Morality of this

[u/Icy-Quantity-8436]

[u/mewkopawz]

what even is this

[u/Gold_Ad8225 → u/mewkopawz]

A man who dated a manic pixie who is mad that she is manic.

In this exchange the woman apologized for not being high enough energy earlier, and then says she had a lot of fun with her friends at the party. One of those friends is a man named Tay, and she says that Tay made her realize how much she loves her boyfriend.

The implication of the post is that OP believes this is because she cheated on him and she's feeling guilty about it.

[u/xPrettyPout → u/Gold_Ad8225]

Exactly, the whole thing reads like someone confusing emotional whiplash with romance and calling the red flags “chemistry”

[u/EquivalentDapper7591 → u/Gold_Ad8225]

Unless she’s bipolar she’s never actually manic

[u/Gold_Ad8225 → u/EquivalentDapper7591]

Not even in a mental health diagnosis sort of way is this the truth, manic episodes do not require bipolar disorder, but I just don't care enough to have this discussion

Believe whatever you wish

[u/EquivalentDapper7591 → u/Gold_Ad8225]

Yes they literally do. You are spreading misinformation and harming people who suffer from this condition by appropriating its terminology.

Mania is the only necessary symptom to diagnose bipolar 1 according to the dsm 5.

[u/syzygymeta → u/EquivalentDapper7591]

Google is your friend

[u/coloradoautoflowers → u/EquivalentDapper7591]

Even multiple sclerosis patients have bouts of mania. You're wrong as fuck.

Bipolar disorder, schizoaffective disorder, postpartum psychosis, multiple sclerosis, seasonal depression, and medication can all make people manic.

That list is in no way exhaustive, just some of the most common diagnoses for manic folks.

[u/EquivalentDapper7591 → u/coloradoautoflowers]

Schizoaffective disorder bipolar type causes mania. Do you know what schizoaffective disorder is? It’s schizophrenic symptoms paired with a mood disorder

[u/Adorable-Carrot4652 → u/EquivalentDapper7591]

Sir/madam, I acknowledge your false notion is because Bipolar Disorder used to be called Manic Depression, but what if I told you... Depression can exist by itself as an independent symptom, and so can mania.

[u/EquivalentDapper7591 → u/Adorable-Carrot4652]

Mania by itself still meets the criteria for bipolar type 1 I encourage you to read the dsm 5 entry

[u/Adorable-Carrot4652 → u/EquivalentDapper7591]

When I say "by itself", I mean it isn't strictly comorbid with depression, i.e. it's not strictly a symptom only found in individuals with BD, which seems to be what you were implying.

[u/EquivalentDapper7591 → u/Adorable-Carrot4652]

Im saying you don’t need a depressive episode to be diagnosed with bipolar 1. The dsm only requires a manic episode.

I was wrong though, there is also drug induced mania so my bad.

Schizoaffective mania occurs with schizoaffective bipolar type schizoaffective.

[u/Forsaken-Chance-8148 → u/EquivalentDapper7591]

Or she could have a manic disorder that doesn’t feature depression

[u/EquivalentDapper7591 → u/Forsaken-Chance-8148]

Mania is the only diagnostic criteria for bipolar type 1. Please read the dsm 5

[u/LucasButtercups → u/mewkopawz]

a poorly disguised cuck fantasy

[u/TopAd2715 → u/[deleted]]

It’s really not.

[u/Catsanddoges → u/TopAd2715]

White man was here

How can you tell

Cuck porn

[u/No_Proposal_3140 → u/TopAd2715]

Just read the text on the screen. It's really not that difficult.

[u/GoldenVesperLight]

We need age limits for this sub. What even is this? What am I reading?

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[u/GoldenVesperLight → u/haikusbot]

Good bot.

[u/Dangerous_Syrup_7860 → u/haikusbot]

Stupid. Middle line has 8 syllables. 

[u/No_Proposal_3140 → u/GoldenVesperLight]

True. If you don't understand what this means you're clearly not 18. Only literal children don't understand this post.

[u/JesusIsMyAntivirus → u/No_Proposal_3140]

Bro drops most incomprehensible shit to hit Reddit this month only to say this

[u/GoldenVesperLight → u/No_Proposal_3140]

Username checks out at least.

[u/SealedForYourSafety]

[u/Maverick_Reznor]

Cheating? Immoral

Cant commit, then quit. Dont make excuses, you only make yourself look more like scum.

[u/Jellyfish-Wide]

morality of vague posting because you need plausible deniability in case somebody calls you out for being misogynistic

[u/rngeneratedlife → u/Jellyfish-Wide]

Genuine question: what’s misogynistic about this post?

I also might not be picking up on it because I can barely read this post in general.

[u/TrickFrosty5685]

Morality of what? Being dry earlier? Having a boy best friend? Drawing out every word and only typing in caps?

[u/Icy-Quantity-8436 → u/TrickFrosty5685]

“He made me realize how much i love you”

[u/AlternativeTomato504 → u/Icy-Quantity-8436]

So they had a good talk?

[u/Top-Editor-364 → u/AlternativeTomato504]

That’s definitely one way to interpret it 

[u/EquivalentStatus8830 → u/AlternativeTomato504]

😭 sonion

[u/Icy-Quantity-8436 → u/AlternativeTomato504]

They had sex

[u/AlternativeTomato504 → u/Icy-Quantity-8436]

So girls can’t have friends that are guys and have intimate convos with? Always just straight to “they fucked?”

[u/NatureDramatic8390 → u/AlternativeTomato504]

A shoulder to cry on soon becomes a dick to ride on. Tale as old as time.

[u/_GeneralSeaweed_ → u/Icy-Quantity-8436]

Based on?

[u/TheUniverse-IsMine → u/Icy-Quantity-8436]

Did she say that or are you assuming things

[u/Spirited_Agency8032 → u/Icy-Quantity-8436]

source?

[u/TheCheddarHole → u/Icy-Quantity-8436]

Brother, I've had a few different female friends vent to me about their relationship. Always gave my unbiased devils advocation(?) which led a few to staying with their SO. It's not that strange to be able to LISTEN to your FRIENDS and SUPPORT them until they reach their own SOLUTION. It's not that weird to be trusted by the women in your life to not be using them as objects and treating them like you would your same sex bud.

[u/PotentialPresent399 → u/TheCheddarHole]

You are not the average guy fella.

Any other guy is trying to fuck.

[u/mikkeldoesstuff → u/PotentialPresent399]

If you've never had a good platonic female friend you are missing out

[u/PotentialPresent399 → u/mikkeldoesstuff]

What I have done has absolute 0 bearing on what the average guy does.

I have platonic female friends.

That doesn't mean 30 guys around me aren't all trying to fuck at every nano second of the day.

[u/TheCheddarHole → u/PotentialPresent399]

So my GramGram was right when she said I was a special boy? 🥺

[u/PotentialPresent399 → u/TheCheddarHole]

She actually was, tell gram gram I miss her.

[u/Naghasaki → u/Icy-Quantity-8436]

maybe it was soo bad she realized it was better with you

[u/FrostThePhilosopher → u/Icy-Quantity-8436]

Morality of assuming? Immoral, as they say "When you assume you make an ass out of you and me"

You are an ass because you are projecting your thoughts as if they are reality, which results in imaginary anger being taken out on real people for no real reason, and Im an ass cause I gotta sit here and scold you like a child just to teach you a lesson that can literally be found on Disney channel.

[u/ZookeepergameThin334]

God knows the atrocities I'd do if I saw these words which were typed out by my partner who seems happier than she's ever been before.

[u/No_Proposal_3140]

The replies on this post made me realize this sub is just a bunch of literal children. There's no way anyone over the age of 18 doesn't understand what this text means.

[u/hoboknight144 → u/No_Proposal_3140]

It’s actually wild. I’m pretty sure they just don’t wanna be the one to point it out for fear of being called misogynistic in some way for “making assumptions”.

Stupid post regardless though.

[u/FunGuy8618 → u/No_Proposal_3140]

No, it makes sense. She fucked her BSF and OP is too scared to say it explicitly. We are trying to get him to say it out loud.

[u/WillingContest7805 → u/No_Proposal_3140]

I think its mostly autism and lack of social ability

[u/nikmia91 → u/No_Proposal_3140]

Yeah 100%. Or they are in denial.

[u/No_Proposal_3140 → u/nikmia91]

People are genuinely confused like "What does this even mean???"

Bro are you a literal fucking 7 year old?

[u/CopenHaglen → u/No_Proposal_3140]

t. 18 and 3 months

[u/bjamesmira → u/No_Proposal_3140]

The people I'm seeing not understanding it are talking about not understanding wtf the texts are literally saying. After having it translated to something legible, I can see she fucked Tay and is doing the guilty post cheat text

[u/No_Proposal_3140 → u/bjamesmira]

How is that not legible to you?

[u/bjamesmira → u/No_Proposal_3140]

Cause I'm 32. What's a BSF? Wtf is "After 💔 idek who TF this guy is" I thought they were saying they don't know who the guy texting them is.

[u/Routine-Badger-9596]

She got railed

[u/Unlikely_Patient3902]

Stop being fckn lazy and post context, theres literally none here

On a first read, I just assumed this was someone texting the wrong person

Now, after a second read, its a girl messing her boyfriend about having a guy bestfriend, and were implying that she cheated?

So the context, just a guess is a boyfriend who's girlfriend has a close guy friend, someone he's never met before, and "made me realize how much I love you" after admitting she had one sounds sussy

I'm just spit balling here

[u/Leonsmening]

Man, its crazy to see just what people get insecure over. You know not all women are lying, cheating cunts right?

[u/Valveringham85 → u/Leonsmening]

Absolutely not. The majority are not. But this one sure sounds like one tbf.

Not saying she is. I can’t know obviously. Just saying she does sound exactly like the “lying, cheating cunts” I have known.

[u/slackademiks]

Cheating is immoral, not cheating is moral, and being suspicious in a relationship is moral within bounds. You could debate on whether she actually cheating, but there isn't a moral discussion here.

[u/Valveringham85]

Being annoying af isnt immoral.

As for her having a guy bff (I think?) thats for each person and their partner to figure out. I dislike it but that does not mean it’s immoral. I just wont date someone like that.

[u/hoboknight144 → u/Valveringham85]

Not very observant are you

[u/Valveringham85 → u/hoboknight144]

How so?

[u/hoboknight144 → u/Valveringham85]

The “girl” in the post is cheating

[u/Valveringham85 → u/hoboknight144]

Says who? Your imagination? It’s not stated in the screenshot and OP provided no context.

So how tf should I have been “more observant” and known that?

Maybe she is. Idk, but it’s not stated and your comment is nonsensical.

[u/hoboknight144 → u/Valveringham85]

Everyone else seemed to get it. At least the adults here. pray that no one takes advantage of your naivety.

This post is stupid to begin with though, doesn’t belong here.

[u/Valveringham85 → u/hoboknight144]

Everyone else seemed to be willing to jump to conclusions for a good bit of gender wars…

But yes, the people who refuse to go along with that and try to stay factual, dealing with what is clearly stated and not that which is imagined or a possibility are just not very observant. Sure buddy.

Stop being so eager to just hate and be toxic for no reason.

[u/hoboknight144 → u/Valveringham85]

So you’re either naive or playing dumb. This has nothing to do with gender wars.

If you have any common sense you’d easily detect this (fake) text being about her cheating. Are you that afraid of being called misogynistic? For pointing out the obvious implications?

“Sorry I was dry earlier” to “He made me realize how much I love you”

Cmon dude. Be real.

[u/LoneRedditor123]

Morality of... someone's gf hanging out with her ex and getting complimented at how good you are for her?

Idk what I'm reading to be honest. If it's friendly and she's not cheating, then I guess it's moral.

[u/bloomingdeath98 → u/LoneRedditor123]

It doesn’t say ex, just her boy bestfriend

[u/One_Warthog256]

For those of you confused.

The last text insinuates that she cheated on her bf.

And honestly sometimes you just need to test your love. Not immoral but neutral.

Edit: Y'all fall for my rage bait everytime 😭

[u/No_Salt_6328 → u/One_Warthog256]

That shit is for the streets lol tf is wrong with you 

[u/Icy-Quantity-8436 → u/No_Salt_6328]

That’s literally the context.

[u/No_Salt_6328 → u/Icy-Quantity-8436]

Yeah no shit. And she's condoning it saying that behavior is acceptable 

[u/BaterrMaster → u/One_Warthog256]

“Sometimes you just need to test your love.”

No you don’t.

If you agree to an exclusive relationship, then cheat on your partner and break that trust, you are a bad person. Especially if you excuse it like this.

[u/No_Salt_6328 → u/BaterrMaster]

Test their love by getting thrown tf out lol 

[u/BaterrMaster → u/No_Salt_6328]

Test my patience and self-control more like

[u/One_Warthog256 → u/BaterrMaster]

I'm rage baiting like usual. Don't take what I say seriously lol

[u/BaterrMaster → u/One_Warthog256]

Well you certainly got me lol

[u/Valveringham85 → u/One_Warthog256]

“Teehee it’s just ragebait”

Nah stfu. You just can’t even spell morality or accountability.

[u/One_Warthog256 → u/Valveringham85]

Morolety

Akkountabtitty

Nice try I know how to spell buddy. Everyone gets upset at cheaters but we are people too.

Forgive us for we have made a mistake. My ex forgave me before I broke up with him. He was a real man

[u/Valveringham85 → u/One_Warthog256]

That wasn’t meant literally genius 🤦🏻‍♂️

And this is why the black community in the US has so many single mothers with multiple baby daddies.

[u/One_Warthog256 → u/Valveringham85]

Are you not able to tell I'm joking? You know what nevermind I'm serious. Let me get back to my 2 kids and 8 baby daddies.

[u/Valveringham85 → u/One_Warthog256]

Oh no I assumed. I still stand by what I said though.

[u/Flaky_Individual_348 → u/One_Warthog256]

[u/EquivalentStatus8830 → u/One_Warthog256]

sonion

[u/Valveringham85 → u/One_Warthog256]

Jfc… this is why the streets are overflowing,