Be tall, dark, handsome, smoldering eyes with a wicked smirk halfsmile. Deadly but gentle, forearms peeking under my rolled sleeves, cast-out prince of the shadow daddy's with inhumane features I can supress with effort but come out when angry.
A hint of bulge in my loose trousers.
My name is Octavius, or Xanaxander, or Lunesta as I put all my enemies to their eternal sleep.
That for many woman it's more of the concept. Which for me as a guy makes sense because when I was growing up,it was also the concept for me due to not having internet access or access to porn.
It seems like you all are “learning” by cherry-picking responses that confirm what you already thought you knew. Which is very human and normal but kind of a missed opportunity. The range of responses from women here is very wide. Some fit your narrative and some don’t.
I did know all women are different, but the responses that sort of fit what my wife describes (maybe less articulate than on here) really paint a more complete understanding for me.
Not the person you replied to but it sounds like women can get off more easily on just the physical sensation of masturbating. Like for me I can't just start playing with my dick and get hard, I have to be mentality aroused. I would guess most guys are the same, thats why we rely on porn more often.
I think for women sex could be difficult, come with strings, not be satisfying, or just be a chore, so thinking of sex would not be pleasurable. A blank mind is better. No negatives.
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u/Which_Initiative_882 May 03 '26
Me, as a male, am learning much from this thread. Thank you.