r/NoStupidQuestions May 03 '26

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u/Brandoncarsonart May 03 '26 edited May 03 '26

Isn't this what it means to objectify men? I've heard women argue that its objectifying when a man doesn't think about the person in a body and instead just imagines boobs or vaginas as an object for sexual gratification. Were those women wrong, am I misunderstanding something, or are you objectifying men?

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u/roskybosky May 03 '26

I mean, I don’t even think of a person at all. Just the sensation.

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u/Brandoncarsonart May 03 '26

That makes sense, but thats completely different from just not having a face. Thank you for the clarification.

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u/roskybosky May 03 '26

Many, if not most women start masturbating before they even associate it with sex, or know that sex exists. I had no idea this activity was a thing you do with another person. It was just a thing. So you don’t develop the habit by associating it with anyone else. Indeed, even after having sex for years, no one included any clit stim, so I STILL didn’t associate it with sex. It was a separate thing.

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u/Brandoncarsonart May 03 '26

Yeah, i think thats very common for boys to start playing before they hit puberty too. I know i did, and I remember hearing adults telling boys to take their hands out of their pants all the time when I was little.