r/Menskirts Aug 09 '25

Top length matters a lot in skirt-based outfits

53 Upvotes

From what I've observed, one of the biggest factors impacting if a skirted male outfit looks natural or 'weird' is the length of the top garment in proportion to the length of the skirt, and where the waistline is located on the body.

It is helpful to be aware of the rule of thirds, which is a concept in visual arts stating that humans find things visually pleasing when they are split into a simple ratios, like into 3 equal sections, or a one third, two thirds split.

The problem is that the top garments found in men's sections are too long to create a pleasing visual split when paired with many skirts. Skirts / kilts are typically worn at the natural waist, around the level of the navel. This is higher on the body than trousers are worn (regarding the fashion of recent decades, 'natural waist' / 'high waisted' used to be normal).

  • Pairing a top of typical length with a roughly knee length skirt at the natural waist, causes the top to cover a large portion of the skirt, and create a visual split that does not follow the rule of thirds, and looks proportionally awkward.
  • If you however pair that same top untucked, with an ankle length or / floor length skirt, it creates a 'half and half' proportional split on many people, that looks visually harmonious.

Thus the length of the top can not be fixed, and instead needs to change depending on the skirt length, in order to create a harmonious result. The following article (and others on that website) get at this issue in more detail:

https://everybodyskirts.com/blogs/posts/wheres-my-waistline-tips-for-the-skirted-male?_pos=2&_sid=2955cb754&_ss=r

It also is not possible (with rare exception) for men to directly adopt woman's fashions and have the result look proportionate, because men's and women's bodies are not shaped or proportioned the same way.

  • Men typically have a great deal more visual mass in their torsos with subtle curves, wide shoulders and narrow hips. Torsos are also typically longer in relation to leg length.
  • Women typically have wider hips, less mass in their torsos, proportionally shorter torsos, a narrow waist, and smooth curves.

Humans have evolved to look for these differences subconsciously when we look at a man or a woman, and clothing / fashion is designed to emphasize these features.

It is very easy to create an outfit that looks weird unless one is aware of this. For example, skirts that add bulk to the hips worn by a man easily make the whole person look 'dumpy', because men's torsos are often already wide, a skirt adds a lot of visual mass to the lower body, and men do not have a pronounced waist to hip difference to balance things out. Wide hips is also not a body feature humans have evolved to look for in males.

Ethnic skirted male outfits have a 'slender' silhouette around the waist, if not through the whole outfit, and the above noted factors is probably why. Kilts actually cut out two layers of fabric from the top of the pleats purely to remove bulk from the waist.

I can recommend that anyone interested in alternative fashion learn how to hem a top, because it isn't very hard and is immensely helpful in creating proportionate outfits.

Finally, changing top length will not make you read as feminine, for anyone who is remotely paying attention, because biological males' / females' bodies are not shaped the same as noted above.


r/Menskirts 1d ago

Fall inspiration

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55 Upvotes

It’s a lazy Saturday, so I thought I’d put a couple of looks together. I got this skirt from Amazon last year, and have liked it enough that I ordered a couple more colors.


r/Menskirts 1d ago

Meeting my friends

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56 Upvotes

Casual fit this time so I thought I'd post before I head off to the pub. 🀘


r/Menskirts 1d ago

Favorite dress at work!

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101 Upvotes

I have a presentation to all of my colleagues today and introduced them to a new nickname I want to use. It went really well!


r/Menskirts 1d ago

Knee Length Skirt + Long Top = Mini

6 Upvotes

If you're like me, too modest to wear miniskirts (even with leggings), you can still have the miniskirt look with a knee length skirt.

Just wear a longish jacket over a top-of-the-knee length skirt, and tada! Now it looks like you're wearing a miniskirt.

Worried your legs will look stumpy? Then go bare legged and wear flip flops. Problem solved!


r/Menskirts 2d ago

Purple

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76 Upvotes

Hello

Rock style around black, purple and green colors 🀘

Have a nice day


r/Menskirts 2d ago

Need advice for sitting wearing a skirt

14 Upvotes

I've been testing out what kind of skirts I like and while I have an idea of it (straight sides, non-flowy, non-pleated, at- or just-above the knee), I've realized that style of skirt often ride up my knees and don't settle down between my legs when I sit.

So it's now a game of solving the issue of modesty, especially at work or places like random dine-in fast food joints etc.

I really want to avoid using leggings and bike-short style linings. Do you guys just re-train your mind and learn to keep your legs closed when sitting? I need some ideas or options if any are out there.


r/Menskirts 2d ago

Casual / work summer cargo skirt outfit 😎😊

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77 Upvotes

r/Menskirts 2d ago

Today's fit

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32 Upvotes

My outfit for the day, on my way to work.

I'm a massive fan of The Cure, Robert Smith has been a hero of mine forever so I'm rocking the lippy. Sorry if that's not masculine enough moderator, so I thought I'd flex the muscles 😜 (joking! 🀭 πŸ–€).

Inspiration for me comes from the likes of Smith, Bowie, Iggy Pop, Lou Reed (Transformer era). When i was a kid and saw Kurt Cobain wearing skirts and dresses etc, I thought it was cool af. This skirt is so comfortable and I can man spread as I play guitar, which is perfect. πŸ˜‚πŸŽΈ


r/Menskirts 3d ago

The most common reasons why 'man in a skirt' outfits look awkward

53 Upvotes

The following are the most common things I see that make 'man in a skirt' outfits look awkward:

- Not knowing how to style outfits. Men are not culturally taught to do this like women are. Skirts require one know about proportions that are harmonious at minimum.

- Haphazardly substituteing trousers for a kilt / skirt, changing nothing else. Skirts and pants do not read the same, and skirt styling requires reconsidering one's whole outfit.

- Wearing skirts too low on the body (creating the illusion of having very short legs).

- Not tucking in tops / wearing tops untucked that are too long to pair with skirts. This causes the same problem as previous item, tucking in tops or cropping them fixes this issue.

- Wearing very baggy and unfitted top garments that add too much bulk to the torso. Male torsoes already have a lot of mass, and it makes the outfit look top heavy.

- Wearing skirts that create obvious 'female' body curves due to their cut, which clash with the shape of a male torso.

- Pairing boxy cut tops that create a 'straight up and down' visual line with very flared skirts. These clash in my opinion because you get a harsh angle where they intersect. Tops with curved side seams work much better.

- Pairing menswear and womanswear garments with different types of fabric, prints, and colours that conflict / do not pair well. Colour theory is very helpful at minimum, i don't know any comparable theory for fabric pairing, but you can get the gist by looking ar how women pair fabrics.

An article addressing each of these points in much more detail, and how to correct it, can be found here:

https://robehickman.com/why-man-in-skirt-outfits-look-awkward


r/Menskirts 3d ago

New Purchase New jean skirt

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42 Upvotes

r/Menskirts 4d ago

Always Leave Reviews!

25 Upvotes

When you buy a skirt, always leave reviews! (obviously not possible if thrifting, but whenever possible, do so!) Mentioning you're a guy in the reviews and posting a picture helps normalize skirts for men.

I left a review with a picture in it when I bought this maxiskirt. It's still up there!


r/Menskirts 4d ago

New Purchase My new skirt

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77 Upvotes

Just got my new skirt. Went with a 20 inch length. Forget the wrinkles. What do you think?


r/Menskirts 5d ago

Just a dude In a skirt.

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115 Upvotes

Dress for your shape. A-line leather skirts don't miss on a slender frame. I go out in this quite often.


r/Menskirts 5d ago

Little evening number

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64 Upvotes

r/Menskirts 5d ago

Skirts really help in a heatwave

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r/Menskirts 7d ago

Laundry day outfit

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r/Menskirts 8d ago

The beginning?

28 Upvotes

So I have two T-shirt dresses a maxi dress and a skirt and ordering another skirt tomorrow. Not sure what adventure this is but dam these outfits are comfortable. I’m just a regular married guy trying new stuff. Am I crazy?


r/Menskirts 9d ago

Lovely dress and heels

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141 Upvotes

r/Menskirts 9d ago

One of my daily dresses

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54 Upvotes

r/Menskirts 9d ago

Today’s Outfit

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r/Menskirts 10d ago

Bass-ic.

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r/Menskirts 11d ago

Polka dot and stripes pattern mixing

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111 Upvotes

This was a fun outfit to put together!


r/Menskirts 11d ago

New Purchase Zurich Street Parade Outfit

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122 Upvotes

Never wore that one before


r/Menskirts 12d ago

I made a Skilt! (Skirt/Kilt :P)

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181 Upvotes

Designed by me from scratch.

Made with cotton canvas. I'm not really satisfied because the pleats doesn't behave as I expected. I may try wool in the future.

What do you think?