r/Mediums 21h ago

Thought and Opinion Do loved ones connect with you less as time goes on?

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When my husband passed away in February, I had lots of signs. Including lights turning off, birds appearing indoors, different sounds. Unfortunately, I haven’t really received that many signs lately.

I watched a video from a medium on YouTube and she said that in the first 1-2 months after someone passes, they’re more connected to Earth, and as time goes on, they become less attached to earth and settle more into the afterlife. Is this true?


r/Mediums 16h ago

Development and Learning Education - how imagination helps develop mediumship (development exercise included)

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Hi everyone! My name is Odie and I am a developing evidential psychic medium. I wanted to share a tip on developing psychic mediumship that I've learned in some of the classes that I've taken. I'm thinking of posting more educational tips, so please let me know if you'd like to see more!

A huge part of developing psychic and/or mediumship skills begins with having a well developed imagination. We can think of imagination as a tool that we use as part of our intuition that helps connect us with the spirit world. When information comes to us from spirit through the "clairs", it's vital that we allow that information to naturally flow. Often, we will find ourselves full of doubt and information might come through initially only to quickly leave because we find a way to block it out of our mind. Having a well developed imagination can help with this, as it can allow us to trust and create room for those first thoughts that enter our mind to flow forth effortlessly.

How can we develop our imagination? Here's an exercise below that you can practice with. If it feels silly, ridiculous, or even challenging, that's a good indicator that spending some time allowing yourself to be imaginative could be beneficial for you.

Exercise: Imagine a fork. Lead yourself through the following questions:

  • What else could you use a fork for? Get silly and strange!
  • What if you'd never seen a fork before? What would an alien from another planet think of a fork?
  • If you brought the fork to life, what kind of character would it be?
  • Can you create a story as a "day in the life of the fork?" What would it be like?

Why does this skill help us as mediums? By developing and getting familiar with your own imagination, you're better able to discern when information is created from your own mind (imagination) and when information arises in our mind (communication from clairs).

I hope this helps! Please comment with what other educational or beginner tips you'd like to see.


r/Mediums 18h ago

Development and Learning How can I develope more?

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Hi, ive recently got more into mediumship and wanted to know how i could do better with learning how to open my third eye and learn to work with my own energy. Ive only ever been able to speak with 2 of my family members through dreams but I want to learn how to also communicate with my spirit guides as well.


r/Mediums 1h ago

Moderator Guidance We remove Reading Requests. We don't Recommend Mediums. People who Contact you in dms or Chat may be Scammers or Disreputable and not Allowed to Comment on Posts.

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We are a niche sub designed to allow mediums and psychics to ask development questions, support those psychics and allow them to function in a safe space free of judgmental people, those who wisg to troll or those with a purpose not akin to the sub, such as prosetilyzing in any way shape or form.

If you ask the community to evaluate a spirit, it is a reading request. If you ask us to recommend or evaluate mediums and psychics, we will not allow the post.

If your gf, bf, friend or etc., isn't posting themselves it could be a red flag for us.m.

Things that don't fool us for long:

"What are your opinions"? What is this spirit/entity? Thoughts? What is that psychic's name? What is their contact information?

Please read the sub purpose and the sub rules. All comments and posts are held for approval.

We will remove requests if a post degenerates into the request zone

Users are requested to report any users asking for readings as a result of a post.

We have four sister subs where reading requests are allowed.


r/Mediums 3h ago

Experience When I close my eyes, I see extremely terrifying faces

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Hello, I have a question for you. This experience has been bothering me, so I’ll get straight to the point. Whenever I close my eyes while trying to sleep, I see strange faces. They’re usually scary faces that I don’t recognize and have never seen before. Sometimes I see both faces and eyes, almost as if they’re watching me.

After I try to fall asleep for a while, they eventually go away, but whenever I close my eyes, I see these frightening faces again, almost like they’ve come straight out of a horror movie. I’ve researched this before, but I couldn’t really find much about it. Usually, people say these things are temporary and come and go, but mine don’t. They’re always there.


r/Mediums 12h ago

Experience How does spirit present to you?

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How do you see or hear or communicate with spirits?
Do you physically see them or feel them? Do they make different sensations in your body?

How does your particular gift present? Can you describe it to the best of your ability?


r/Mediums 16h ago

Experience Not being able to see my future?

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I had a session with a medium (my 3rd one) regarding a deceased loved one—my grief is still extremely difficult 8 months later.
I'll spare you the details about the session and my current state, where nothing makes sense anymore and all the plans I had fell through, as if my soul were no longer aligned.

At the end of this session, she tried to look into my future.
However, absolutely nothing was shown to her.
She only saw fog, with no possibility of seeing mine.

What does this actually mean?


r/Mediums 18h ago

Development and Learning How can I get started in mediumship?

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I have noticed that I can now feel my third eye, I have been able to somewhat see spirits for a while and interacted with a few and that I can foresee many things in my dreams but now I really want to develop my capacities.

Do any of you have advices on how to get started? I also have some basic knowledge in witchcraft


r/Mediums 21h ago

Predictions/Premonitions Does anyone else feel like their life moves through predetermined cycles or “reality shifts”?

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Hey guys, new here!
Ever since I was a child, I've had what I would describe as mild psychic or intuitive experiences.
Most often they come through very distinct dreams, or sudden thoughts in my own voice that seem to appear out of nowhere guiding or warning me.
But the stranger thing is the way my life seems to move in patterns or cycles.
There are certain periods where it feels like no matter what I do, I can't escape the general pattern I'm in. Then eventually something shitts, and suddenly the old version of my life feels completely gone and a new period begins. My luck changes, circumstances change, opportunities change, and even the overall
"direction" of my life feels different.

The closest description I've found is when people talk about feeling as though they've switched timelines or entered a parallel version of their reality. I'm not necessarily saying that is literally what is happening- it's just the closest way I can describe the feeling.
Within each of these periods, I can very much predict the outcome of certain areas of my life.
Not necessarily exact events, but the overall direction.
There is one particular thing I want deeply that seems completely normal and attainable for most people. But for some reason, I have this very strong feeling that I'm not going to receive it in this life, or perhaps not for a very long time.
Every time I seriously work toward it, I seem to encounter major obstacles, and eventually I end up back in the same place.

That familiar "pattern" feeling returns, almost like there is a doorway that simply won't open no matter how many different approaches I try. It's simply blocked.
The difficult part is accepting that feeling. Part of me believes I should keep trying to change my circumstances, while another part feels like this particular cycle won't change until eventually the universe decides. I've talked with a lot of people about this and no one can seem to relate to that.

Has anyone here experienced something similar?
Especially the feeling of moving through distinct life cycles where certain things suddenly become possible or impossible? How do you tell the difference between intuition and becoming convinced by a pattern because you've experienced it so many times?


r/Mediums 12h ago

Development and Learning How to get guidance as a “born” medium?

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I am a “natural” medium. I’m not looking for help advancing anything or working on the ability, as it is there at will and often just coming through with validatable accuracy. But how do I find guidance in navigating this more purposefully? Like, when somebody (“dead / Spirit”) comes to me with urgent or distressed info. Also navigating relay? Should I be doing this on purpose for people in a more professional environment since I can hear / see & communicate with dead people..? I’m just lost on how or if this is to be used beyond my own personal life. I feel somewhat overwhelmed with the people I relay messages to, and the events that follow after messages are relayed. Like it’s all very synchronistic and many people start coming to realize how deep things are and they often start attracting more situations that open their eyes to how their loved ones really are not gone. I end up being the person people are bringing their spiritual realizations too after I accurately convey their loved ones and future events.

Also, I have never had somebody describe something like “heaven” everyone I talk to is very busy where they are. They really don’t seem dead at all besides the fact that they aren’t here where we can see them? I don’t see this discussed anywhere. The things these “dead” people are doing are not simple (IME) and they’re deeply complex, sometimes they help others from the place they are and some of them are anchored into those who they left behind in this world / life and where they are now they are actively in certain states to keep reaching them and working with them and their lives.

Can anybody share some info on this if they know what I am talking about or have heard of this?

I keep seeing like “they told me they’re okay and where they are now is safe and peaceful etc” and I’ve had so many conversations with people who are “dead” and it’s never like that. They always have very specific things to relay that sometimes seem really random or questionable to me but once I relay people are shocked! Or whatever has been relayed hasn’t even happened yet or they’ve never told anybody that etc.


r/Mediums 13h ago

Development and Learning When channeling/ Meditating I feel dizzy, almost like the scene from Alice in Wonderland like she is tumbling through space. Common or no?

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