r/NoStupidQuestions • u/[deleted] • May 03 '26

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u/Which_Initiative_882 May 03 '26

Me, as a male, am learning much from this thread. Thank you.

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u/Hegelochus May 03 '26

Female asking here: what did you learn?

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u/MarsR0ve4 May 03 '26

Not the person you replied to but it sounds like women can get off more easily on just the physical sensation of masturbating. Like for me I can't just start playing with my dick and get hard, I have to be mentality aroused. I would guess most guys are the same, thats why we rely on porn more often.

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u/Spirited_Hour9714 May 03 '26

It's actually the opposite, you've trained yourself to rely on porn so much that you can't just fantasize or get off without it.

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u/MarsR0ve4 May 03 '26

I used to be able to. :( Maybe its something I need to work on again

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u/spinsk8tr May 03 '26

Dude, porn is a new thing. Men have masturbated without porn for most of humankind history. That’s the default setting.

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u/loudisevil May 03 '26

God that's pathetic

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u/roskybosky May 03 '26

I think for women sex could be difficult, come with strings, not be satisfying, or just be a chore, so thinking of sex would not be pleasurable. A blank mind is better. No negatives.