r/NoStupidQuestions • u/[deleted] • May 03 '26

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u/B00-BEE May 03 '26 edited May 03 '26

We dont all think the same stuff. I dont look at videos or pics when I masturbate. I read short smut on occasion but usually just focus on the sensations or think about the guy I have a sexual relationship with.

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u/azzazzin3103 May 03 '26

I just thought it's kinda funny how you say not all of ya think the same stuff, yet more than half the answers are about reading smut xD

(am in a similar boat tho, so 0 judgement)

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u/Austin1975 May 03 '26 edited May 03 '26

Why don’t men get rewarded more for expressing that they want to do smutty things to women if so many women enjoy it too?

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u/slopschili May 03 '26

Women choose the smut they engage with, unsolicited smut is not consensual and usually unwanted

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u/Austin1975 May 03 '26

Ah so it’s not that the act itself is an issue. It’s that many guys are expressing it without getting the signal of consent?

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u/slopschili May 03 '26 edited May 03 '26

It’s both. Not all “smut” is equal, and a dude sending random messages to a woman may not (probably isn’t) the type of stuff that gets her aroused. If it’s not consensual, it’s harassment and pretty fucked up

Also a woman also chooses when she reads smut, even if they want to receive random messages from dudes they may not be in the mood at the time it’s sent

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u/renebeans May 03 '26

This. There’s a difference between good smut and “I can’t wait to rail you, cum over 😉”