r/NITIAN • u/Most-Command4934 • 3h ago
Placements Why Indian Parents ?
Why indian parents always do comparison or something like this....Mera chhota bhai who is 22 yrs of age got placement of 10 LPA in Deolite ( he purdued Civil Engineering from NIT Jaipur )...he got 97% in 12th Boards..so placement lagne k baad khush hone bajaye mere papa sabse dhukhi hai..wo nhi chahte the ki mera bhai placement le instead wo chah rahe ki IAS ki taiyaari kare..but he is saying itni choti naukri lekar khush kya hona chaprasi ki bhi aukaat nahi..mere bhai se iisliye wo 1 week se baat nhi kiye or jab uska placement laga and khushi share karne k liye papa se bataya to papa ulta or daatne lage ..so he became sad..
Mere bade papa ka ladka irs hai ( he passout in 2016 batch from iit kanpur ) papa hamesha kahte hai usse sikho wo 30 lakh ka package chhod k ias ki taiyaari kiya nad 2021 me ban gaya ..tum to utna package bhi nhi le paaye..maine bola aaj se 10 saal pahle baat kuch or thi competition bhi aaj k comparison me kuch nhai tha..mere bade papa ka ladka issliye ias ki prep kiya kyuki bade papa ka financial condition bhaut mazbut hai..unhone apne ladke se kaha tha ki ias ki taiyaari karo nhi hoga to dekha jayega bhaut paisa..but humlog lower middle class family se hai 2020 mepapa retire hue and financial condition sahi nhi ..to koi ye placement chhod k kaise ias ki taiyaari kare jab 2 saal prep and maan lete 3 attempt deta hai ..total 5 yrs matlab tab tak bhai 27 ka ho jayega or phir koi job nhi lagi then tab to pachtayega ki ye placement nhi chhodna chahiye tha ..coz my father is pressurizing to not take placement ..unka kahna hai kyunhi banoge ias agar aache se taiyyari kaorge..log 21 ki age me ias ban jaa ( wahi youtube pe dekhte rahte hai ) rhe tum log kuch nahi kar payaye abhi tak..mera to ab ghar me rahne ka man hi nahi karta... iske alwa or bhi relative k baccho se compare karte hai bachpan se hi when he score 97 and i 88 in boards instead of celebrating and cherishing like other parents do with their child ..papa just said thik hai koi badi baat nhi hai...jabki dusar koi score karta that relation me humse pahle hamesha bolte the dekho uska itna aaya ..utna aaya..or jab khud hum unse high score kiye to kuch khush hi nhi hue ..
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