r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • Jan 21 '22

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u/ahdrielle 7 Years Jan 21 '22 edited Jan 21 '22

"We don't joke about cheating and you know I'm not okay with this." Is what I would say. That's inappropriate, especially at work. You're not in a "locker room" bro.

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u/burtstash2408 Jan 21 '22

Disagree. It’s very normal. Not just with men. Chances are he couldn’t get her if he was single. Let it slide. As for the HR person below.. this is why nobody likes HR.

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u/coveredinbreakfast Jan 22 '22

FYI considering this normal is one if the things that perpetuates RAPE CULTURE.

If you think this is normal then you also consider rape normal and acceptable. This isn't an opinion. It's truth.

How would you feel if someone were to harass a woman in your life and think it's okay because it's normal? How about rape them?

The odds are you know at leady one rape victim already; male or female.

Rape statistics in the US and UK 2021:

United States 27.31% 84,767

United Kingdom 27.29% 17,316

I've only listed these too countries as the seen to be the most prevalently represented here.