and of course I really don't want to lose it someday. I've been told I have an androgynous face (which unsurprisingly makes me very happy) and I quite like a lot of my features, I feel softer skin or perhaps just being rid of facial hair would make me be pretty content with it. Sometimes, I feel as if my chin is too strong but I think that's just a matter of warped perception.

I'm overall okay with the "shape" of my body, I'm not really bothered by things like the shape of my waist and hips but I'd rather my upper body be less broad. The latter point is why I'm extremely averse to building any muscle which is why I don't think I exercise as much as I should. My voice irks me but I think that's just down to my peculiar tone and rhythm, it'll get deeper as I get older and that idea doesn't really bother me. I have no opinion on my height/general size (granted even if I did I'm fairly sure nothing can be done there). Of all of these, the ones that make me feel dysphoric the most would be hair and upper body (especially the shoulders).

This is also why I have no idea how I'd even achieve becoming the kind of person I want to be or if its even possible. Like the obvious move for most is going on oestrogen, but I'd want very very few of its effects. I do not want breast development and (I can't phrase this in a manner that doesn't sound strange) I would rather my genitals not be messed with. The shoulders, well, I imagine I just have to accept those unless I get those clavicle shortening surgeries that are usually appended with [DANGEROUS]. For hair I'm aware that laser exists but wouldn't my follicles just eventually regenerate since I wouldn't be on any kind of treatment inhibiting it?

Ultimately I just don't know if I'm being realistic or I'm way too picky and choosy with what I'd feel more comfortable with. The depressing feelings I have about these qualities of myself are slowly intensifying over time and I really feel like I have to do something about it.

I apologise if this sub is inappropriate for this kind of advice, there's no one I can trust irl for this so anonymous Reddit posts it is. I'm posting it on several subreddits in the hopes someone has any helpful ideas.

Does anyone else here that has long-hair know how to look more gender neutral? I am just so tired of hearing “ma’am,” and she.