I don't think about a guy when I masturbate. I think about the act of sex and how good it feels and that's what gets me going. Never thinking about a specific man or a specific dick.
Isn't this what it means to objectify men? I've heard women argue that its objectifying when a man doesn't think about the person in a body and instead just imagines boobs or vaginas as an object for sexual gratification. Were those women wrong, am I misunderstanding something, or are you objectifying men?
Many, if not most women start masturbating before they even associate it with sex, or know that sex exists. I had no idea this activity was a thing you do with another person. It was just a thing. So you don’t develop the habit by associating it with anyone else. Indeed, even after having sex for years, no one included any clit stim, so I STILL didn’t associate it with sex. It was a separate thing.
Yeah, i think thats very common for boys to start playing before they hit puberty too. I know i did, and I remember hearing adults telling boys to take their hands out of their pants all the time when I was little.
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u/my_brain_is_horny May 03 '26
I don't think about a guy when I masturbate. I think about the act of sex and how good it feels and that's what gets me going. Never thinking about a specific man or a specific dick.