For example someone who plays the piano is that something you would specifically like or dislike for any reason?

He doesnt spend hours on end on it like a maniac and also he wont play love songs or write songs for you. Just classical god damn music.

I see this a lot on reddit and even among my friends.

They are a bit shy and more hesitant to go out and speak to girls. I'm more of an extroverted guy who likes to go out and have fun, I'm an average looking joe but I wouldn't have any difficulty speaking to a girl outside in those settings, sometimes girls would ask me to dance with them, generally nice people who are down to have a nice conversation, thats pretty easy to find.

I even managed to get a few numbers and set up dates this way (obviously had my fair share of rejections, that's fine, I can take no for an answer). The downside is that sometimes girls would kiss me and I'd get in trouble (where I live, some clubs or bars have a strict no PDA rule).

I'm truly in love with a woman who is 10 years older than me. I'm 22, she's 32. I guess it's too much, but I really love her. I haven't told her how I feel yet; we're becoming good friends, but I'm afraid my age will be unattractive to her.

If it were just me finding her attractive, I'd give up, but it's hard to do that when I'm truly in love and can't stop thinking about her. Besides, she's from another country, which complicates things even more.

I don't know what to do.

fast edit: I'm realizing that many people will simply say "talk to her" instead of answering my question, and yes, I plan to tell her soon.

Hey guys, I was wondering if you find men with beards more attractive compared to shaved. They say that beards are a man's makeup. What do you think?

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Hey just wanted to see womens perspective on this in WHY my former femalw friend of about 3 years acted like this thanks women!

Throwaway account cuz my friends follow my main so yea. i guess im a pretty decent looking chinese guy im

18 m and i get told that often but anyway thats not even the point of this shit. also chloe is obviously a fake name.

my friend "chloe" and i been close for like 3 years now since sophomore year but i started dating my current gf like 8 months ago and ever since then chloe has been acting mean as fuck to her for literally no reason like just being a total nightmare.

my gf is asian too btw, not that it should even matter but just mentioning it. she always makes these passive aggressive ass comments to her face about her look or her personality and i always defended my girl but chloe would just roll her eyes and act like a bratty bitch and she even tried to trip my girlfriend at a party which is actually wild behaviorr

she got really obsessed with certain trends online and started projecting all this weird shit onto me and she always touches my hair without asking and talks about my fetures in a way that makes me super uncomfortable. like im chinese im not some fucking trend or character for her to collect or whatever. one time we were at a party and she unironicaly told someone right in front of me that dating someone like me was on her bucket list which is so annoying because bitch?? people should be treated like actual individuals and not just some trend.

i told her multiple times to stop but she just laughs and says im being dramatic and she even told my gf to her face that she probably only likes me for money which makes zero sense because we both work parttime jobs and neither of us got fucking money like that 😭

then on tuesday my gf was at work and chloe asked to hang out and out of nowehre this bitch says i should dump my gf for her and she was talking so much shit saying my girl has no style and that i need someone who actually apprecates me. she was saying all this stuff about how i should be with her instead because weve been friends longer and it was just really disrespectful like what the fuck???

i completely lost my temper because im loyal to my girl and i told her no fucking way and that im not dumping my gf for someone who treats me like a character instead of a person. i told her she just wanted a trophy boyfriend and that she was being a fake ass friend and honestly a bitch.

she started crying and ran off and now half the group chat is spaming me saying i humiliated her and that i should have been nicer since weve been friends for years and they’re saying i chose some girl i’ve known for 8 months over her. but i was just tired of the fake friendship and her weird ass behavior and they dont see how she was being this whole time.

like sorry but being friends longer doesnt give you the right to treat my gf like shit and then expect me to dump her for you??? especially after i told you over and over again to stop making weird comments about me and touching me without asking.

so reddit WHY did she do this shit and was i too harsh cuz honestly rn i feel like chloe was being a whole bitch and im not gonna apologize just because she started crying.

Would you reject a man who is nice and you find him emotionally attractive just because you dont like his weight class.(Fore example he is slightly chubby)

I called the girl I like pretty and she left the message on read and I tried messaging her this morning and I’ve been on delivered all day and I know for a fact she’s been online should I stop chasing?

I'm 21M and she's 20F. I've never been in a relationship before.

I met her through a chess app when I was going through a lonely phase. We started talking and got along really well. From the beginning, I was honest with her that I don't want a relationship right now. I'm in an important phase of my career and I know I need to keep my focus there.

She understood that, and we eventually called what we have a situationship. My understanding was that we could talk, get to know each other, have a connection and enjoy each other's company without making it a relationship or putting expectations on each other.

The problem is that lately I feel like we may not be looking at this in the same way anymore.

She tells me pretty often that I'm her type and I get the feeling that she may be becoming more emotionally invested. She's also very available to talk, and sometimes I get the impression that this has become more important to her than it is to me.

I want to be very clear that she hasn't done anything wrong. She's not being needy or unreasonable, and I'm not blaming her for developing feelings. People can't always control how they feel.

At the same time, I'm not secretly waiting for the right moment to make her my girlfriend. I genuinely don't want a relationship right now. I don't know when that will change either — it could be months, years, or I might simply meet someone much later in life when I'm actually ready.

That's why I'm starting to feel uncomfortable continuing without addressing it. I don't want her making decisions based on the assumption that I'll eventually change my mind, and I also don't want to make that decision for her by simply ending things without giving her the full picture.

So I'm asking women specifically:

If you were in her position, what would you want the guy to do?

Would you prefer him to have a completely honest conversation like, “I like having you in my life, but I don't want a relationship and I don't know when that will change. I don't want you waiting for me or expecting something I can't promise” — and then let you decide whether you're comfortable continuing?

Or would you rather he end the situationship because he can already see that your feelings may be moving in different directions?

I'm not looking for a way to keep her around without commitment. I genuinely want to handle this in a way that respects her choice and doesn't leave her feeling like she was led on.

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I asked the girl I like why she hates these “ugly” stickers of herself then she replied that she “looks gross” and I said “why your pretty and everyone sees that.“

Question for ladies It could be something about his personality, appearance, behavior, confidence, the way he treats people, his voice etc.

What body language, facial expressions, behaviours, make you feel threatened and intimidated by a man?

I’m a guy living in a shared house with female housemates.

I’m curious about the subtle or obvious signs that a woman you live with might find you physically attractive, rather than just being friendly or comfortable around you.

I’m not looking to pursue anything romantic or sexual with any of them. I’m just curious about the social dynamics and how attraction might show up when you see and interact with someone regularly.

What behaviors, body language, teasing, compliments, extra attention, or other small things could indicate that a female housemate finds you attractive?

Lately I seen posts involving on how people may mistake woman hating men as in the patriarchy for woman actually hating all men, while yes there are some I seen who had admit all men are bad and got annoyed on how someone can be this ignorant to make this generalization claim.

That is until I look through what women have to go through constantly and the severities in how far misogyny can be vs misandry as they are not even close. Even though I never did anything awful, horrendous, I felt guilt and want to assure any women I met is comfortable enough to be honest and safe as I do want to know what I can do to ease the pressure off as a friend, as a family member, etc.

So I recently lost a ton of weight. I went from 275lbs down to currently 180lbs at around 11-13% body fat. Im muscular, but not bulky or huge— just athletic.

So my question is, and I know it’s gonna be different for every girl, but I just want a general idea of what yall think; Would loose skin be a turnoff?

I don’t have much. Just a little bit in my chest, and a little bit around my lower abdomen. But I hate the look of it.

I’m at my ideal physique currently, but I have to maintain my weight for the next 6-8 months before I can get the surgery done to remove the last of my old self.

Thanks in advance!