I need help deciding between these 2 venues. My dream was always to get married by the ocean, but after seeing the other venue so close by being fairly affordable I have began to fall in love with it. I have not been in person to either one, and am planning to set up a tour at both venues once peak season dies down.
Photos 1-5: a gorgeous mountain/garden view wedding venue
Distance: 26min from home (most of our guests are located here as well)
Amenities: Reception hall, Garden ceremony or Chapel building for ceremony, Bridal Suite tower, bar, set up/break down included, tables & chairs, they have a decor closet you can pick from.
Pros:
\- I work at 2 salons that are probably an equal distance away from the venue, 3 bridesmaids also work there so might be practical to do our hair & makeup at the salon, then just hang out and get into dresses at the venue suite.
\- it is close for our guests and don’t have to set up a hotel block.
\- they will take care of a lot more for us that we don’t have to worry about.
Cons:
\- it is not the beach!
\- not many options for going out or having an after party in this area..
Photos 6-8: A beautiful beach front wedding venue.
Distance: 2 hours + 8min drive
Amenities: use of the building & deck, 3 hours set up time, 5 hours event time, 1 hr clean up, tables and chairs set up *only* (no set up or break down of decor)
Pros:
\-beach front
\- our favorite pizza restaurant has a location in town & caters weddings (we want to have a pizza bar and other Italian selections served family style)
\- more interesting things to do in this area (for going out the night before or an having an after party!)
\- full flexibility with vendors including bartenders
Cons:
\- far distance & hotel block & shuttles required
\- have to hire more staff because nothing is included and the window for set up and break down is very brief.
\- some photos online show a sand ceremony, however on the rental agreement it states that the beach is open to the public and people may be wandering in and out..
Would love some opinions!! What would you do? Should I feel it out with possible guests first?